i met this grl last year and she is amazing i really care about her alot we have ben together for 2 years sounds great right well after to years we havent even dated her mom dosnt think she is responsible enough to be dating( she is 15 ) but i understand we are still young that doesnt really bother me as this no one in her family likes me at all she has told me her mom doesnt like me or her dad and i dont no y i dont do anything wrong to make her parents upset really i dont even no her parents becuase her parents wont let her get invovled so her mom told her a year ago she isnt allowed to talk to me on the phone wich i hate the most so what do i need to do to get her parent trust or get her parents to like me or i dont no how can i improve this situation?
2006-12-02 13:05:04 · 13 answers · asked by crash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i forgot to mention my gf has a bad past with her other bf and she was allowed to date then
2006-12-02 13:20:39 · update #1
How old ARE YOU?? 65, 55, 45???
What's your AGE, pal???
2006-12-02 13:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds pretty harsh man. If you truly are a good guy and you truly love your GF then keep doing what you are doing, and her parents will not have any reason to dislike you. You could always try to ask them, in a very polite way, why they don't like you. Ultimately, if you love your GF you have to respect her parents even if you don't agree with them. Keep being a good guy and keep being good to your GF, treat her well, and maybe they will come around.
2006-12-02 21:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by jordan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't mentioned how old you are, so it's difficult to give an answer. Some parents have problems with their teens dating, regardless of their age (or yours). If you're a lot older than her, I can see why they're hesitating.
Why not ask your girlfriend if you can come to dinner at her house some time, so you can spend some time getting to know her parents? Maybe once they get to know you, they'll be willing to let you be friends with their daughter.
Good luck!
2006-12-02 21:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok look i am a girl 15 and my parents are just like the girls parent what you need to do is going talk to her parents, really talk to her dad and let him know how you feel about her. and show her mom that your a good guy and that you don't ever plan on hurt her and that you love her. i hope this helps you.
2006-12-02 21:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by trustpuppypink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her parents and first of all get the problem straight and ask them if they have a problem with you and if so why?then if you get that cleared up talked to them about what you want for thei daughter and spend time with her parents a lot so they can trust you....if things work out e-mail me judyaguilar2000@yahoo.com
2006-12-02 21:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by judy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because 2 yrs is too long of a relationship for a 15 yr old. They want her to be able to enjoy her teen years without playing house.
2006-12-02 21:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a dinner, u, ur gf and her parents. sort it out.
if they give u lip or insult u or ignore u, bring up the issue.
if the girl likes u, she will defend u too and her parents will eventually have to listen. if neccessary, get ur parents too (on teh phone maybe)
2006-12-02 21:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat kind of person r u? maybe its the way u present urself or ur atitude. spend some times with the family like tell them thank you allowing me to go out with ur daughter, sorry for any misunderstanding i given u. dont worry all parents worry bout their children specially the daughters maybe they will start to like u. dont freak out. maybe u kan talk to the parents more like ask did i do anything wrong or something like that... good luck.... (they are probably scared that u might steal their daughter away or hurt her.......)
2006-12-02 21:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by lito-azndr3am3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for a different girlfriend. at 15 she is too young to be going against her parents' wishes.
2006-12-02 21:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by I hate carrots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to them.... show them that u r a responsable guy and that u will treat their daughter with respect. i dont think that they r against u, they probably dont want her to date yet, but u may change their minds... its like that movie! "A walk to remember" and it worked! so give it a try
good luck!!
2006-12-02 21:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by ro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's 15 move on, get over it.
2006-12-02 21:08:16 · answer #11 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋