I'm in love but he's taken! what can I do? Now he's my friend and he cares about me and his gf is my friend too! please help!
2006-12-14 21:53:39 · 15 answers · asked by amy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave them alone. Wish them well, and look for some one else suitable for you.
2006-12-14 21:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I don't know how old you are. I'm twenty nine, and I am still single. The one thing that I wished that I had known when I was younger is that there are millions of other guys out there, as that other lady had mentioned. I am a pretty good looking woman, and I can get dates. However I started getting into the internet dating thing and I really love it. I've probably gone on thirty or more dates in my whole entire life, and one of the guys I was seeing took me on a trip to Tahiti. Once you do the internet thing you will see just how many guys there are out there. It will blow your mind. It is almost to the point where I can honestly think well, if it doesn't work there is a million more where he came from and it is the truth! So, if you are over eighteen I seriously suggest you become a member of oneof these sites-jut make sure it is a reputable classy website like e-harmony, or match.com. It gives you the opportunity to get to know a very diverse group of people all around the world. My adivice is this. Do the internet thing-and once you see what is available I promise you that it will be very easy to forget him. And NO they are not all freaks and losers (at least they aren't at e-harmony, or match.com). I've dated doctors, lawyers, investment bankers That I believe is the right thing to do. It will get your mind off of this guy, and there is a very good chance that you might meet someone who you love more than this person. You love your friend's boyfriend, and you love your friend. If you try to break up the relationship you could end up losing both.
2006-12-14 22:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let him go. If his GF is your friend as well then you need to respect the friendship and your friend. It hurts a lot when a friend trys to take you boyfriend. I was in a situation where my so called best friend slept with and had a relationship with my estranged husband and the father of my children. It hurt so much when I found out that they had been sleeping together and having a relationship. I still don't know if he was having an affair with her while we were still married. When i found out, I had not only lost my marriage (which I left but it was still tough going) but I also lost my friend.
So please, leave well enough alone and let their relationship run it's course and if they break up then you can ask him out if you're single.
Good Luck
2006-12-14 22:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is life. Should life be taken seriously or with a carefree disposition? Hopefully the answer is both. Take it as it comes. Let it take you. It has the all-encompassing potential to find a home in all of you- all your dispositions from poignancy to silliness. I think that is why I feel it is such a miracle. It can engulf you and emancipate you at the same time if you let it. I suggest taking an extra jacket! :)
2016-03-29 08:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. What good will come out of going after him if he is taken by your friend? Absolutely nothing. Best thing to do is to forget about him, find someone else and move on. By the way, I don't mean to sound mean, but it just sounds like a crush.
2006-12-14 22:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do in this case, for the time being, is gracefully bow out.
You may get your chance in the future to be with this guy, but right now you are risking breaking up 2 friendships and a relationship. That just doesn't seem worth it to me.
2006-12-14 21:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in love but his taken so just for get him an find your own guy you dont want to end up with no friends do you now...
2006-12-14 21:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say Follow ur heart if u really Love him let him no and i no his gf is ur friend but shes just ur friend rite? cuz if she is ur best friend den dats when u need to just leave it alone and go find another dude but if shes just ur friend regardless u should tell him how u feel at least u told him dats all it counts
2006-12-14 22:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by leah95_7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are two many guys swimming up stream looking for a mate, forget this one and move on.
2006-12-14 21:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a bummer! i dont know really, you could tell him how you feel, try impress him, ask urself this... are you prettier than his gf???? lol.... if so then go for it, if your confident enuf try it on with with him see how he reacts, thers nothin wrong with a bit of flirtingis ther! go for it hun, good luck, am in the same situation its not nice is it! x
2006-12-14 21:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋