Weaknesses:
I am 31 years old and live with my parents.( I can afford to move out. Just saving up money. I lived on my own for several years)
I have a nice body ( But should probably lose some pounds and start excercising again)
I have been told I need to be more assertive, convident, and decisive.
Strengths:
I get a lot of compliments on my looks ( esp. eyes)
My humor.
My sensitivity and kindness.
My character.
I am not one demensional at all.
I am responsible and dependable in my relationships and job.
Rank in order what I should work on. ( Should I move into an apartment just to get a girl )
2006-12-02 15:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely get out of your folks house. I dated a guy for about 4 months before I totally flipped because he was always at my place. I liked the company, but felt like he was irresponsible because he didn't find his own place. I told him that in order for us to keep seeing each other he would have to get his own place... and one month later he did. We now have a 5 year old, but we still don't live together!
Next you should work on your assertiveness. Just don't be cocky or arrogant. Women like men who aren't afraid to take charge, make decisions, and protect his woman. Being too arrogant or aggressive is definitely a major turn off.
Lastly, you should work on you appearance. Lots of women don't care how much you weigh as long as the package looks nice. You can gain weight or lose weight, just keep the package wrapped tightly. Your woman will want you to look as good as you want her to look... no embarrassing looks when out in public.
2006-12-02 15:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably move out of your parents house, but that won't get you a girl. although, when you do get a girl, you won't have to worry about bringing her home and having your parents around. um other than that, you sound just fine :)
2006-12-02 15:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by Yours Truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st you don't "get" a girl you ask her out 2nd you should lose those pounds and watch some shows that you want your personalities to be like girls like assertiveness.
2006-12-02 15:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by sam_roxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, living with your parents is a BIG turn off
2006-12-02 15:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋