I just started hanging out with this guy that I stopped talking to about 6 months ago because my boyfriend at the time found out we were talking and hit the guy over the head with a pipe. I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago and have started talking to this guy again. This new guy likes hanging out with me alot and calls me all the time,but he says he's worried that I will go back to my ex. Also, a couple days ago his ex-girlfriend found out we were talking again a freaked out! She got my phone number and calls me to threaten me. Well now he's acting weird and sending me mixed signals. One day he says hes thought alot about this and definately wants to be with me, the next he says we need to not rush into things becuase I just got out of a 3 year relationship..I have NO idea what to think about this situation.He tells me he really likes me and thinks about me all the time, but then I dont always know if he actually does...HELP!!
2006-12-12 10:17:44 · 7 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now this guy is telling me he misses me and wants to stay friends for now he says "good things happen to people who wait". He thinks he is my rebound, and is still hurt about what my ex did to him. He says he wants this S*** to go away b4 we start anything because there is too much stress. I didn't realize how much I cared until he started to distance himself. He still calls everyday, but I havent seen him for 4 days now..When we first started talking about 3 weeks ago, we were together everyday for about 2 weeks. Maybe we rushed it? He says he doesnt think we are ready for such a serious relationship so quick. I just dont know what to do, Should I not call him for a couple days, not answer his calls. I just CAN'T stop thinking about this. A week ago he wanted to go to Mexico with me for Xmas, and wanted to see me all the time, I dont understand.
2006-12-14 04:31:21 · update #1
I would give it time.. if your ex doesnt like him, and his ex doesnt like you, there isnt much you can do about it. I would just stay away from his ex and have him do the same with your ex. Guys give mixed signals when they are just getting out of a relationship, and into another one. I think thats normal. Maybe he is just worried that his ex is going to push you away from him. Also, i would take things slow, dont rush it. If you rush a new relationship, chances are things will become bad. But just stay clear of the ex's, take it slow, talk to the guy, and wish for the best.
2006-12-12 10:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy odviasly is still hung up on his ex, and she still has a lot of power over him.. my advise is to tell him that you only want to be friends and not have a serious relationship with him as he is too imiture to be with you anyway... move on girl and find a real man their are some out their you know... tell this girl to go to hell and him too for that matter...
2006-12-12 10:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by granikez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell this guy to call you when he finds the guy you used to talk to all the time, liked a lot, and when he gets control over his life. find another loser guy to stress over, this guys got way too much baggage.
2006-12-13 03:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by supahtforyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see where things go. dont take things too fast, just see what happens and steer clear of his ex. She sounds scary!
2006-12-12 10:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Fuzzyglasses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart...
2006-12-12 10:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time...
2006-12-12 10:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by casp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....and these are the white trash days of our lives.....
2006-12-12 10:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋