i'm a high school girl i thought i was ok lookin but i guess not cuz all myfriends have boyfriends and don't i suppose im flatchested is that y no guys like me? are boys really that shallow?
2006-12-12 10:06:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't sell yourself short, not all guys are that "shallow". If they were, there would be an entire generation of women that were single!
When you meet the right person they will love you for who you are, not who you can impress with the size of your chest. There is lots more to a "person" than the size of the breasts!
Best of luck..............
2006-12-12 10:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that my response is going to be much help to you right now....in any case, don't give up. Don't give in, either! Look for guys in new places, and be willing to see someone you think might not be your type. On the other hand, when it's obvious to you that you're not getting anything out of the relationship, don't be afraid to say goodbye. Relationship experience should be fun, but ultimately, it's not necessary to have a lot of it before you can finally settle down sometime in the future.
I think people really are that shallow while they're in high school...but then again, I think high school is all about various levels of shallowness. For example, I'm sure there are plenty of guys willing to date you whom you've never looked at, and whom you would never date because you consider them to be "not for you" for one reason or another. The problem is that most people in high school are going fishing in tiny ponds - not bothering to look outside their exclusive social circles.
2006-12-12 18:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by allimarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that many boys are shallow, but there are also many boys who are just plain shy and are terrified to approach a girl...or maybe they are all too worried about what their friends will think if they dont go for the girl with a big chest. You are young and the boys are out there... relax a little and watch them...then you go and approach one of the ones who are not drooling over the girl with the big chest.... they will be the good ones worth going out with.
2006-12-12 18:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by judy-ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys in high school are immature. I had the same problem in high school and as soon as I got into college I met a REAL man lol. Anyways, I don't think that all guys are that shallow. Not all guys come forward and tell you that they like you, he might just be shy.
2006-12-12 18:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by remery20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are shallow,but I think maybe your low self esteem shows which is a turn off to guys. Believe it or not looks aren't everything.Boys want someone with a good personality also and that has a good attitude.
2006-12-12 18:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by J♥R♥R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are in high school, don't expect much from us. I am different from other guys in the way that looks aren't as big an issue. But even if you flat-chested, it doesn't mean guys won't go out with you. And to the poeple above me, if you can't find a guy who cares about you, thats your problem, don't go blaming all of the men out there.
2006-12-12 18:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt mean your not pretty just because your flat-chested and just because you dont have a guy doesnt mean your not pretty-maybe your just shy or not putting out any "date me signals".If by chance you really arent pretty-dont sweat it-I was okay in high school and I've been getting prettier as I get older...and yes boys are really shallow especially high school boys.Dont look for approval from those who dont matter you may work for something that can never be gained and although it sounds cliche-trust and love yourself.
2006-12-12 18:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell off boys that fast. Even know alot of us girls includong me might have big chest full of stuff doesnt mean they get all drully over it. There is nothing wrong with you! Dont get rushed let the right guy come to you!
2006-12-12 18:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day you probably will knock their socks off. stay young as long as you can, you might try being a tom boy, I love tom boys, and man, let put it this way, you will come out on top every time. guys really dig it. hope this answer doesn't sound to stupid. I am in a rare mood. have fun, don't worry, you will be OK
2006-12-12 18:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by jh452004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl,
Trust and believe me!!! U will find the one and trust me, when u do he will definitely be the one!!! It seems like it will never happen but the one u find will except u for who u r, and will be u'r dream guy!!! Even though your Friends have boyfriends and u may want one also, just know that they'll want u'r guy once u have him so watch u'r back!! LOL!!! Keep Ya Head Up Gurl!!
2006-12-12 18:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by preppy_princess693 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋