I loved a girl that loved me back, She moved to Japan, and then got enaged. I still love her. What do I do?

Question

It's been 2 and a half years since she left, and even after having other relationships, I realize that she's the only one I was willing to give anything, and whom I would trust to give me everything I needed to live happily. She's engaged now, and a few months ago ( we were talking a lot before) she invoked an indefinate hiatus on communicating with me. Given her sense of loyalty to her fiance, I can appreciate this, but I'm far from happy with it. Can a man fight for the woman he loves, from a distance that he can't financially cross due to temporary circumstances (education).
We'd known each other for 6 years before she moved away, and we shared our love of each other before she left. I've refrained from using the words "I love you", because I knew it would draw a line, a line hard to uphold over distances. However, there is nothing closer to the truth, and I still can't buy a ticket to hold her, and remind her of how i feel. Should I write her a letter, or just keep waiting?

Answer 1

There are 2 things you can do. Man-up and go get her if you loved her like you say you do you wouldn't have waited 2 years. #2 Let her go forget about it and go find another and this time if you fall in love don't let anything get in your way. P.S No writing letters' It's either pee or get off the pot.

Answer 2

Sorry, hon, but you can't even say the three words ("I love you" would be the three in case you missed that) that would get her attention. No wonder she got on a plane after she finished her business here.

Go with your heart if you feel for her but go ahead and throw down - Say "I love you" and let the woman decide what she's going to do. You may think you've given all the right signs but clearly she hasn't seen them and saw someone else's.

Good luck.

Answer 3

I have read your question very carefully. It appears that you are in very deep love with your fiancee whereas she is also in love with you. If she has gone to Japan, Never mind. it is in the world. You write him a love letter and also send Love Cards from the computer which should prove that you are still in deep love with her. If she still loves you she will respond in positive way otherwise she will not give any reply. Goood Luck. Lave her passionatly as it will be good for both of you;

Answer 4

I think u should write her a letter and tell her how u really feel bout her and tell her nothin but da truth and who know maybe sumthing good will come out of it Good Luck!

Answer 5

first write to her abt ur feeling but be ready to get harsh words and when u get them dont thnk abt any other girl for an year and so
ull forget her when u forget girls and after a year ull be a new man not remeber her
but ull have to throw all remeberence of hers

Answer 6

she went too far from u so , forget her let her go where she wants , u stand up and find another so many woman in this world , needs ur love and will loved u , go and find , and u will find more than like her

Answer 7

if she married some other guys then it means she don`t love u anymore.people change u know...go on and find some other girls worth for you.not the one who finds somebody else coz of distance problem

Answer 8

Listen to your gut and figure out what's really best for you in light of your long-range .

Answer 9

gud girls r hard to come by
dnt lose her man go for it

Answer 10

she has moved on - you need to also - it hurts - but obviously she is done. another country and a new husband - HELLO!!!