2006-12-02 13:56:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on what he did. I have always told my friends that if they go to jail for something stupid, I would never come visit. Something like self defense, survival, or defending a helpless person, I'd support them until the end.
2006-12-02 14:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Alishia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course you should go see him every chance you get and let"your babies daddy", be in your childs life as much as possible..hey that will only help, after all that shows a good family structure.
becasue your using the term babies daddy i doubt he acting in self defense or to help anyone else, so thats good to he shoudl get his props while he is in there
2006-12-02 14:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by sevenout7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Im sorry to pay attention approximately all of this and that i might help-1st all of them say they didnt do it they have been in the incorrect place on the incorrect time-I used to have faith that no longer anymore.You mentioned which you're doing superb with artwork,your infant,daycare etc-depart it that way.You mentioned he have been given in difficulty in Il i'm in Il what did he get in difficulty for-this is the super question.And no count how lots you like him why could you desire somebody around who gets in difficulty with the regulation? and its a undesirable effect on the newborn,one million daddy isnt around 2 I guess he has undesirable acquaintances,and additionally you didnt say why he moved out of state?what befell?replace into he sentenced yet-if he does get sentenced right here seem him up on cook dinner county website inmate seek then after he's sentenced seem him up on idoc then you certainly will see his photograph and his record.Is he asking you for funds? has he consistently been trustworthy with you-write back to me and that i'm going that can assist you extra ok?and remember this if he is going to serve time in detention center it modifications each thing between the two one among you-it wont be the comparable lower back and that i think that that's destiny and time so which you would be able to pass on-reliable success for you and your infant
2016-12-29 19:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by rankins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u didnt put him there,just write him a letter here n there n mabe except a phone call once in a while.....Play ur part ,but i wouldnt go c him if i didnt want to....He should b happy just 4 a letter r some money on his books.
2006-12-02 14:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think jail is any place for a baby to be. maybe by not letting him see his child, he will get a wake up call and stop getting into trouble.
2006-12-02 14:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! If there is a reason why -- like domestic violence against you -- take this as an opportunity for a NEW start -- and make a new (safe) life for you AND your child -- well away from him.
2006-12-02 14:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think its wrong. Whatever crimed he committed, he should have thought of the consequences before he committed it. One of those consequences was leaving you and your child. Nevertheless, I would keep him updated on how the child is doing by writing him or by phone.
2006-12-02 14:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Blu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what hes in jail for. is he really someone that you want in your life. are you still together is he a good dad - is he a good role model for your child? - your choice good luck
2006-12-02 14:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should if you love him and at less 1-or-2 times .sure
2006-12-02 14:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are together with him you should go and see him and support him emotionally. If you are not together or are going to leave him, then it's fine to not go and see him.
2006-12-02 13:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋