last night i had a early birthday celebration, and invited my soon to be husbands, brother and his wife over. well i think they may have drank alittle to much. the brother(jeff) was soon sleeping in my bathroom floor. i wish i could say the same for his wife. she was all over matt(soon to be husband). reminding everyone that the dated in 5th grade. mind you he is now 26. she hung all over him and repeatedly confessed her love for him. so after about an hour of that, it was time to put her to bed, so i help matt walk her into our extra room. she lays down on the bed, and must not have seen me, cause she grabbed his arm and asked where he thought he was going....wtf?? do i say something to her about last night or hope that she dosent remember so that i dont have to deal with her??? help
2006-12-02 12:39:45 · 11 answers · asked by katy mae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he told her that he was about to get married and that she needed to worry alittle less about him and a little more about her husband whom was sleeping with his head in the toliet.
2006-12-02 12:45:49 · update #1
YES!!! SAY SOMETHING!!! I firmly believe that alcohol brings out the truth. She knows what she did was wrong. Say something because if she gets away with it just because she was drunk, she'll think you won't say anything and keep pushing the limits and try again while she's sober. Don't allow her to put your fiance into a compromising situation and threaten your relationship. Yes your fiance is a grown man and evidently you trust him or you wouldn't be marrying him, he's not the issue. But saying something to her would also show respect towards your fiance, showing that eventhough you trust him, you still will not allow some woman to disrespect him and his relationship.
2006-12-02 12:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Alishia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? Do you think that because she was drinking that excuses her? How could you sit there for an hour and watch her throw herself at your fiancee? Get a back bone woman and stand up for yourself! Send her back to where she came from. You need to stay as far away as possible from people like that. And if your husband doesn't understand be glad you found out now.
2006-12-02 20:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say something to her once she sobers up. Something like if she wants to keep that bush of her's in the same spot she won't make that mistake again.
The alcohol only loosened her real thoughts and caused her to shoot off at the mouth. It should be up to your b/f to inform his brother or not of her behavior. Do not trust this woman at all. If she makes a second attempt....rip her to shreds.
2006-12-02 21:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by slick chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd just ask her if she remembers what happened. Talk to her about it, tell her what she did. Find out what Matt thinks about it. Just don't be mean about it, or things will probably get ugly.
2006-12-02 20:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Reverend Jank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately say something to her. It is completely not right of her, and alcohol should not be an excuse. Too many people use alcohol as an excuse for doing stupid and inmoral things.
So, what did your husband do or say to her?
2006-12-02 20:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice. I wouldn't say anything unless she acts attracted to your husband on a daily basis.
2006-12-02 20:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hah hah! thats hilarious!
srry. ok, i suggest u really dont mention it. i mean, what would you say? "By the way, you wanted to have sex w/ my soon-to-be-husband last night."
NO. forget it. if your man loves you, she can remember 5th grade all she wants, but he's YOURS.
hey, she gave you a good laugh! consider that........
2006-12-02 20:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Neha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she remembers about the night before and then tell her what happened if she doesn't...otherwise, just dont mention it if you dont feel that it was a serious incident...
2006-12-02 20:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by macster00007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a toughy well talk to him any way makesure that your on a even keel then mey want to talk to her bout her drunken advences in front of you and how it offended you
2006-12-02 20:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront the little b*tch!!! She has NO right to do that; drunk or not, she should remain in control.
2006-12-02 20:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tellus A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋