Singles & Dating - 2 December 2006

Weaknesses:
I am 31 years old and live with my parents.( I can afford to move out. Just saving up money. I lived on my own for several years)
I have a nice body ( But should probably lose some pounds and start excercising again)
I have been told I need to be more assertive, convident, and decisive.

Strengths:
I get a lot of compliments on my looks ( esp. eyes)
My humor.
My sensitivity and kindness.
My character.
I am not one demensional at all.
I am responsible and dependable in my relationships and job.

Rank in order what I should work on. ( Should I move into an apartment just to get a girl )

2006-12-02 15:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by lend322 4

My ex dumped me recently. I was just gettin over him & it was great. I mean, other than the fact that he was holdin hands w/ my friend & stuff like that. Then I checked his myspace (he updates it often) & it said 'I love Collette...Do you?' (thaz my name)
I wana know what's goin on here. (I'm not even sure he & my other friend r goin out, but they like each other enough to b holdong hands)

2006-12-02 15:32:08 · 10 answers · asked by Collette F 1

If you were dating a guy for a couple of months and really got to like him and then find out he hasn,t seen the sun in five years and has the worst farmers tan you have ever seen would you just kick him to the side or stay with him? I know this may sound silly but please answer honestly and sincerely and please no smart answers.

2006-12-02 15:31:37 · 20 answers · asked by an_actual_good_guy 2

I can't believe how rude she was being. I was trying to sip my tea and read my book on Oliver Cromwell and then she comes over and starts taking off her clothes and doing some lap dance. How ridiculous was that? This isn't the first time she has done things like this. I was eating biscuits the day before and she did it and the day before that I was polishing my shoes. In fact while I was taking a shower this morning, she walked in on me! How rude is that?! I love my girlfriend very much and she is such a pretty lady and very sweet, but sometimes she can be like this. How can I get her to stop this unbecoming behavior without being boorish?

2006-12-02 15:30:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm wondering if I should gain some weight.

2006-12-02 15:30:49 · 6 answers · asked by tlakkamond 4

I've known this girl for a little more than a year and we have been really close friends. I have told her all of my darkest and deepest secrets and from what I know i beleive she has told me hers as well. We ran track together most of the same races. I talk too her whenever I get a chance after class after school I even go to her moms store and talk to her. Most of the time when we talk on the phone She calls me and we talk for hours. I have asked her out twice the first time she said I don't know not right now and the second time she said I'll think about it. I asked her later if she actually thought about it or just didn't want to hurt my feelings but she said she actually did. I wrote her poems that she liked and all that stuff. I told her That I loved her on the phone once and she broke up with her boyfriend 2 or 3 days later. I really like this girl but I don't know what to do. Should I settle being her friend or should I ask her out a third time?

2006-12-02 15:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible to love someon even after they cheat on you?

I was cheated on by my ex-bf, and yes, i was upset and heartbroken, but i still loved him. Well i think i did, well and do. He always asks me how i can still love him after what he did to me. I never seem to be able to really answer that question. I ponder and ponder it forever with no relief. I know he's sorry for what he did. I just need to know, is it possible to love someone that cheated on you?

2006-12-02 15:28:36 · 6 answers · asked by yourheart888 1

2006-12-02 15:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by lala 1

Ok first those of you against threesomes etc please dont answer. I know not everyone agrees with open relationships and I am aware of the reasons why.
My boyfriend and I have been together a long time and have had threesomes before. We are both fine with them as long as all the rules are followed and everything has always been ok. However tonight he asked me if I would be willing to have a threesome with his childrens mom. I am really messed up on this one. To me its one thing to have a threesome with someone else and its another to have one with "her".
My question for men is why would he want to do it with her and I? He says its because he knows she is open and he doesnt have any other females right now that would and he wants to do it again.
My question for women is would you do it?
Its always been better for us to do it with someone more impartial. And I dont know how I feel about seeing him with her again. Help!!!

2006-12-02 15:25:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy likes me and today I had a varsity invite for gymnastics and he showed up. If you weren't competing, you had to pay to watch. it was only like 5bucks tho.Guys would you really pay to see a varsity gymnastics meet??

2006-12-02 15:23:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you make eye contact and smile at a guy you like,and he just walks right on by without saying anything,do you assume that he is just shy,playing hard to get,or has lost interest in you all together?

2006-12-02 15:23:14 · 19 answers · asked by Nick R 1

2006-12-02 15:22:38 · 18 answers · asked by edward b 3

I've got a '66 Mustang, straight six 200, three on the floor, and I'm trying to find some styled chrome rims for it. Problem is, it's got that characteristic, hard-as-hell-to-find 4-lug bolt pattern. Any ideas?

2006-12-02 15:21:05 · 5 answers · asked by Aaron B 2

I think no one will ever want to go out with me.

2006-12-02 15:18:17 · 15 answers · asked by zztopspin 3

i told my guy friend that i knew what one of my presents was a its lingeria and he said who bought that for you why did he ask?

2006-12-02 15:17:18 · 6 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1

2006-12-02 15:16:28 · 23 answers · asked by Celestine K 2

was like mad and like i was cussing at him and u no what i like broke up with him .....i know!!!! thats wat i thought too.... so like how can i like get bak at him like thanks like bye

2006-12-02 15:15:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

to meet people and date people on there and maybe actually fall in love with someone over the internet. please give me some advice!!!

2006-12-02 15:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by LeAnn 1

Rank out of 10.

2006-12-02 15:13:25 · 17 answers · asked by daisy 2

tommorow im going to lunch, bowling, movies and dinner with a group of friends. i arranged it..
the special thing about it is that there are three pretty important guys coming

one that is obsessed with me.. seriously.. and i dont really like in that way

one that im good friends with, used to really like and now we barley talk..

one that i seemingly like.. and talk to a lot..

i dont know what i should do.. my good girlfriends coming with her crush..

how should i dress? act? talk to? who should i talk to more?

2006-12-02 15:13:14 · 4 answers · asked by sam3345 1

2006-12-02 15:12:17 · 4 answers · asked by mickeymousedude 2

im not sure if hes flirting with me or we're just being friends. Some signs that i think he might like me- he puts his feet over mine when we sit at a table, he'll always takes pictures of me with his cell phone, he'll take my stuff so i have to climb on him and get it back.
signs that he doesnt like me-says im beautiful in a sarcastic tone, talks about other girls

2006-12-02 15:11:54 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah 3

He is 20 and i am 14.. what should i do.. and please dont say age is just a number.. at this age its illegal...

2006-12-02 15:11:32 · 20 answers · asked by Shelley I 1

If I'm talking to a girl, that I like, over e-mail alot what can I tell her that will make her like me more, but not over do it , because I've already said the "beautiful and georgous" lines

2006-12-02 15:11:27 · 12 answers · asked by "The Man" 1

2006-12-02 15:07:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

this isnt the first time ive heard females make this comment, and it confuses me cuz i thot that girls always noticed a guys pecs and biceps first. and some girls even say its a smile or eyes they focus on. what is it with the butt? i dont get it? is this what the rest of you think too? i thot i understood what women found attractive in men, but maybe i dont.when i ask her what it is about my *** that she likes she just says cuz its so gorgeous. help me ladies. should we guys quit worrying about the gym and just start building our butts? and how would we do it? im mixed up cuz almost all her girlfriends say the same thing.

2006-12-02 15:07:13 · 12 answers · asked by mickey 5

this isnt the first time ive heard females make this comment, and it confuses me cuz i thot that girls always noticed a guys pecs and biceps first. and some girls even say its a smile or eyes they focus on. what is it with the butt? i dont get it? is this what the rest of you think too? i thot i understood what women found attractive in men, but maybe i dont.when i ask her what it is about my *** that she likes she just says cuz its so gorgeous. help me ladies. should we guys quit worrying about the gym and just start building our butts? and how would we do it? im mixed up cuz almost all her girlfriends say the same thing.

2006-12-02 15:06:42 · 4 answers · asked by mickey 5

We are in the stage before dating and there's deffinitally something there... i know he's buying me a gift but i cant figure out what to get him.he hasnt said anything to give me ideas exept books but i dont think i want to give him a book.

2006-12-02 15:05:56 · 3 answers · asked by Lexie S 1

he is 1 1/2 years older and i have know him for like ever and we have these moments that we look in each other's eyes and it is like the whole world stops so how should i ask him out??

2006-12-02 15:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by swim chick 2

2006-12-02 15:01:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous