Singles & Dating - 29 November 2006

i have been going with this girl for about 2 months. and last week we had sex for the first time. everything was going great till i noticed she had a tatoo of my name on just above her vagina. i know she hasnt dated anyone with the same name as me. i should be flattered but i kind of feel freaked out. when i asked her about it ahe said she loved me. and i can honestly say that i only wen tout with her because i wanted to have fun. i like her alot but not sure if i love her. so i dont know what i m freaked out about. is it because im scared that she is getting too close to me or is it that thought of her striping naked in front of somebody else and let them put a tatoo on her vagina. what should i do?

2006-11-29 04:56:21 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 23 year lod dentist dating a new york guy .i live in india i meet his partner requirements but, all he talk abut is dating and sex i love him but don't know abut him i am virgin till now but no doubt he had sex with many he is gud educated . i always call him but, he hardly cares he calls me sometime only,or when i ask him to do so i want to have sex with him the prob is this i will do sex for love and he will do for fun i am attached to him but may be is proud to be citizen of us .i reaaly don't know what to do he is meeting me i am very confused

2006-11-29 04:55:37 · 22 answers · asked by baby 1

2006-11-29 04:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by :-) 2

Any stories to tell me??

2006-11-29 04:55:13 · 24 answers · asked by skin 2

People have inter course through the behind, People do that. Now tell me, Those who have done it, Isn't the crap in there bad. I mean all this guys talk about doing it there and don't they get disgusted by the things in that particular area. especially sticking there finger. I'm sorry, but I really do want to know this, not trying to be funny or stupid, Please answer truthfully, especially those who have done it

2006-11-29 04:53:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

This morning, my guy and I were talking. We live in my grandmother's house. (she stays with my retired mom so my mom can help her b/c she's not very stable on her feet.) At Grammy's death, the house is mine. He said when the house is mine, he wants to basically gut it and redo everything. I told him I didnt want to do that. He said he's be living elsewhere. I told him I didn't want to destroy my house. I have too many good memories of this house the way it is. He's still mad. Am I in the wrong for wanting it to stay the same?

2006-11-29 04:53:17 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thoughts/opinions/experiences.....my problem is that I am pretty much only attracted to guys outside my race, but most of the guys I meet are only attracted to or will only date INside their race. If somebody has a mindset like that, do you think it is possible for them to change ( if they fall in love) Guys I am attracted to or interested to aren't down for a relationship (only sex).....is it becuase I am white....or is it becuase I am annoying (lol)
Do you think there are more guys out there than girls who are attracted to the opposite races? Why the heck does it even matter? I cant help it if I like dark meat :)

2006-11-29 04:52:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night, my bf of 5 yrs and I were talking. Just about anything and everything. I've been feeling kinda down lately and I felt I needed reassurance, ya know? Alot of women get like that at times so I just asked what he admired about me. He was quiet for a minute and in a very noncaring tone he said, "Know what Bri? I honestly don't know." What does that mean? Has he lost interest? Does he not want me?

2006-11-29 04:49:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently she came to me after 6years and said i have a problem, im not as happy as i used to be. I asked her why? she said i really dont know. We talked about it and basically she said she is sick of having to answer to me when ever she wants to go out with her friends and she is sick of having to be yelled at constantly. I then asked her dont give me false hopes but do you love me and like me as much as you always did? She replied yes i promise, she then said i want to fix the way i feel but i know i want to one day marry to you. I then said how do you want this break to work are we hooking up with other people? are we talking? are we hanging out? she said i want to talk to you and noway are other people involved in this. I then told her im not calling you and dont call me until the break is over. She has already sent me a text message telling me she misses me and the next day sends an email with pitcures of us. Should i be worried to lose her or should i let her have her space?

2006-11-29 04:49:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you like a girl, do u tell her that u like her or u prefer to keep in secret?
do u give her signs?

2006-11-29 04:48:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

He got drunk with college friends from 6pm onwards.He then offered to walk a girl he thought didn't like him to the train station.She missed her train.Between the two of them they got a hotel room-double/single I didn't ask.Once in the room he said he wanted to just sleep, but she suggested sex.She guided him into her and they had sex "twice but in the same sequence of events" he also remembers going down on her.The next morning he says he felt awful about it.

Roll on 3 weeks. I notice he hasn't been calling as much as usual. We go out for a meal and when I get flirtatious and suggest going home with him, he backs off.

So last friday. He comes over and tells me what happened. I am shaking. Up to this point we have only ever slept with and gone out with only each other.We have been together for nearly 5 years.Basically its total devastation.But VERY oddly I went home with him that night...Now I feel like I'm losing the plot....HELP ME!!!We're both 24.I thought we'd last another year!

2006-11-29 04:47:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Iv been seeing this lad for the past 6 months, its a very strange relationship we have got. When were together i couldnt wish for a nicer person but then he just goes cold on me. I dont hear anything from him then he texts me like nothings wrong.I really dont know where i am with him. Iv tried talking to him but i get nowhere.Any tips i can use on him,play him at his own game,what do you think???

2006-11-29 04:47:44 · 19 answers · asked by skin 2

I know I am on the verge. That makes me a vergen.

2006-11-29 04:46:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

so there is this guy who i've known for about two and a half years now. i've kinda had this big crush on him the entire time. but about a year ago we had a big fight about something stupid. so stupid i dont know what it was about. neither does he. and about october we began talking again. and flirting. but he has a girlfriend. and they're off and on. and shes always breaking up with him for stupid things. and recently when they were off, we hooked up. and he said they were done for good. so i was all excited. then two days later a friend told me they got back together. and i dont want to be that girl he calls when he wants something, ya know? and i really dont know what to do. i know i would treat him better than she does. but hes so confusung. he likes to play mind games with me. i suppose i do it to him to. but i really dont know what to do here. should i keep pursueing this or let it go and stay friends? please help me.

2006-11-29 04:45:34 · 6 answers · asked by hunnyz_heart 2

How do they act if they just wanna sleep with you as opposed to genuinely fancuying you and wanting you for a girlfriend? I know they all want to sleep with you in the end but whats the difference in the beginning? Bear in mind that this guy is 36 (not sure if it makes a difference!)

2006-11-29 04:45:02 · 13 answers · asked by Michele 3

How long it took you to know that person is the one? Is there anyone took a long time to know that person is the one and have a successful long relationship after went through many things?

2006-11-29 04:43:02 · 6 answers · asked by jian l 1

my ex bf is talking to some other girl right now. but says he still loves me and still cares about me. do you think it will take him time to realize that he really loves me and will come back to me? we were together for 2 and a half years. he said that it just wasnt there anymore for us. and said he has been thinking about doing it for a while. he waited a month to actually break up with me. i dont know why he waited so long. but love just doesnt fade away that fast. i want him to realize what he is missing. will he come back to me?

2006-11-29 04:40:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone who have been there done that and think they can really help me out, WHERE????

2006-11-29 04:39:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, the love of my life just killed me. He broke up with me because I don't know why. He tells me that he still loves me and always will and he says that he still wants to be with me. then i found out through a friend that he doesnt know if he wants to be with me anymore. So when i confronted him he said he still loves me and he wants to be with me. so i asked him if he loves me and wants to be with me why aren't you and he said because It makes it easier on us. If throwing up constanly not being able to sleep and crying for 4 days straight is easier ok then but this is rediculous. Whats he gonna choose? Is he gonna come back? Or will he just kill me completely. He was "mi ceilo", my heaven I need him to survive. without him im nothing im dead. what to do? what to do?

2006-11-29 04:38:20 · 19 answers · asked by Just another xXemoXx kid... 1

bet I get reported for this one.

2006-11-29 04:36:32 · 9 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6

well one of the love of my life's ex boyfriends has stepped into the picture and well i see him trying to take over me by sending her love letters saying this and that well i dont know what to do...do i fight back...give her space....or do i do the same back....or what should i do

2006-11-29 04:36:29 · 9 answers · asked by big W 1

2006-11-29 04:35:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well basically iv'e been with my girlfriend for alomost 2years now. But resently i have been having dreams about someone else. who hapens to be my bestfriend. In my dreams me and my bestfriend are so happy and just living the good life, but im so inlove with her. But when i wake up and my girlfriend is in my arms...i feel like i dont want her to be there. its like im falling outta love with my girlfriend but inlove with my bestfried...but my bestfriend from my dreams. its like my dreams are making me fall outta love with my girlfriend and i dont know what could be the problem because i love my girlfriend with my heart!! and i wanted to be with her forever. what am i to do? whats is wrong with me? what does this mean?

2006-11-29 04:35:08 · 12 answers · asked by Ms.rainbowlove 1

so what are you thinking\dreaming of????????

2006-11-29 04:33:21 · 10 answers · asked by Rooster 3

okay,your boyfriend starts hanging out all night til the next day time and time again,4 years and hes taken off edleast 36 times.he leaves you at work with no ride home and just takes off til the next day,then he comes home says he sorry and he will stop,then does it again.all you ask for is for some attention once and a while and you will have no problem with him going out til the next day,his idea of attention is watching tv together. you stress when he is gone because you worrie he is driving drunk,and might get in an accident.so you ask him to leave you the car so he wont be tempted to drive and he bitches.he doent really show any kind of emotion but anger he said he doesnt know how,im going to let him read this so he can see other peoples point of view,i feel the need to say,i do EVERYTHING for him,when he gets home he has to do NOTHING,and all i ask is for a kind word,but he said he feels stupid saying things like you look nice ect...whats your take on this honest.

2006-11-29 04:32:57 · 11 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1

my an x broke up with me in june but we were basicly still going out untill last week we still had a boyfriend girlfriend relationship wit no tittle.THEn we stop talking this friday the next day i seen him he pushed me away when i tried to hug him days later i figure out that same night i seen him he had this whore at his house and i think they had sex cause my friend say dat the talk wit the girl now but from what she know he dont relly like her he's going to be 18 in s few months so yeah we are both young but i wanna be wit him i know i shouldnt still want him but i do. at first i was gonna say forget him but then this guy started flirtn with me and the guy knows i dont like him but he just kept flirtn wit me infront of my x, and my ex was tryna be all sweet to me and talk 2 me but a few days ago he wouldnt even hug me but now i know he still feeling me what should i do to get his attention if ur gonna tell me leave em alone and if ur gonna tell me im a bad writer dont write me

2006-11-29 04:31:57 · 9 answers · asked by Lovely_lady74 1

She will usually only be with older men, 50's/60's, and says she doesn't feel attracted at all to anyone who isn't that age. She also comes from a very abusive background, has no family in her life, and has relationship issues. Plus, she's a virgin who never had sex because her first experience was almost forced and not concensual but the guy never went through with it.

What should the guy in this case do? If she's not with him she will be with other older men.

2006-11-29 04:31:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I tried, it's hard, I tried to talk to my bf about my problems, and i feel better, then later on i feel the same problem again..this is beginning to hurt us...I tell him i will stop worrying and stop being jealous and i will trust him and i will try to become more interesting (Routine sucks!) And i want to!! But I cant become the person I want! HELP??? What the hell is my problem?? Its like it goes in one ear and out the other!Help! The relationship is dying because of me!! Please help! I don't want it to die...and weve talked so many times!! Nothing is working, Im happy after we talk, and then I get the same feelings again! Am I bipolar?? whats going on??!?! I never use to be like this?? Help? He tells me he loves me, and I love him, why am I being like this?

2006-11-29 04:30:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think it's best to hold your tonge if you get mad or speak your mind?

2006-11-29 04:29:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i havE KNOWN SOMEONE THROUGH MARRIAG SITE,HE IS NICE, HE IS LIKE A BIG BABY..AND KIND I STARTED HAVING FEELINGS TOWARDS HIM AND HE HAD ALSO,BUT HE IS HESITATING IN GENERAL,DIVORCED SEVERAL TIMES,FINANTIALLY UNSUPPORTED,ONEDAY TELLING ME HOW MUCH HE LOVES ME,THE OTHER DAY SAYS I'M SORRY I CAN CONTINUE I HAVE A VERY BAD CIRCUMSTANSES

2006-11-29 04:26:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous