Singles & Dating - 12 December 2006

I have no problem attracting guys but once things start getting deep & we're getting to know eachother miore & more I always let my insecurities get the best of me (unconsciously but perpetually) & i suppose go overboard & become to overbearing and scare them away...
any help?advice?PLS...!?
GUYS?GIRLS?

2006-12-12 10:31:57 · 24 answers · asked by Cooxie 2

so a little for the gals and a little for the guys

2006-12-12 10:31:31 · 9 answers · asked by Cassandra 3

This guy who i really like is so confusing. First off he has a girlfriend. Me and him know each other pretty good and when we are at church which is mostly when i see him he acts like he is interested in me and flirts a little. At school though we dont see each other that often but when we do he doesnt talk much. What does this mean?

2006-12-12 10:31:19 · 16 answers · asked by mcgwire40 1

I invited a male friend to a party at a pub. He's not my boyfriend but I was using it as a chance to get to know him better. I really want to date this guy. Two other girls and myself were treating our adult students to drinks at this pub. I thought since I was paying for the students, I should cover for my male friend too. I treated him to an appetizer too. He seemed shocked that I wanted to pay. He offered money for the drinks and I said no, that it was okay. He seemed a little hurt. Did I do something really wrong? I felt like I was treating him because he bought me a drink last time. Later, I felt bad--like I was refusing his generosity. I think this hurt my dating chances. He didn't seem so enthusiastic in his voice when he said "maybe we'll see each other again soon". My female friends think I was a dunce. They always make their guys pay or at least go dutch.

2006-12-12 10:30:19 · 25 answers · asked by sugar1973 2

Four years ago, at the age of 23, I dated a man who was ten years older than me. At that time, all of my friends thought he was TOO old for me. Our relationship didn't work out and I always figured that one of the reasons was the age difference. We have remained friendly and have talked occassionally over the years. I just found out that he is dating a 23 year old, who he is now 14 years older than! I just saw her and she has a very nice figure and large fake breasts. Obviously he finds her attractive, but it is hard for me to imagine that he could be so shallow. I would think that there would be a HUGE difference in their maturity and intellect and they wouldn't have much in common. I always thought of him as a nice and intelligent man who needed an emotional connection with a woman instead of just phsyical. I would think he would need more in a relationship than just a phsyical attraction. Why don't most men need that too like women do? How can they be so shallow?

2006-12-12 10:30:09 · 18 answers · asked by Erin M 2

I hurt him by walking away from him, when he was probably thinking everything is going well in our 6 year relationship. It shouldn’t have surprised him cause I have done this many many time.. And most of the time because it was all my fault and I would blame it on him. But recently we were doing okay and we were having a lots of fun...but I ended the relationship because he said a bad joke and after I realize it really was a joke...as always I said sorry and usually he would say nothing but we would be together again but now he is giving me the silent treatment. I really love him we have a lot of history together and a puppy..which he bought for me...I really want him back but he doesn’t give me the chance to tell him how I feel..How do I break his silent treatment?

2006-12-12 10:28:11 · 8 answers · asked by CHICK 1

Why are ugly or fat chicks always the coolest to talk to and most hot chicks have no personality. I swear if some of my ugly chick friends were hot, I'd marry them right now!
I swear it seems like the hot chick have lower self esteem then the ugly fat ones.

2006-12-12 10:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by c_wilson2k5 2

I feel very strongly about this woman and she is aware of my feelings. She is currently with someone else, so a relationship is out of the question. We have a very up and down relationship, we can go for days without speaking and then a day later we can become inseperable. Things are very good at the moment.
Today we were talking and she just came out with it. "You're so unpredictable" She even said that all other men are predictable, all except me. It sounds like a good thing to me but i'm not sure. Maybe i'm seeing what i want to see.

2006-12-12 10:25:58 · 23 answers · asked by David S 1

This girl I lover her looks, personality, and everythignab out here. we see each other at the hall but im too shy to say hi and if i do say hi i say it with a low voice. i help her in any way i can and treat her differently. when im around her i feel nervous and cant seem to concentrate. i liker her so much.. mostly because she was the one who talked to me first and smiled. i think she likes me too which is a good thing because im always nice to her and make her laugh

2006-12-12 10:24:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you rather have a wife/girlfriend/mate who is a really good cook & cooks all the time, or is really good at giving head & does it all the time? Personally, I go for the second! I can pick up a menu & order Thai any time. What do you guys think?

2006-12-12 10:23:48 · 14 answers · asked by rustyreacharound 2

i wonder if its just mine, or if there are others..........my mate says its just a male thing, dont know if im reading to much into things...i get upset because i think he doesnt care.......maybe im just to emotinal

2006-12-12 10:23:01 · 16 answers · asked by Supergirl 2

My best friend jemo and i have been friends for about 3 years now.secretly ive been liking him all this time lol hes always flirted with me and i think he might like me to but he hasnt said anything.now he recently broke up with his girlfriend and has been flirting more than he usually does with me.now i want to tell him how i feel but i dont kno how to say it to him i need to get it off my chest.but how do i say it without sounding to forward or idk im taking all ideas.he always pushes me to stop being so shy and speak how i feel in general

2006-12-12 10:21:13 · 8 answers · asked by renee t 1

Why do some insecure, not-particularly-attractive men try to date women who are way out of their league and then just wind up trying to put the woman down? I am speaking specifically about a short, scrawny, very average-in-every-way man I know, who is chronically insecure. He will date a woman who is goodlooking and way more successful and instead of enjoying it he will make negative little comments about the woman, in a desperate attempt to make her doubt herself - presumably so she won't realize she can do WAY better than him. It seems really twisted that these kinds of nondescript men would try to build themselves up by putting somebody else down. I'm talking about men who make passive aggressive comments about everything from her weight to her speaking voice. Unless the woman is actually retarded, there is no way that a woman with a lot going for her is going to put up with Joe Ordinary constantly cutting her down. Ladies, if a man claims you're too good for him: you are! :

2006-12-12 10:19:54 · 19 answers · asked by ohmygoodness! 1

I've been dating my boyfriend for10 months now and I really want to kiss him. I think maybe it's just like he's afraid of being rejected 'cause he's REALLY shy and I don't know what's going through his head. I love him more than I've ever loved anything and he feels the same (he said so) so what do I do?

2006-12-12 10:18:44 · 25 answers · asked by Francesca 2

you do love the person, but find it impossible to make them relax and be truely happy, he so insercure and stresses out all the time, i dont think theres any need for it, he says he does trust me,hes been hurt in the past and terrified im going to leave him, i dont want to.........but there only so much you can take........i get questioned over everything!!!

2006-12-12 10:17:46 · 27 answers · asked by Supergirl 2

I just started hanging out with this guy that I stopped talking to about 6 months ago because my boyfriend at the time found out we were talking and hit the guy over the head with a pipe. I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago and have started talking to this guy again. This new guy likes hanging out with me alot and calls me all the time,but he says he's worried that I will go back to my ex. Also, a couple days ago his ex-girlfriend found out we were talking again a freaked out! She got my phone number and calls me to threaten me. Well now he's acting weird and sending me mixed signals. One day he says hes thought alot about this and definately wants to be with me, the next he says we need to not rush into things becuase I just got out of a 3 year relationship..I have NO idea what to think about this situation.He tells me he really likes me and thinks about me all the time, but then I dont always know if he actually does...HELP!!

2006-12-12 10:17:44 · 7 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1

you want from your girlfriend? what do u expect from her?? just curious, don't tell me sex cause i give him that all the time..lol

2006-12-12 10:17:31 · 1 answers · asked by ~broken~ 3

No guys seem interested in me, will anyone ever date me?

2006-12-12 10:15:49 · 21 answers · asked by livelaughlove 2

because everytime i walk by him he looks at me from head to toe then he grabbes me hugs me and he blows in my ear playfight with me and tells me "you know you love me" and we keep braking up and getting back together he even told me to call him.....oh yea and i still love him....

2006-12-12 10:14:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many guys would want a genuine, long-lasting relationship with a girl who is saving her virginity for marriage? I'm a girl who is 21 years old, and I think that it will be very hard for me to find a guy who will be willing to make a geunie commitment to me since he would know that he ain't getting sex. Lots of guys say I'm beautiful and I have dated a few guys but it never works out cuz they can't wait. They seem to end it after a while, making up some excuse when I know that it's becuase of the no-sex thing. It is flattering to get hit by guys, but I'm scared to start anything with them cuz I know that most guys just want sex and I won't be able to give that to them. It seems as though my beauty and sweet personality is not enough for them, they need sex badly.
Guys what do you think? Where can I find a guy who will want to commit to me?

2006-12-12 10:12:48 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1

Theres this guy i like and i think hes into me but he hasnt asked me out yet. Is it wrong for a girl to ask a guy out and should i ask him out?

2006-12-12 10:12:05 · 33 answers · asked by l2d#7 2

Well, how do they flirt? Dudes point of view would be nice

2006-12-12 10:10:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

do alot of guys do this?, im finding it hard being in this relationship,he says its just the way he is, the argument could be resolved as soon as its started as its usually over petty things that one of us has picked up wrongly, but instead he just chooses to ignore me for days........i think its immature,but i do love him, but dont know how to handle this situation, i feel he playing mind games with me, to hurt me as if to hurt me back for upsetting him, and it makes me feel down, cause if you love someone you wouldnt hurt them would you? he says he loves me, but i think it easy to say, actions speak louder......i have tried talking to him!!!

2006-12-12 10:09:25 · 13 answers · asked by Supergirl 2

Would you like to have phone S@X with someone you been talking with for about 2 months????

2006-12-12 10:08:55 · 17 answers · asked by JINE GIRL 2

2006-12-12 10:08:31 · 9 answers · asked by . 6

Im starting 2 think Im sleeping wth a lot of men...jst curious.

2006-12-12 10:08:02 · 9 answers · asked by Emily 1

i'm a high school girl i thought i was ok lookin but i guess not cuz all myfriends have boyfriends and don't i suppose im flatchested is that y no guys like me? are boys really that shallow?

2006-12-12 10:06:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because that's me. Try as i might i cannot put on weight (Or height for that matter ;-) ) Is there any point me carrying on with the fantasy that i might meet a girl or should i give up?

2006-12-12 10:06:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

What you think?
Did you listen to someone advice in here?

2006-12-12 10:05:34 · 8 answers · asked by PR 4

is it the way he dresses?
His smooth talk?
His thuggish attitude?
Mr. Niceguy?
His scent?
His style?
Wuuussuupp??

2006-12-12 10:05:25 · 9 answers · asked by j-chris 1