i have been going with this girl for about 2 months. and last week we had sex for the first time. everything was going great till i noticed she had a tatoo of my name on just above her vagina. i know she hasnt dated anyone with the same name as me. i should be flattered but i kind of feel freaked out. when i asked her about it ahe said she loved me. and i can honestly say that i only wen tout with her because i wanted to have fun. i like her alot but not sure if i love her. so i dont know what i m freaked out about. is it because im scared that she is getting too close to me or is it that thought of her striping naked in front of somebody else and let them put a tatoo on her vagina. what should i do?
2006-11-29 04:56:21 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Andi on this one. Maybe she did it, and sorry to be cynical here, but maybe it was to trap you..."But you can't leave me...I have your name tattooed on my C U Next Tuesday" It's pretty wierd to get a tattoo in that place as well. If I were you, I'd talk to her and ask her exactly what she wants. And maybe take some time apart to figure out what you want yourself. At the end of the day, you never asked her to get the tattoo, and if she's fixated on marrying you or something, when all you want is "fun", you should let her down gently now because a girl unstable enough to get that tattoo in teh first place won't take being (or feeling as though she has been) strung along very kindly.
2006-11-29 22:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Little One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vaginal Tatoo
2016-09-28 00:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think it is a bit extreme of her to have a tattoo of your name on her, only after two months!
If I was you I would not worry to much though, as the relationship will run its course with or without the tattoo, she is the one that has to live with it for the rest of her life, the idea of being with her for just a bit of fun, is not really appropriate, especially as she obviously did not know you felt that way.
I wish you all the best with this,
take care!
2006-11-29 05:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by andi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not surprised that you feel uncomfortable, but maybe she just made an error of judgement. I would just let the relationship run its normal course if you can, she was only trying to make a statement about how she feels about you. A girl I know had a 'no entry' sign tattooed by hers - maybe you should feel thankful for small mercies...
2006-11-29 05:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by lianhua 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HaHa.. Just be really mean to her,, do things to turn her offf,, she'll still stay with you for a while,, but she wont be as serious..
oorrrrrrr.....
Ask her, like why she didn't tell you about it. Just explain that you dont really think it was a great idea,, but be upfront about it,, or she mind get the wrong idea && turn it around.. like she might be thinking you're trying to say that you love her,, girls can do that ya kno // so be blunt,, but not a total jackass
2006-11-29 15:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if she did strip down and let some one ink her cooch. what do you think she had sex with the tattoo person or something? if that is the case then you already have trust issues. she is stupid as all h*ll for putting your name on her body (i just learned that lesson). if you feel she is getting too close then you have commitment issues. if you only want to have fun, then you need to tell her so she does not fall any harder for your insecure player butt.
2006-11-29 08:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let it bother you. If she starts asking you to get her name on your body then i would worry. If she loves you and wants to do that that's fine. I fell kinda bad for the next guy that has to look at that every time he is bangin her. If it bothers you that bad do her a couple more times and then dump her.
2006-11-29 05:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like this gurl is in love with u. people do amazingly weird things wen there in love with you TRUST ME. give it some time and if this girl is right u might even love her back.
weird enough wen i got with my girlfriend she had a belly piercing with my name on it aswell, and i g2 say it was kinda cute!
hope it all goes well dude.
peace.
2006-11-29 05:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder you're freaked out, that's creepy! For one thing, who gets a tattoo down there??
I think you ought to talk to her and let her down gently if that's the way you feel ...
2006-11-29 04:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sounds obsessed !! I am assuming that the tatoo was real... If you aren't in to a long term deal, I would run, and run fast !
2006-11-29 04:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋