In the company I work for there's a guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. I've worked there for 18 months. I don't have a lot of experience so I'd really like some advice. He's the first guy I've been attracted to in ages. I'm 28 and he's around 35 and single. There are quite a lot of gorgeous 18-20 year old girls around the office and I don't consider myself particularly attractive, though I'm told I have a good sense of humour. Anyway, this guy is friendly and talkative around the younger ones, but seems very nervous around me. If I get within about six feet of him to ask a question he speaks loudly, seems flustered, almost annoyed, and can't get the words out quick enough. Yet,when I say goodbye at the end of the day he gives me a lovely smile and says goodbye back to me, so long as I'm standing well away from him. If I stand near him he won't look at me. When we're in a group during coffee break he talks to the others with ease, but he doesn't talk or look at me. What to do!
2006-12-14 21:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by surrealmu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he's tripping but trying to deny it within himself,give him a break,i mean try to act like u dont notice him,talk to him only when necessary,try to be on your own,make friends with only those who are interested and see where that leaves him,if he truly likes u he'll quickly notice your disinterest,if he doesn't move on with your life.but believe me if he notices your disinterest while others are interested in him he'll come to you.give it a try.
2006-12-14 22:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by tersy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try too hard, maybe he feels you are coming on to him and it makes him nervous. Let him do the work, if he is interested he will come around and make the first move. Be pleasant but don't go out of your way. Patience...good luck
2006-12-15 05:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear! the problem is simple:
you are a bit confused and he is just SHY.
He likes you definitely. Help him get over his shyness. He will always be thanking you for that. Show that you are mature enough to understand. He will respect you lifelong for that.
Go ahead, make his day and your life. All the best!
2006-12-15 05:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tease him about being nervous! tell him there's no need to be nervous around you. He does like you. My boyfriend, before we started going out, was always nervous around me and stumbled over his words. so go for it!!!! you've got nothing to lose!
2006-12-15 05:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by viciousmishious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's awkward because he's a man...interested
if you're interested keep being you
a game i played and won is "seek and conquer"
don't be intimidated by those "school girls"
a song goes "you got to use what you got to get what you want"
so do it
2006-12-15 05:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by mommyseldest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get him alone and talk to him as he soo likes you, thats why he cant speak to you that well.
Once he knows that you dont bite then he will talk to you better.
(Find something that you have in common)
2006-12-15 05:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by Luke B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to strike a conversation with him.
if he seem happy or blushes,
he obviously likes you.
so when it`s break time or something,
ask him to join you.
i think he`ll be glad to. :D
2006-12-15 05:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋