How many guys would want a genuine, long-lasting relationship with a girl who is saving her virginity for marriage? I'm a girl who is 21 years old, and I think that it will be very hard for me to find a guy who will be willing to make a geunie commitment to me since he would know that he ain't getting sex. Lots of guys say I'm beautiful and I have dated a few guys but it never works out cuz they can't wait. They seem to end it after a while, making up some excuse when I know that it's becuase of the no-sex thing. It is flattering to get hit by guys, but I'm scared to start anything with them cuz I know that most guys just want sex and I won't be able to give that to them. It seems as though my beauty and sweet personality is not enough for them, they need sex badly.
Guys what do you think? Where can I find a guy who will want to commit to me?
2006-12-12 10:12:48 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if the virginity was by your choice I wouldn't be deterred by that.
2006-12-12 10:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they are rare mainly among young males anyway but there are some males out there who are willing to hold out for the one they love and realise that there is such much more to it than sex you will meet this someone in an odd sort of way me and my partner meet in a bar 3 months ago and never knew each other at all we went back to a motel room (neither of us are virgins) and talked we had something different and have decided not to have sex and do it all the right way, so there are people who will wait and i really hope you find yours but don't look for it, you will find each other and then you know it is real
2006-12-12 18:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be tough to fine a premium guy in todays society
culture that will wait for a virgin bride...
Delightful as a virgin might be, there is a lot of non-virgin competition and premium guys don't usually have to wait.
No doubt you can find some religious goof but nothing premium.
Perhaps a much older man looking for a "Trophy Wife" but there
is a lot of stiff competition amongst non-virgins there also...
2006-12-12 18:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to share something with you... for a long time I was virgin I'm 31 now and I lost it when I was 28. Because I found the love of my life and I chosed to lose it to her. In my opinion, I would wait until you are ready to be with that special someone that you want to loose your virginity to because it is a very special thing so don't feel like its your fault, its not and just be strong and I'm sure that you will find somone who would wait for you 'till you are ready. just think about it... if a guy wants you sexually then his not the right one for you unless that is what your looking for but in this case I'm sure that you are looking for a genuine guy who would respect you for who you are and don't rush yourself believe me there is somone special out there for you who will respect you and wait for you so do what you think is right don't listen to anyone but what your heart desires... by the way I have a friend who is virgin and his waiting for when his ready meaning when he gets married so its not just you out there who is virgin, there are many people out there who are virgin and I personally respect them for it..... Just be strong!
2006-12-12 18:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by supersteveee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you'll find a guy your age that will settle for a relationship without sex. Maybe you need to look for guys a little older: say around 30 or so.
2006-12-12 18:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just worrying too much. lots of guys are willing to wait. u just have to meet the right one. being a virgin is not something that special but the fact that you want to save urself for someone is very special.
2006-12-12 18:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as i said before there are guys that would would wait --- i did when i got married (i was a virgin)
to me being a virgin is not a big deal --- i dont think i would want to be with a virgin ---- but if she was the one for me i would wait --- i am quite happy to wait for my lady
2006-12-12 18:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a shame. But hey, sex is awesome
2006-12-12 18:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wish i can find a girl nowadays thats a virgin, i'd love her death...thats not all i want i want a relationship. i just want to love and be loved.
2006-12-12 18:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by Stuart P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋