Singles & Dating - 14 December 2006

if your boyfriend talks to his ex girlfriend that went out for a year and some months..and his ex is tryin to get back at him and saying stuff like "your not goin to pick me over her" but she hurt him..what do you do? should you get mad? or what?

2006-12-14 18:02:13 · 11 answers · asked by lalala 1

Especially guys when it comes to women. If they don't love me for me then the hell with them.

2006-12-14 18:01:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-14 18:00:57 · 21 answers · asked by Kalpana Z 1

Ive known this girl for a while now and we are pretty much good friends. Shes not drop dead gorgeous but shes decent looking. She has a great personality and that what attracts me to her. But im afraid to persue her because of what people would say. Its like something is holding me back. Can I love a girl for her personality more than looks?

2006-12-14 17:59:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

He and I are loved by all and many want to see us go thru and be happy and many others feel it;s weird, wrond, immoral, etc.... btw... we are both over 30

2006-12-14 17:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by Appolnia_76 2

I seem to attract guys that cheat. Every guy I've dated in the last few years has ended up cheating on me.

I am a little lost, and maybe I'm doing something wrong. My friends( and especially my best friend - a guy) tell me that I'm and easy going funny, outgoing kinda chick. And I like to think I am too. I have never been a whiner or anything. I don't mind my guy going to the pub most nights or hangin with his mates etc I don't even mind him flirting ( you can look but you can't touch) I myself like to hang at the pub and play pool etc. I still cook and clean and work and all the "wifey" stuff. And I like sex just as much as any guy out there. And yet despite all the freedom they have they find the need to cheat. What am i doing wrong?? Am I giving them too much freedom to run with??

2006-12-14 17:55:56 · 11 answers · asked by loza500 3

P.S. I'm 20, so I'm old enough to be sexy or glamorous.

2006-12-14 17:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by Swedish Meatball 87 1

I make people laugh and most people feel uncomfortable around me. Sadly, this means I don't pull off the strong, silent type very well. Can I still be attractive?

2006-12-14 17:53:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy I liked and work with called me while he was jerking off. I wasn't really sure what to do because he has a girlfriend so I tried to just be cool about it. He later told me it didn't mean anything and that there would never be anything between us. I am good friend's with a friend (lets call her jane) of his and his girlfriend's though and now he feels weird to be around me and her. I feel this is his fault and refuse to quit being friends with Jane. He makes comments to Jane about why is she still my friend and things of this nature and tells her he does not want me to come when they go out or she has a get together (she wants me to). I am angry about this and have told him so. He thinks I am being unreasonable and says he is not trying to make her choose. I say he is. Who is right? Jane also works with us so she is trying to stay polite to him. She also wants to stay friends with me and his girlfriend.

2006-12-14 17:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't belive it anymore down in my heart i don't? So? Where from here?

2006-12-14 17:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by sammy 6

i don't belive it anymore down in my heart i don't? So? Where from here?

2006-12-14 17:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by sammy 6

my firend i cosider my lil sister till a couple weeks ago when i woke up and realized that she was hot. and when that hapend i started acting like a total dumbass being really really clumsy around her and always blushing.
but thats really wierd for me cuz i never do that around other women and i dont try to impress people because i always say that the can accept me or go away.
its hard for me to tell if she evr treid to flirt with me cuz im used to more here i come tacks from women.
and shes really quite. that phase passed and now its back except that this time were both blushing and being clumsy. but its really ackward cuz i already have a gf for some reason my gf has been walking in suprised to see me with my friend so much ( one time my friend was laying right on top of me cuz i acidently tripped and she came down with me the prof that it was only an accident was the huge knot on my head ! )
so what the hell is going on ?

2006-12-14 17:50:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

She left me , i love her alot, I miss her alot

2006-12-14 17:49:46 · 20 answers · asked by AnsSh 1

where is the limit line where your obssessed, clingy and jzt being a good girlfriend..and

how do you not get attached so soon because you don't want to get hurt?

2006-12-14 17:49:09 · 8 answers · asked by lalala 1

I'm currently involved with a guy for about a year and a half now. He's more devoted to this relationship than i am. The problem started ever since i told him that i'm moving overseas for good because I have been offered a good job opportunity. He's not willing to let go of me and wants to continue "us" as a long distance relationship but frankly speaking i dont feel the same.

Recently i found out that my ex is also there (the place that i'm moving to) who i was very much in love with (and vice versa). Ever since my ex found out that i'm moving to the same place as him he says that all those feelings that he felt for me (when we were together) have rushed back and he can't wait to see me and be with me and to be honest i feel the same way.

So i'm kind of torn between the two. I feel i should be with the one i love (the ex) but i feel awful leaving my current bf like that cos he is very much in love with me. What should i do?

please give genuwine advice only.

2006-12-14 17:47:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been born into a fortunate life, and would like to share it with a woman who, through no fault of her own, has been born into an unfortunate life. In Australia, woman can get help from the government if they have become a widow or no longer a have a partner to help raise their children. Also, education is easily available to nearly all. If this is not the case for some woman in India, that doesnt mean that they are any less of a person, just in a bad situation. If I travel to India, what are some relaxed ways to get to know women in unfortunate circumstances?

2006-12-14 17:47:10 · 11 answers · asked by reuben b 1

im 19 years old and i dont konw how to have ESS EEE EXX
where do you learn........ why dont i know? im so left out?....
this is akward...

2006-12-14 17:45:51 · 24 answers · asked by mamiii 1

Guys who try to get into a woman's head by playing mindgames with her.

2006-12-14 17:42:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-14 17:41:09 · 20 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2

2006-12-14 17:41:04 · 8 answers · asked by Eva 1

I go to school with this amazing girl. We started out as friends, and we'd talk all the time in class and online. After a while, I realized she wanted to be more than friends, and that made me uncomfortable. See, I was completely attracted to her in every way but physically. At the time, she was really overweight and no matter how much I wanted to, I couldn't find her physically attractive. She'd ask to hang out, and whether she meant it as friends or more, I don't know, but I'd say I had plans so she never got the wrong idea.

Well, now she's dropped all of the weight and she looks fantastic. We were still friends up until I asked her out, and she told me, flat out, no, because she was still the same person as before and even though she STILL LIKES ME, she couldn't deal with the fact that I only like her now because she's attractive.

But I liked her before! I just wasn't attracted until now. Am I wrong to pursue her? Should I give up or talk to her about it?

2006-12-14 17:40:01 · 13 answers · asked by Ghost Melody 1

2006-12-14 17:39:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my college psychology professor belives the person who cares less about a relationship tends to have the most power over ah relationship than the person who cares more about a reltionship is that true. and if it is how could u ues that in the dateing world

2006-12-14 17:39:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

can she just hit it and quit it without wanting 2 cuddle ?

2006-12-14 17:37:54 · 23 answers · asked by pariah6 1

and move on with my life?

2006-12-14 17:37:09 · 7 answers · asked by kieth tari................. 1

ok.... I have tried all of the good advice like "be your self."and every other advice that I have heard and non of anything tends to work. So should I just stop looking for a date. I do have a lot of confidence and very proud of the things that I do. I just bum out at dating.....I will respond to all e-mails so be real with the answers.

2006-12-14 17:35:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-14 17:33:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy hasn't worked or done any volunteer work in 4 years. His mother supports him, although he doesn't live with her. He's also a chronic pot smoker. Mom buys his groceries, he does his laundry at her place, and he uses her address for his bills, which probably means she's paying his expenses. I've only known him two weeks but I see red flags here. I'm just feeling like I should run the other way - and probably will. By the way - he's 46! He had a low-paying career prior to stopping work, so I imagine he has little savings and requires her help. The whole thing just doesn't feel right.

2006-12-14 17:33:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my question is that do girls like being hugged / cuddled / kissed alot? Because my girlfriend alway tells me on the phone how much she wants me to just hold her and I wish could at that time but I couldn't do anything. But then when I see her like at school, I'd hug for for a really long time but then she would like let go. It feels like she doesn't want to be hugged too long.
So ya, help me out girls ;).

2006-12-14 17:31:40 · 23 answers · asked by davi921 2

Recently, after I use some pos dating site. I have met a boy friends at : http://stddating.tripod.com. He request me to come his city and meet his friends. It only about two weeks after we exchange the telephone No. Should I spent my Christmas with my new BF who I meet on a dating site? Would you please give your advice?

2006-12-14 17:26:49 · 9 answers · asked by Emily R 1