i wonder if its just mine, or if there are others..........my mate says its just a male thing, dont know if im reading to much into things...i get upset because i think he doesnt care.......maybe im just to emotinal
2006-12-12 10:23:01 · 16 answers · asked by Supergirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, mine is sweet and never is intentionally mean to me.
I'm always suspicious when a guy says " it's a man thing", he's usually covering up something he shouldn't be doing in the first place.
You don't have to take it hon.
Good luck
2006-12-12 10:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww i'm the same way, i'm very emotional, yet i'm a very open honest bit*hy type girl.. i'm kinda like a tom-boy so i dont' get to girly about things.. but i understand what you mean when you say sometimes you just feel like he doesn't care.. i go through that on a everyday basis.. their always nice when they want something though.. so sweet of them..lol NOT! but anywho my man has diabetes and i think that has alot to do with his mood swings.. but anywho i think men are dumb as phuck when they have to say, "its a male thing" cause if thats the way they want to play then i don't want a job, women never had jobs back in the day, so why do they get to keep doing the jerk part of being a man? they have it so easy and act like they have it so hard! i could go on forever about how dumb they are, but i'm sure you know that much so i won't waste anymore of your time.. good question by the way.. good luck and best wishes!
2006-12-12 10:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on how long yous two have been dating. i am sure if its been over a year the two of yous are getting on each other nerves at times. And i am sure if you really think of it you have been mean at times to him. Its really normal to be mean to each other time to time, but if it seems like hes doing more harm than being a good guy to you than its not normal at all. He shouldnt be treating you like crap and should listen to what is going wrong in the relationship and why hes acting they way he is. If you just brush it off as a guy thing, than things could trun into a even bigger problem and might just go down hill from there. I have been dating my boyfriend for over three and a half years now, and at times we do get into a huge fight, but its not always his fault as much as i dont want to admitt it, its half my fault as well, but we get through the fight and stay strong. You need someone who will be there to pick you up not put you down.
2006-12-12 10:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I've been with mine a little over 6 years and he's a right rhubarb sometimes!
He does upset me sometimes buta good guilt trip and he realises (if only for a day or two) what it is that makes me sad!
Boys are silly whether they want to be or not!
2006-12-12 10:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest we can all be complete jerks at one time or another, male or female. We are all human after all! dont get so upset so easily I am sure you are stronger than that, talk to him!
2006-12-12 10:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can be in a bad mood at times. But it doesnt give him a right to take it out on you and make you feel bad. If it keeps up talk to him about his behavior and how much it is bothering you. good luck!
2006-12-12 10:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah a complete jerk.. the idea is to let the small stuff go... and don't be to sensitive... When mine knows he's crossed the line he'll grovel nicely and make it up to me
2006-12-12 10:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't let him be that way to you. My boyfriend is immature but atleast he's not a jerk! If he treats you that way then he doesn't deserve you. And no it's not just a male thing.
2006-12-12 10:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by sassysassle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your world revolve around this guy if not go and blow off some steam on a girly night out do something fun
2006-12-12 10:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobodies perfect and we all have off days, not just guys sure you have off days too, talk things out and learn to give and take. sometimes guys are jerks and ask yourself if hes worth it or no t
2006-12-12 10:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by jinx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋