My lovely girlfriend always tries to put her hands down my pants or starts kissing me whenever I am trying to watch a movie. She whspers things in my ear like I want to make out with you and I want you to have my babies...blah blah blah.. One time she even sat on my lap and started "grinding" on me. What is up with that?!? It is such a distraction that I can't follow the movie and end up feeling like I wasted my time because I missed certain segments because of her distracting me. She is very good looking girl and she can be so sweet sometimes and I love her so much but how do I get her to stop ruining my movie experience without sounding mean?
2006-12-02 12:46:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. You're supposed to want her more than you want to watch a movie. But if you have sex with her before the movie maybe she will be satisfied enough to sit through it with you.
2006-12-02 12:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's more interested in you than the movie...You could just tell her you're not interested at the time but to save that for later. Mention to her what she would think if you did that kind of thing during a movie she really wanted to watch or when she wasn't in the mood for it. She probably doesn't really know this bothers you because movies with the lights off is such a classic time to fool around.
2006-12-02 12:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out tell her the truth. Tell her you love her very much, but you really want to watch these movies and maybe after the movie you two can fool around. See my boyfriend likes it when I make out with him when he is watching movies. I don't know why, but he just does. She might think the same way because you keep pushing the situation off more and more.
2006-12-02 12:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when she starts doing that, you could pause the movie, play with her for a bit, and then say, "Aaaand, back to the movie." Then, after the movie's done, you can have sex or whatever she's looking for. Pausing is great because you don't miss anything. If that doesn't work, then politely ask her if she'll stop. Don't complain too much, though -- then she won't give you any loving.
2006-12-02 14:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by onsilverwings 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are not mature enought to handle this girl. Either wake up or snivel off into a corner. She would like for you to learn to makeout in her way and seek new ways to thrill you as a couple.
You can rent the DVD anytime your lonely and go to a motel for privacy. Pay close attention to this lady NOW!!! Learn all you can in the time you have with her. She will move on and leave your Geekie bunns smoking hot in an analogue second.
2006-12-02 12:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by henry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha, wow. I think you`re the only guy who would complain about an overly-sexual girlfriend.
You need to talk to her about it. Don`t be mean, but ask her. Maybe she thinks you want her to act that way. Maybe she thinks it`s a turn on. One time when she`s doing it, maybe just tell her that you want to cuddle and watch the movie; then there`d still be that physical, intimate contact, but it wouldn`t be distracting.
2006-12-02 12:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new girlfriend. This one obviously doesn't honour your movie-watching perogative. Find a girl who is into the movies as deeply as you are, and who won't try and distract you with sex when you're concentrating.
Either that, or buy tighter pants so she can't put her hands down them. Or metal pants! OOOOH! Get a bear-trap, and put it down your pants! That will teach her!
2006-12-02 12:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is obviously needing some attention that she is not getting. Why is the movie more important to you than her? It should make you feel good that she wants you that much. Respect it and go with it, it may not always be there for you.
2006-12-02 12:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by PHAT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are either an @#$ or gay. Send her off to find someone who will appreciate her because you certainly take her desire for granted. If you are not gay, you will look back to your younger days and think, what the f was I thinking or something.
If I were her I would be rid of you fast.
2006-12-02 12:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's hot she's not used to guys ignoring her. She wants proof of how much you want her. Tell her you want to watch the movie and move her off your lap and don't kiss her.
2006-12-02 12:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋