Singles & Dating - 2 December 2006

never had a boyfriend or even been on a date. In highschool I never accepted any1 that went after me. In my year off I never accepted the guys that flirted with me at work.NOW its college and I've realized that I've totally royaly screwed myself over in the love department.Men are still after me.I'm just so damn unexperienced I don't know how to react..so i just reject them...sad I know..but how do I get over my embarresment of inexperience and try to get to know a guy? I don't even have guy friends. I'm totally retarded in this aspect. I'm afraid if a guy finds out I'm so inexperienced he will think I'm a freak and want nothing to do with me, but by doing nothing I'm digging a deeper hole for myself. I've tried being friendy and joining clubs, but college is mostly filled with girls. Once this guy tried to get my attention, so I gave him eye contact and he didn't talk to me again for 3 days! How do I get myself out of this mess for next semester, or outside of school with bar men?

2006-12-02 14:12:07 · 10 answers · asked by MindyCindyLindy 2

And all my friends hate him. But hes soo fine. EEK Peer Presure!I dunno what 2 do HELP!

2006-12-02 14:11:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girl and i broke up for 2 months we get back together and i ask her did you had sex with a guy and she said yeah but he was not good

2006-12-02 14:10:16 · 4 answers · asked by douglas c 1

i didn't really want anyone to know. what can i say to her.

2006-12-02 14:09:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the story. I'm going out on a date with a girl to the mall. Should I ask her at the beginning of the date, before we do things like watch a movie, walk around stores, etc. or should I ask her after everything?

2006-12-02 14:09:44 · 17 answers · asked by MiamiGuy 2

this guy has 2 classes w/ me at uni..one day we were leaving and my friend noticed him looking at me then he pointed at me + talked to his friends then they looked over at me + he kept looking ...another day i caught him looking over at me...another day i saw him watch me get up from my seat and then he wouldnt come down to the front of the class to hand me his sheet he had his friend do it then i walked by him at tim hortons and he looked at me and then when i turned the corner he took a step forward and looked around the wall at me ...i msged him once asking about a lecture i missed and he msged me back and was polite about it saying no he didnt get it either...my friends say he likes me...i have no clue...cause i dont pay attention to most of this stuff...so does he like me or am i just wanting something that will never happen?

2006-12-02 14:09:35 · 3 answers · asked by lizbeth_lizzard 1

some not all but why do guys like to flirt with me even though I make it abvious I'm taken and in love with my boyfriend. I care about him so much but all these guys are making it hard for us to just sit and talk because it's always Tucker "hi", Me "hi" Tucker " what u up2" Me "trying to get this dude to leave me alone" and etc. I mean I don't get it I don't flirt the first thing I say about myself is I have a nf and love him very much. So why do they flirt with me?

2006-12-02 14:08:42 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

I really liked this guy, who was also one of my good friends. He obviously didn't like me back, but I didn't give up until another one my friends asked me out...I said yes but I can't get over the fact that I used to like him, and now he possibly likes me back. I'm not overjoyed with my current BF, and I know I'd be much happier with him. But I'm that he would say no...HELP!

2006-12-02 14:07:58 · 4 answers · asked by Ashleh 1

i hear a lot of jokes in the locker room... and it's funny and immature at the same time. Most guys in there have 'smaller' ones and have attractive girlfreinds and larger guys don't... I was just curious after talking with my girlfriend.

2006-12-02 14:07:21 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2

I've been with my bf for almost 3 months. It seems that whenever he's around his friends he starts to act real imature, and i don't like it. But, whenever hes with me he serious. Its like he has 2 personalities. Sometimes he acts like im his gurl but sometimes he don't. What should i do?

2006-12-02 14:05:24 · 13 answers · asked by Britt 2

Some guys I know have lied about their height, usually being shorter than what they say they are. Is it an insecurity issue? I mean, it's cute, in a way, but I just wish a guy did not feel he had to lie about his height.

Especially when they wind up being shorter than me... because I love being able to lay my head on a guy's shoulder, and if they are the ones that are laying their head anywhere on me, it is not romantic at ALL!!

2006-12-02 14:05:16 · 32 answers · asked by raydeeo_face 2

2006-12-02 14:04:35 · 6 answers · asked by Straight but not narrow 1

There was one guy I knew, didn't particularly like him, and then one time I asked him about a HW question (I'm in college), he leaned on the table looked up in my eyes very softly and answered. I swear I must have blushed and from then on I liked him. So, has does that happen, scientifically? Maybe I should ask this someplace else. There have been other instances were I found I was attracted to some guy. I'm not the only person! HOW DOES IT HAPPEN?!? How can you go through life, see millions of people and every now and then you single an individual out?

2006-12-02 14:04:02 · 9 answers · asked by Hoyle Card 1

i had a sort of first date tonight but the girl cancled it cause she said she had to go christmas shopping with her mom. i dont think the girl blew me off because on friday she seemed interested and gave me her number to call her to go.

She really loves the flyers and im wondering if that should be my second and last attempt to take her out?

On monday should i offer to take her to a flyers game?
Girls would this be a good try on a 1st date?
She loves the flyers

Thanks!

2006-12-02 14:02:52 · 13 answers · asked by actdlr 1

Any one want to be a pen pal type friend that has aim. I'm in need of a good friend. I'll be friends with anyone.

2006-12-02 14:01:57 · 14 answers · asked by coolgurlmolly 2

when ur with a guy what is the point where even if u say no he wont listen even if he really loves u?

2006-12-02 14:00:21 · 10 answers · asked by Mouse 1

2006-12-02 13:56:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

probaly right which one do you think i should give uo

2006-12-02 13:56:14 · 24 answers · asked by beats 2

Im just wondering if you are a good guy or if you think you are what makes you one? Do all men cheat? This is the first time I've ever been cheated on and think I'm turning bitter.

2006-12-02 13:53:59 · 28 answers · asked by Lexy 6

How many does it take to get into ho territory?

2006-12-02 13:53:23 · 19 answers · asked by alpha_trolls 1

I was at this night club yesterday. Club was crowded, great. I had a good time dancing, buzzed up. Before i leave i was just watching ppl dance, the guy who was standing next to me quickly slapped at my dick, not hard. Then i warned him and moved away. I'm just curious. Does this happen to anyone? What are these guys upto?

2006-12-02 13:52:56 · 5 answers · asked by CuriousJ 1

Here's the deal on this boy I like. Me and this boy at my school started talking and really connecting then he called me and we talked on the ohone for a long time. He told me he liked me and i told him i like him to. Then we started talking more but lately at school he's been avoiding me what does that mean????

2006-12-02 13:52:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do find something in LDR's, but at times they feel empty. I've been asked out by a guy that I really like. The main problem is that we are long distance. He seems to not mind the distance, but I've been in LDR's before, and don't seem to care for them as much. I really do like him, but I'm not sure if I should be in a LDR.

Should I take his offer and have a LDR, or not?
All opinions are greatly appreciated.
Guys and girls please. Thank you.

2006-12-02 13:49:47 · 24 answers · asked by yourheart888 1

What are your views to meeting people off the internet?
group meetings?
for freindship?
one on one?
pureley for sex?

2006-12-02 13:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by jaynee 1

What is the right way to let someone know that their breath stinks, especially if you are liking this person. You hit it off well, but the only issue you have at this point that his breath is foul!!! What is the best way to say hey your breath stinks?

2006-12-02 13:48:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok everyone, I am looking for some advice here. Well first of all, these 2 boys who are really good friends both liked me. I only liked one of them, (lets just call the one I liked A) and the other one (lets call the one I dont like R). So anyways R asked me out one day, and I said I would answer at lunch. So the answer was no, because I liked him just as a REALLY good friend. So he was really upset, and eventually cried later =(. Anyways the next day A asked me out! I was really excited and said yes. So now we have been going out for about a month. R is so mad at A that he doesnt even come out at break. But he will talk to me occasionally. And now I'm getting these weird feelings about liking R. But I dont want to go out with R, I just love being around him. But A, my boyfriend now, is a big problem with this because he would be extremely mad if he found out I liked his ex-friend. I need advice PLEASE! I cant even talk to my friends about this.

2006-12-02 13:48:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi ! I am 20 years old ! I've been in love with this girl from school for like 2 months now ! I already told her that I liked her a lot and I know that she has feelings for me too ! the problem is she already has a boyfriend ! she told me that although her bf and she have been on and off several times already but she still cant let that go easy. I've also gotten some sources from her friends. They said that her relationship with her bf is very unstable and it seems like she does not like her bf that much ! Should I wait for her relationship with her bf to get weak then be there for her to cheer her up then make a move ? Or am I just wasting my time ?

2006-12-02 13:48:00 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy Boy 1

Im in doubt - obviously would like to think he isnt but nybody who has cheated, been cheated on etc please let me know any signs. Thank you :-)

2006-12-02 13:47:54 · 5 answers · asked by jaynee 1

I know people who like me, but I don't like them cause we're just friends, and I want a relationship with someone I like, not a fake one. What should I do?

There's 1 girl I like, but she won't go out with me casue of my hair. I

2006-12-02 13:47:48 · 4 answers · asked by Ryan 3

He lies about everything, the smallest things mostly.. i know he would never do anything to really hurt me but i need to get through to him and have him understand he can talk to me..what to do??

2006-12-02 13:47:27 · 22 answers · asked by Jen 1