Theres this guy i like and i think hes into me but he hasnt asked me out yet. Is it wrong for a girl to ask a guy out and should i ask him out?
2006-12-12 10:12:05 · 33 answers · asked by l2d#7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's just say that I am happily married now because I called my husband and asked him out on a date. I liked him so much that when the # in the campus directory was wrong and I got his parent's at home instead of him on the line I just asked THEM for his CORRECT phone #. GO FOR IT..life is too short!
2006-12-12 10:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look honey it's 2006 and things have changed. There's nothing wrong with asking a guy out if that's what you want to do. If I wanted to go out with a guy I would ask him but I would ask him out on a simple date that way if he's not interested then you didn't waste a lot of time or money.
2006-12-12 10:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by mnmpeices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say,If you truly want something in life you have to go for it. No one is going to lay it out in front of you for the taking.Nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out.As a matter of fact it usually works better because guys sometimes feel like they are being a pest by asking women out.= and fear being rejected.If you ask him out it will make him more relaxed and it will all turn out more smoothly from the beginning.
2006-12-12 10:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure i think you should ask him out cause if you don't them you won't get anywhere. And Maybe her hasn't asked you out yet because he might be too shy i know lots of guys that are really shy and i really hate that because i wish that if they like you to just forget about the shyness and go on with what he really feels.
If most of the guys were like that it would be the coolest thing ever but there are some guys that are so not shy they are really outgoing. But for sure if you ask him out thing will go farther and i bet that he will be happy for you being brave enough to ask him out.
2006-12-12 10:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by ~Beautiful~ & ~Gorgeous~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is not wrong i've made the first move alot of times, but my friend never made the move on a guy that she liked and she losed him. So what is there to lose ? Just go do it I promise you won't regret it even if he does say no. If he says no you won't be as scared to ask people because like that you are going to become more confident.
Of course if he doesn't like you at all and you know he doesn't then 4get it
2006-12-12 10:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to ask a guy out. Some of them are too shy to ask the girl. And trust me they love it when a girl takes charge of something like going for someone you want. If you want someone or something in life you need to take chances. You will never know unless you try. :)
2006-12-12 10:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was a time when the Sadie Hawkins day the girls ask the guys out, i don't know if this tradition still exists. but times really have not changed much since the Romans. some guys might think it a bit forward, but if this guy is a bit shy, he will love you for it. ask away. you have my blessings, that doesn't mean much but anyway.
2006-12-12 10:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by jh452004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. Where in the world did you hear of that? I personally think it's a fine thing to do since you're taking a step into trying to get something you want. I was the one that told this guy that I like him since I like him and he doesn't seem to notice me. It doesn't seem wrong or anything.
2006-12-12 10:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Sarahie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think its wrong for a girl to make the first move, its totally ok
2006-12-12 10:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by supersteveee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother asked my father out....its been 30 years and 2 kids later....you finish the rest of the story
2006-12-12 10:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋