I've been dating my boyfriend for10 months now and I really want to kiss him. I think maybe it's just like he's afraid of being rejected 'cause he's REALLY shy and I don't know what's going through his head. I love him more than I've ever loved anything and he feels the same (he said so) so what do I do?
2006-12-12 10:18:44 · 25 answers · asked by Francesca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly what he's going through, I have been going out with this girl for a few months, and I'm afraid to kiss her, and I don't know if I should, sometimes, i wish she would do it, so I wouldn't have to worry about it, so go for it, you'll both be glad you did.
Dave
2006-12-12 10:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be spontaneous, that's my thought. Just throw it in like it's casual, just at the right moment...like going through the hallway or going to a dance together. I recommend your first be a kiss you give him when you're leaving the place. That way, he has time to pick his jaw back up off the floor and think about this. The next day, ask him if he minded it. If he says anything like "I was surprised", don't worry -- it's usually translated to "that caught me off guard, but maybe I wouldn't mind another one."
If he says he liked it, great! All the better! If he tells you he wants to wait a while longer before the next one, don't worry -- he just doesn't know how to process this new information, and it will get through him eventually.
Good luck with your smooching!! :D
2006-12-12 10:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tawny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somewhere where you can be alone and feel relaxed. Then just tell him you think he has such nice lips and you want to kiss them. Lean in and let him come some of the way. You should be having your first kiss in no time!.
2006-12-12 10:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got my first kiss on the first day of going out with the guy. But every guy is different. Although after ten months...that's just plain creepy. I guess one day you could just kiss him first.
2006-12-12 10:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by sassysassle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunnie in my opinion when you are talking to him just kiss him right away. It'll make the moment sparkle. Just trust trust me you'll be amazed of what the results would be.. IN A GOOD WAY.
2006-12-12 10:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by squeeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are younger than 15, he should've kissed you by now. Just kiss him first. Make the first move, he'll be happy you took the pressure off him, unless of course he's gay.
2006-12-12 10:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan's Ma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just when u to r talkin tell him to kiss u, or like just be with him and kiss him good bye and turn it into a real kiss.
2006-12-12 10:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by julia l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready to kiss him then there is no harm in kissing him. You can make the first move. Good luck in all that you do!
2006-12-12 10:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him! You should have had the first kiss within the first month.
2006-12-12 10:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with the check and work ur way over. he will no u want a kiss
2006-12-12 10:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋