when it comes to relationships, If a nice guy knows that girls like spontaneous, wild, fun, handsome, hot guys....basically everything he is not, and he accepts his fate that nice guys are just ok in the eyes of girls; therefore lives his life the way he wants it to be, and just focuses on college,and work, is he neglecting his potentials of finding true love?
2006-12-02 12:59:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that when people devote all of their time to school, work, etc and have no personal connection with the opposite sex they are setting themselves up for being lonely people. This doesn't happen all the time. You can meet the love of your life in the most unlikely of places. But, if you want to make yourself available for experiencing people of different backgrounds, cultures, and experiences you have to be available for social events. Don't EVER change yourself to what you "think" girls want...that NEVER works. Being yourself is not a bad thing, but you shouldn't devote all of your time to school and work. Make sure to have time to meet new people and be socially available.
2006-12-02 13:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by kater_tot01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's true that nice guys finish last, but nice guys always finish best.
It's the bad boys that break hearts, cheat, lie, and steal from their women, and they pay for their misdeeds. All the while, the nice guys may have a few more lonely nights, but they also know more about themselves, live a life without regret, and will treat the love of their life like a queen.
99.9% of women eventually tire of the bad boys at some point, and find that one nice guy they never knew they wanted...and/or regret treating the nice guy the way they did in the past.
2006-12-02 13:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by randomthoughtpatterns 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a nice girl. I am not wild...I can be spontaneous and I am cute. I go to college and work really hard. I feel like I am putting off finding my true love for now. Hopefully I dont turn into the cat lady....so its goes both ways!!!!
2006-12-02 13:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysconfused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Let me tell you from experience....I used to date all the 'bad guys'. I had fun and got really hurt because a lot of the 'bad guys' really don't know how to treat a woman with respect. Now, I am married to a 'nice guy' because he is truly the one person who makes me feel good about myself. He's the one who makes me want to be a better person. I can't tell you how glad I am that I finally gave a nice guy a chance. It's working wonders. So, hang in there and be yourself. Have fun doing the things that you enjoy. One day you will meet her. It will be fantastic. Good luck, hun.
2006-12-02 13:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH HECK NO!. I love nice guys lol. (Maybe cuz I'm a good girl lol) They have a good head on their shoulders. Getting your work out is a GOOD THING. Don't waste your life and not go to college just for the opposite sex.. the right one will come in due time.
2006-12-02 13:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he is not neglecting the potential. In fact, if a guy concentrates on other things than women, they will be more attracted to that. They can't help but want the guy who has other things to occupy his time.
2006-12-02 13:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u have just answered ur own question by stating all this u are feeling, if u have a good personality and have decent looks u can do anything u put your mind to, and yea just being a
"nice guy" gets u nowhere
o yea but finishing college with good grades is a bigr must have
2006-12-02 13:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by hiya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUDE- Tumbleweed thinks ur havin trouble gettin their attention cuz u talk in the third person. NO female finds THAT attractive. Get out from behind the book- find some social groups or parties & find out what real girls like.
How bout this- get an older WOMAN. They don't mind teachin ya, & they usually r more patient. Good luck dude.
Stop that 3rd person thing!!! CREEPY!!!! :-(
2006-12-02 13:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Tumbleweed 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, he's not neglecting anything at all because not all girls go for the guys you describe...plenty of chicks like the "nice guys"...everyone should be true to themselves...who they are...if you don't like you, why should anyone else?
2006-12-02 13:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? Maybe he doesn't even want true love anymore. I would prefer it if more people followed the example of that guys and focused on their careers. That's how you realize that love has become obsolete.
2006-12-02 13:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋