Singles & Dating - 2 December 2006

2006-12-02 13:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by Jen B 1

I'm a med-student and I'm not ugly but I found out two days that my boyfriend of a year cheated on me with his stepsister.... He wants to get back together but the reason he gave me for cheating was that he could take the pressure from my family (who are a it racist-im italian and mexican and hes white german and dutch descent) I thought that this was a little bit unfair but forsome reason I feel guilty. I thought I loved him but know I don't know what to do. I've been working long hours at the hospital so I can get too tired to think about it at night when i go to bed... Am I just being dumb, should I take him back? There are plenty of guys who have expressed interest in the past two days but Im finding it hard to move on accckkkk!!! What do you do in this situation?

2006-12-02 13:06:08 · 22 answers · asked by Lexy 6

i met this grl last year and she is amazing i really care about her alot we have ben together for 2 years sounds great right well after to years we havent even dated her mom dosnt think she is responsible enough to be dating( she is 15 ) but i understand we are still young that doesnt really bother me as this no one in her family likes me at all she has told me her mom doesnt like me or her dad and i dont no y i dont do anything wrong to make her parents upset really i dont even no her parents becuase her parents wont let her get invovled so her mom told her a year ago she isnt allowed to talk to me on the phone wich i hate the most so what do i need to do to get her parent trust or get her parents to like me or i dont no how can i improve this situation?

2006-12-02 13:05:04 · 13 answers · asked by crash 1

what was it about her that you didnt like, what was it that made u change your mind?

2006-12-02 13:04:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been dating for 3 yrs, own a house together, & are building a vacation house. 6 months ago he moved out, as all we do is fight. We have ups & downs due to disagreements regarding primarily him just not wanting to grow up. Our main issue is his mom though. She is rude to me everytime I see her, makes no effort to get to know me, & always makes verbal jabs at me. She is very manipulative & does it in a way that my bf does not notice. She will cancel plans w/him if she finds out I will be attending, & invites just him to holiday dinners at her friend's homes. He worships her and feels that I am too harsh, but she constantly hurts my feelings & makes it obvious she wants nothing to do w/me. He will jump through hoops for her, but when I ask him to do anything he throws a fit. He will never side w/me over her, as he loves her more & refuses to stand up to her. He would rather lose me than upset her. I also found out that he changed his life ins beneficiary to her when he moved out.

2006-12-02 13:00:41 · 11 answers · asked by blankie 1

when it comes to relationships, If a nice guy knows that girls like spontaneous, wild, fun, handsome, hot guys....basically everything he is not, and he accepts his fate that nice guys are just ok in the eyes of girls; therefore lives his life the way he wants it to be, and just focuses on college,and work, is he neglecting his potentials of finding true love?

2006-12-02 12:59:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

or does it look like he's trying to hard and cheesy?

2006-12-02 12:55:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it true that the #1 sign a guy likes you is when he starts treating you as a guy friend ?

2006-12-02 12:53:27 · 26 answers · asked by breanna 2

i like this guy but he has a gf and sometimes he seems interested in me and sometimes he doesnt and its mostly he doesnt but i know he accepts me as a good friend and i've tried to stop liking him b/c i know theres no point adn i've tried everything but its impossible to stop liking him and i dont want to ignore him and stop talking to him b/c hes really cool so wat should i do?

2006-12-02 12:53:13 · 9 answers · asked by eazybreezy103 2

IM CONFUSED ABOUT "Love" tell me what is LOVE!!!

2006-12-02 12:52:08 · 27 answers · asked by crazysme2001 1

that isnt a flake and will "stick with it" not cheat on me and be sexually compadable and scratch my bike. I would do anything for love and would just like to find 1 woman who is right for me... i am so sick of flakey materialistic un sticker withits and would just like to find the lady. I am one of the most loyal men in the world and i am very attractive, educated have a great personality (when its not realesing my feelings on a silly webpage). im just so frushtrated at this point and would just like somthing real.

2006-12-02 12:51:59 · 21 answers · asked by Sad Man 2

My boyfriend of some time just dumped me. That's all fine by me. But what upsets me is that apparently he's been using me and lying to me for sometime. To him all I was just a hott girl to show off, and now that he thinks he has a chance and someone hotter, I'm out of the picture.

I want revenge, yeah I realize this makes me look bad and it's stooping to his level, but I'm all for it. He thinks I'll just be heartbroken and sob for him to take me back, then eventually move on. Well I'm not wanting him back, but before I move on, I want to get in some sweet vindiction.

Anyone have some good revenge ideas? And please, ones that won't end with me facing a murder trial, other than that I'm game.

2006-12-02 12:50:02 · 11 answers · asked by Kali A 1

i love my girl friend very very much what can i give her to say that i love her we are only 14.i said to her that i loved her plenty of times but i just feel like i love her very very very much!

2006-12-02 12:50:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well... *blush* my boyfriend asked me to marry him yesterday (as a birthday/christmas gift to me, my b-day is on November 27)
i accepted.
he took me to get my engagement ring today and its gorgeous!
anyways, his birthday is on Dec. 15 and christmas is coming up.
i have no idea what to get him now!
help me!!!

2006-12-02 12:49:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-02 12:48:33 · 18 answers · asked by amishjedi 1

I really need help. My social life is completely ****** up. I don't go to clubs, i can't get a conversation flowing with a girl, e.t.c. Just the other day, i was conversing with a girl but i wasn't getting it flowing. Then suddenly, she left me right there. It was so awkward. I felt so stupid at that moment. Pls help! What do i do? How do i improve my conversation skills (especially with the girls) ?

2006-12-02 12:47:26 · 18 answers · asked by Tim 2

My lovely girlfriend always tries to put her hands down my pants or starts kissing me whenever I am trying to watch a movie. She whspers things in my ear like I want to make out with you and I want you to have my babies...blah blah blah.. One time she even sat on my lap and started "grinding" on me. What is up with that?!? It is such a distraction that I can't follow the movie and end up feeling like I wasted my time because I missed certain segments because of her distracting me. She is very good looking girl and she can be so sweet sometimes and I love her so much but how do I get her to stop ruining my movie experience without sounding mean?

2006-12-02 12:46:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my babys daddy aren't together but my ex b/f calls his cousin to see how me and the baby are doin becuz he thinks that the baby is his. but i miss him a lot and i loved him a lot but he cheated on my a lot and he's really no good, he's kind of one of those "bad" guys and now he wants to get in contact with me, what should i do? help please!

2006-12-02 12:46:29 · 22 answers · asked by LeAnn 1

whats the number one sign that a guy likes you ?

2006-12-02 12:46:18 · 8 answers · asked by breanna 2

I have been with my bf for almost a year now. i recently got drunker than ive ever been and was told i said i wanted to sleep with his brother and brother in law. i do not remember anything and it is not like me to say something like that. he broke up with me because he says he can't trust me. i have been through so much with him, including a custody battle. how can i show this guy that whatever was said isn't me and isn't something i would ever do to him? i really love this guy alot. its been a week since it happened and about 3 days since we've talked. i called once and got voice mail. should i just give him more time? should i call him? and what can i say?

2006-12-02 12:45:46 · 1 answers · asked by snowbunny20032006 1

He keeps asking me if I think HIS friend is hot?

Just curious why he is asking...

2006-12-02 12:44:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

today all of the sudden ifeel like im pregant but i know im not because did'nt have sex with any boy.but iv'e been haveing craveings,pains alot. why?

2006-12-02 12:43:32 · 15 answers · asked by girlygirl8 1

2006-12-02 12:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my boyfriend sent me an email say this -
hi it is me i do not derserv u u can find way better that me i love u with all my heart i do not no y i am saying this but u can do better u can find a guy better that med love braydon

I have no clue what its supose to mean and my friend said that he just broke up with me imm clueless HELP!!!

2006-12-02 12:42:04 · 9 answers · asked by crazysme2001 1

Hiya,how do i make my boyfriend of 6 years who is 28 grow up and stop behaving like an idiot?

We have a 4 year old son with special needs and split up for 6 weeks during the summer,it was his decision to leave.We ended up getting back together and we both promised we`d change,i`m trying but he`s not.Every time he goes out especially to the footie on a saturday he promises he`ll be straight home and not go near the pub,every time i believe him and he doesn`t appear till the next day all apologetic and promises he`ll not do it again.

He says he does have a drink problem he`s not an alcoholic but does binge drink with his mates,he says he doesn`t think of me and our son when he does this and admits he`s selfish.

So of course i`m sitting in on my own again whilst he`s at his mates getting sozzled and taking god knows what.He doesn`t answer his phone or contact me,i do know he`s not cheating but he`s still acting like he`s free and single with his mates,i`m at the end of my tether!

2006-12-02 12:41:09 · 29 answers · asked by onlyme 5

2006-12-02 12:40:37 · 17 answers · asked by mae 1

Is it good to keep eye contact with the person?

2006-12-02 12:40:19 · 4 answers · asked by amishjedi 1

last night i had a early birthday celebration, and invited my soon to be husbands, brother and his wife over. well i think they may have drank alittle to much. the brother(jeff) was soon sleeping in my bathroom floor. i wish i could say the same for his wife. she was all over matt(soon to be husband). reminding everyone that the dated in 5th grade. mind you he is now 26. she hung all over him and repeatedly confessed her love for him. so after about an hour of that, it was time to put her to bed, so i help matt walk her into our extra room. she lays down on the bed, and must not have seen me, cause she grabbed his arm and asked where he thought he was going....wtf?? do i say something to her about last night or hope that she dosent remember so that i dont have to deal with her??? help

2006-12-02 12:39:45 · 11 answers · asked by katy mae 1

whats so bad if you make a type-o on this web sight or somethin??? maybe i want to not wayste all your time spellin words out all the way it makes it easer 4 me and u right????? ust some people r really stuck up and mean about it! am i right??

2006-12-02 12:37:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do guys think it is okay for them to have a sexual past, but not the woman? I am in my 30's and have been married, divorced, have been in serious relationships, dated, and yes a one night stand or two. Why do men seem to think women aren't suppose to be sexually active? Are all guys really like this? My current boyfriend is offended by the fact he was not the 2nd person I had ever been with or even the 10th. He enjoys what I have to offer him and without any prior sex experiences I am sure he wouldn't be so satisfied with what he gets now. Could anybody explain the meaning behind these types of guys?

2006-12-02 12:34:45 · 20 answers · asked by stacey h 3