I met this guy through the internet dating service e-harmony. After exchanging only a few emails, he asked me if he could come and visit me in the town in which I live that happens to be six hours away. We met, and went out to dinner. I really like the guy, but I am NOT physically attracted to him at all. I find him repulsive in that regard. However, he is extremely attracted to me, and wants to maintain contact with me. He has been saying that he wants to come back next weekend, and I don't know what to say. He is a very nice, sweet person who has suffered misfortune in his life. The idea of hurting someone's feelings absolutely kills me inside, and I don't know how to handle the situation. I can't use the I'm getting back with my exboyfriend excuse because my profile is still up on e-harmony, and I'm not taking it down. Any advice?
2006-12-14 21:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try the biology!!!
2006-12-14 21:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you find him very sweet but, you just see him as a friend and nothing more. Tell him you would like to stay in touch but he is just not your type. Next time try and get a picture before you decided to meet.
2006-12-15 05:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋