Im just wondering if you are a good guy or if you think you are what makes you one? Do all men cheat? This is the first time I've ever been cheated on and think I'm turning bitter.
2006-12-02 13:53:59 · 28 answers · asked by Lexy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all guys are cheaters, Don't be so bitter, Just accept what happen to you, and try to make the best of it.....That is hard for me to do........I just got played Hard.........It sucks....I hadn't let anyone in for 5 years, then this....So I guess I'm bitter....Also What makes me a good person is that I'm honest,respectful,understanding, caring, loving,responsible, I have two little girls,
2006-12-03 05:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 years old, so I'm still very young. I've never been bitter towards men up until now. I don't feel that way all the time, but every once in a while I do. I always have great relationships and have pretty good experiences with guys. They are controlled by their hormones. I've never been cheated on, but with the relationship I'm in now, I just don't feel wanted the way I should be. While he is a great guy, I feel like he would cheat on me if he knew I'd never find out.
After this, I want to be single for a long, long time.
2006-12-02 22:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am a good guy. I dont cheat and have been hit on by lots of women since being married (22 yrs).
It takes morals, will and integrity, but it can be done.
Like the old addage says "Do unto others...." and also "You dont know what someones life is until you walk a mile in their shoes."
I think what makes me a good guy is that Im sympathetic to the other persons feelings. How it would make them feel, how it would effect both of us in the long run and would a lifetime of regret be worth a few hours of pleasure.
Most people operate on instinct or the need for pleasure right at that particular moment. It takes a truly disciplined person to take the time to think things out and not act on the spur of the moment.
DONT GIVE UP!! There are still some of us out there that arent religious freaks or posers. You just have wade through a lot more swamp to find your prince.
2006-12-02 22:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by billydeer_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are good guys in the world, and I don't think the criteria that makes someone a good guy can be listed so easily. There are those that would do anything to protect their loved ones, those that do good deeds, those that are chivalrous, those that are friendly. Some would consider different things, how they treat children, or how they dress. Not all cheat, and not all would if offered the opportunity. There are so many things to consider though, those that don't get have different temptations. This does not mean that I have any inkling into your situation, I do not. There aren't any excuses, there are simple ways around things, too easy in this day and age maybe.
2006-12-02 22:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Not a Superhuman body builder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh lexy sorry to hear it. I've had it happen a few times and i know it's not that i'm a bad girlfriend contrary it's cause i'm too damn loyal and faithful. I was bitter too but u know what most men i'd say 90% do cheat so it's to stay mindful and read all the signs don't make excuses when u know something is wrong WALK early it hurts less. If u're in the LA area we should hang out. Two recently single gals...........
2006-12-02 21:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry someone betrayed you, but all of the disappointments will be forgotten when you find Love. There are two logical things you need to consider. First, where are the 'good guys'.I don't think they hang out in bars every night[though there might be some good alcoholics there], maybe they go to ballgames, and they probably attend church. Second, you have to understand your personality, to know who you want to be with; if you are introverted and shy, you will probably only get attention from pushy guys who think your easy. If you are outgoing and friendly, there will be more options for you. To answer your question, yes I think I'm a good guy; I would never cheat because it's been done to me and I couldn't put anyone through that, the trick with that is to be honest, if you're not happy with someone, you must tell them. My problem was the second one, I was very shy all my life and that attracted aggressive women who thought they could use me, until I smartened up and forced myself to be outgoing and friendly to everyone, like I had the sun shining in my pocket, but not pushy. That attitude drew my life's Love to me and I have been happy with her for 16 years. You can decide to be happy anytime you choose. Best Of Luck!
2006-12-02 22:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling bitter is normal, but don't let it eat you up, then he wins you loose o.k.
The best way to find the good guys is to look in the right places
Church groups
Is a band playing in the park stuff like that
Go to a different college function rather than your own.
Look in the local paper every day and see what is going on in town and attend as many functions as you can. Forget Mr. Bitter
Better a heart ache now than a heart break later
Good Luck
2006-12-02 22:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by MJM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all men cheat. Some men actually have morals and when they commit to a relationship they stick to it. I would never cheat on my partner. I was married for 11 years and was unhappy and unfulfilled for more than half of that time but never thought twice about cheating. I ending up filing for divorce for other reasons than fidelity.
2006-12-02 21:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by waltstinkycorny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat. The men that cheat are just like Quagmire from Family Guy.
2006-12-02 21:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by mscorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a good guy =) and no, not all men cheat. And What makes a good Man, is a guy who will tell his Girlfriend or Wife what she needs to hear not what she wants, putting her before himself and his job, things like that.
2006-12-02 22:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋