This guy who i really like is so confusing. First off he has a girlfriend. Me and him know each other pretty good and when we are at church which is mostly when i see him he acts like he is interested in me and flirts a little. At school though we dont see each other that often but when we do he doesnt talk much. What does this mean?
2006-12-12 10:31:19 · 16 answers · asked by mcgwire40 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants to cheat on his girlfriend with you!
2006-12-12 10:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, this is what i think is goin on. He's using as a time passer. To him, you are someone who is there (entertainment) and he probably sees you as being attractive, so thats why he chose you. Or maybe he likes your personality or whatever the case may be. But..... yes, if he likes you..why does he only talk to you in church... it is the place of the lord.. he would want to be stank there.. but at school he has no obligation to be nice or acknowledge your presence. Maybe you should straight ask him, what the deal? If you dont want to do that then maybe you can hint at it , but basically you need to know before this escalate into you liking him, him playing you, and his girlfriend startin a whole lot of drama that she cant handle. But I hope he really likes you and is just a little uncomfortable at school environment, I hope everything works out for the best.
2006-12-12 10:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by believe19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is being nice to you and hes interested in being friends. If he already has a girlfriend that is proubly why he keeps his distance and doesnt talk alot when he does see you. He may not want you to get the wrong impression.
If he really does like you he maybe trying to figure out his feelings if hes with someone else and see how you react. I would give him sometime to break things off with his girlfriend before pursuing anything further than friendship.
You could try asking him when hes talking to you how him and his girlfriend are doing casually and see how he responds. good luck
2006-12-12 10:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he may like you a little, but he has a gf. I wouldn't even give him a second thought. Teenage guys have the ability of liking a lot of girls at once, and they get confused and don't know if they should dump the one they're with or just stay. Untill this relationship has ended, I would just be friends with him, and not read into anything.
2006-12-12 10:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he flirting or just being nice to you.
Some times people confuse flirting with simply being friendly.
Since he doesn't really talk to you outside of school he doesn't want anything more.
Next time you think he's flirting with you give him a little laugh and ask..
lol ya know stuff like that..lol
2006-12-12 10:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Studio A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at church sounds like no one there knows his girlfriend. at school alot of people know his girlfriend. He is just being careful not to be in the dog house with the girlfriend.I would go up to him in church and ask him whats up with that.
2006-12-12 10:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he isn't a very nice person or trustworthy. If he has a girlfriend and acts like that, imagine if he dated you, he would be flirting with others girls somewhere else where you weren't.
Be his friend but nothing else because like you realized by now he isn't very honest with you or his girlfriend.
2006-12-12 10:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mary7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not really sure i have been through this before if any of his friends are around he dont talk to me because they talkin about hot girls........ ok so what ever is what i think he's probly just trying to show off.if his girl friend is near him he probly doesn't want her to think some things up with you and him. guys can flirt sometimes and not even realize that there doing it. trust me. well good luck on your problem
2006-12-12 10:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are naturally flirtatious. I wouldn't read to much into it. He likes his girlfriend not you.
2006-12-12 10:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well probably because he has a girlfriend and he is trying to be faithful to her.
2006-12-12 10:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋