I really need help. My social life is completely ****** up. I don't go to clubs, i can't get a conversation flowing with a girl, e.t.c. Just the other day, i was conversing with a girl but i wasn't getting it flowing. Then suddenly, she left me right there. It was so awkward. I felt so stupid at that moment. Pls help! What do i do? How do i improve my conversation skills (especially with the girls) ?
2006-12-02 12:47:26 · 18 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And i'm not ugly. Some girls do say i am "hot".
2006-12-02 12:51:42 · update #1
get off your computer and speak more to real people
2006-12-02 12:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off the girl that just walked off in the middle leaving you standing there is a rude bit*ch anyway and not worthy of your attentions. Even if she wasnt interested that is not what good people do.
My suggestion is that you talk to to an older male or teacher that you respect and trust because he will know you better then we do and you can show him what you do and then he can give you some tips on how to improve without changing the basic person you are. He can also give you tips on how to be more physically attractive to a girl. Just think about the men you know in your life who could help you, I'm sure they would be glad to help.
2006-12-02 13:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if your Yahoo name is just a joke, but I don't think "chronic" is helping you out here. If it IS just a joke, I apologize. Make sure you are making eye contact with the ladies when talking. If you ask them questions, they won't be bored. Ladies do like to be asked questions. Not because they are all selfish, but more so because they like to know that you find them interesting. Don't be afraid to smile instead of trying to just act cool. TIP: Women love funny men. Try to have witty insight on every day issues, and keep a few jokes up your sleeve at all times.
2006-12-02 13:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think what women want the most......go to a social club...or maybe someone who gives advice or who is an expert with the ladies to help you out....ask an actual women maybe a sister,cousin,or even your mother about what women like and what conversations to start with...just be confident and believe in yourself.....women like guys to be funny when first talked to...it's cute....but have control don't make a fool of yourself
2006-12-02 12:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by judy a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to get involved it social activites like community sports teams or volunteer programs and just get used to talking to people with no pressure.
But don't start going to clubs and doing stuff you don't like to do just to impress some girls, try to meet girls who share your interests. If you're into games go to gaming stores or competitions, it'll be a lot easier to talk to people that you share interests with, it gives you something to talk about.
2006-12-02 12:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by *~Mom2aJellybean~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still in School you should find a Teacher,and ask them to improve your Conversations Skills.Hey it Help me when I did not talk much, Thanks to my Speech Teacher now having longer conversation then before.
Or it could be that the girl and you just don't have much in common.
2006-12-02 12:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a common ground.. something your both interested in.. the easiest thing is to tell a funny story or just talk about a tv program if you run outta things to say. Dont be afraid to embarrass yourself by saying something stupid i do it all the time and girls just laugh hehe...
2006-12-02 12:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're meeting the wrong girls. How do you talk to your friends? Try to talk to girls almost like she's one of the guys...ALMOST. Don't try to prepare what to say, just talk to her like you talk to your boys, meaning, don't show her that you're uncomfortable. Chances are she's just as nervous. 9 times out of 10 if you think what you want to say will sound stupid to her, it won't.
2006-12-02 12:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Alishia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start first by looking in that girls eyes to let her know that you are intrested. Find out what she likes so that you don't bore her about you. Try not to talk to a girl unintrested.
2006-12-02 12:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by tisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People like to talk about themselves. Ask her questions and be a good listener. That makes a person super attractive!
2006-12-02 12:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by Gen•X•er (I love zombies!) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a very ugly girl and practice on her.
2006-12-02 12:48:59 · answer #11 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋