me and my babys daddy aren't together but my ex b/f calls his cousin to see how me and the baby are doin becuz he thinks that the baby is his. but i miss him a lot and i loved him a lot but he cheated on my a lot and he's really no good, he's kind of one of those "bad" guys and now he wants to get in contact with me, what should i do? help please!
2006-12-02 12:46:29 · 22 answers · asked by LeAnn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
read your question, I think the answer is in your own words!
2006-12-02 12:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by dannydolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the baby is not his then leave him alone. If he is no good then that is not someone you want in your baby's life to come and go as he pleases while you baby gets use to him. If he's the babys daddy then tell him that if he wants to be in your lives then he will have to be good and straighten up or you won't have any contact with him. Do whats best for your child, even if you want it really bad. good luck.
2006-12-02 20:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the baby his??? If so, he does have a right to check up on you. If you are saying that the baby is someone else's and he's wanting to check up on you and the baby.. then it shows that he still cares about you. Although, you should not run back to him because you don't want someone that cheats on you. Just tell his cousin to tell him you and the baby are doing fine... and leave it at that.
2006-12-02 20:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by ~dat~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT get back together with him. He cheated on you, enough said. He'll do it again. You and your baby will find someone else to share your lives' with, trust me. Tell this guy to cough up the child support payments and leave it as that.
2006-12-02 20:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is only interested in knowing how u are because he thinks the baby is his..why dont you just tell him its not his...stop leading him on to believe he might be..or might he be the daddy ? listen im almost sure he is just trying to find out if he is the dad of the kid not that he is interested in you..so jsut move on and if he or you ahve some doubt about the kid being whom ever it is the daddys ,,dna tests is teh resolution..move on..
2006-12-02 20:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this as a slam. I'm just being honest. You are young. You baby is, well, your baby. Think of your daughter and forget the loser. He cheated on you and he'll do it again if you give him the chance.
2006-12-02 20:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by Reverend Jank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH???.You don't stay with someone that treats u like s h i t...No matter how much u love them. People that truely love u treat u with respect and want to be with u.They love your company and try to make u happy. So u might want to think about this world and not movies.Bad guys are just that and they don't care about anyone but themselfs. You deserve to be happy so start thinking about yourself and make the right decision.
2006-12-02 20:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUYS LIKE THAT DONT CHANGE THEY MIGHT SHOW THEY CARE A LITTLE ONCE IN A WHILE BUT ITS ONLY BECAUSE THEY MIGHT JUST FEEL BAD FOR JUST THAT SECOND SO YOU LET HIM BACK IN YOUR LIFE DON'T GET ALL HAPPY JOY JOY SWEETIE LIFE IS FULL OF DISSAPOINTMENTS AND HALF OF THESE BABY DADDY'S ARE THE TOP TEN REASONS...
2006-12-02 20:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by zoequeenmiami22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do whatever is right for you and yr baby. It sounds like it's all guys- not you-you-you. You need to concentrate on you and yr baby- not guys,guys,guys. They don't make yr future better, but YOU DO!
2006-12-02 20:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dont do anything except forgett about your ex. He is no better than any other guy in the world. dont bring him into your life.
2006-12-02 20:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by Derinda M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him politely but firmly that you don't want
him around. If this doesn't work, you will have
to put your foot down, or get a little more tough.
2006-12-02 20:49:55 · answer #11 · answered by PrettyEyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋