Singles & Dating - 29 November 2006

OK I AM IN HIGH SCHOOL AND I LIKE THIS GUY ALOOOOOOOT! WHEN I GO TO SLEEP I THINK ONLY ABOUT HIM AND WHEN I GO TO SKOOL AND SEE HIM I GET CHILLS. I LOOK FORWARD TO SEE HIM DURING THE DAY AND WHEN I DO HE SMILES AND CALLS MY NAME.... HE WRITES ME SOMETIMES AND TELLS ME I AM PRETTY.. HIS BEST FRIEND AMANDA TOLD ME THAT HE SAID HE REALLY LIKED ME BUT HE DOESNT WANT TO HURT ME IF WE DATED. I AM SOO CONFUSED WHAT DOES HE MEAN BY THIS????!?
HE IS A VIRGIN AND ME TOO AND HE IS 18 BUT I DONT GET WHAT COULD HE POSSIBLY HURT ME ABOUT? I IN HEAD OVER HEALS FOR HIM AND I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT....??!? DO I ASK IF HE LIKES ME OR WAIT FOR HIM TO TELL ME? HE IS ALSO VERYY SHY.. PPL GIVE ME SOME GOOD ADVICE PLEASE I AM GOING CRAZY THINKING ABOUT HIM?

2006-11-29 04:25:00 · 12 answers · asked by saved 3

A few days a go i met up with my guy. When i got to the park, which is like our hang out place, he was just having a big go at me saying how i keep bugging him about his drug taking and how i should just back off! he was shouting so loudly it made me cry so his best friend who is also mine took me home and then he says i shuld just forget about jack because he will never love me properly. Is he right or not?
And also when ever we meet we fight but when we are texting or phoning each other its fine!

x...X....x15 yr old girl UKx...X....x

2006-11-29 04:23:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why are women sooooo difficult for men to understand?

2006-11-29 04:23:51 · 27 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6

i found out that she had sex b4, its really killing me guys, i expected that shes a virgin and am gonna be the first and only man for her, i know am from a different culture and place, but doesnt it bother u guys too ?, i dont know should i leave her or forget this and move on, knowing that its hard for me to forget it, and i know that she really loves me so much.
another thing, i had some troubles and like a medical condition lately, and the only way we could contact now if am not able to be online is just texting, when i had this bad times, she was not texting much, so i felt like she doesnt care and shes not supporting me, it happened in other situations too, do u think its the distance or that i want her so much more than i should, like am so greedy or what ?
i really need ur help guys, am so depressed

2006-11-29 04:22:16 · 6 answers · asked by Tarek M 1

is that a turnoff?

2006-11-29 04:21:47 · 8 answers · asked by gateofdoom1 1

The story - I met this guy and his buddy a couple weeks ago after the bar, we went out (his buddy & my girlfriend) had a BLAST! Two days later we all went out again, again, had a blast and I stayed over. Couple days later - again, same thing....then that weekend I just hung out at his house and watched TV with two more of his friends - it was OK, had fun, but I didnt know how to act around these new people, so I guess I was a little reserved...but still got a good night kiss when I left...but now its been 4 days and I havnt heard from him. Do guys really play this 'game' where they dont want to call and seem anxious, etc? He had instigated everything before - and now Im at a loss...so I called last night and he didnt answer his cell...will he call? what do you think? Hes really nice! his friends are cool and we had a super super time...Dont want the fun to stop now!!!!

2006-11-29 04:21:23 · 5 answers · asked by Broken 2

2006-11-29 04:21:07 · 8 answers · asked by cristal D 1

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so. He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad. He is silent since 15 days now. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN???

2006-11-29 04:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by saikiena 1

shes always round me and that and shell come up 2 me and give me a hug and that and the other day we wa in science and she sat on me knee and held me hands and that im really confused but she likes this other lad and i rate dont know what to do

2006-11-29 04:20:25 · 4 answers · asked by adam s 1

2006-11-29 04:20:04 · 8 answers · asked by apple 1

2006-11-29 04:18:48 · 20 answers · asked by grocerygirl_24 2

So if you've ever seen any of my other questions I dance salsa and so does my girlfriend, I finally made up my mind to be a better dancer and just love my girlfriend. Recently we bought tickets for a big New Years Salsa Party and of course when we go out we dance with different people. I don't want her to wear this insanely sexy red dress to this salsa event. It's mainly because I won't be the only guy who she's wearing the dress for, I guess that's jealousy??? Am I just insecure??? Do I not trust my girlfriend??? I just feel bad about this whole thing, she should be able to wear whatever she wants...right???

2006-11-29 04:17:58 · 18 answers · asked by Alberto R 2

I dont know what to do. It sounds crazy but my bf (of 7 years) who is aslo my two sons dad is in the middle of trying to get off of cocaine. He keeps doing it but is (I believe) trying to truely stop and be the guy I want him to be, but it is a hard thing to quit. I love our family so much and so does he and it hurts me because I think he really wants to be better and he cant Anyway the point is he is trying to do his best with everything (this week anyway). I have not cheated on him ever and wouldnt want to b/c he did to me in the past and i know how that feels but I like this guy who I have liked in the past when my bf and I had broken up before. I have talked to him a couple times and I know he likes me too, but I dont know if I should stop talking to him all together and see if my bf is really going to change and keep my faith in him or if I should talk to him anyway and assume he will not totally get better ever?

2006-11-29 04:17:42 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

what can you do when someone whom you just broke up with, for a good reason, won't leave you alone....and it's not even my fualt that i broke up with him, and he's telling all his friend's lies about me....like i broke up with him for no reason...and it's all my all my fault! and he always threatens to kill himself right in front of everyone because he's so "depressed". i know he is....it's making me feel bad. he keeps giving me these death stares...he's starting to creep me out!

2006-11-29 04:17:13 · 1 answers · asked by gurly gurl 1

- He's 9 years older than me (but doesn't look/act it)
- We work for the same company, but aren't in the office much together.
- Known him for about 6 months now & he asked me out for a drink last week.
- He told our workmates he was worried about asking me out case I said no.
- He's been asking them loads of questions about me.
- We've been texting each other quite a lot.
- Went out at the weekend, something to eat and drinks. Was weird at the end cos don't think either of us knew what to do. Ended up giving me a peck on the cheek.
- Spent all night chatting and laughing.
- He said we should do something again, but is he just trying to be nice because we work together? I hope not. I'd really like to keep seeing him!! What should I do now?

2006-11-29 04:15:55 · 26 answers · asked by jellytots78 1

Ive read through some simular questions...and most people suggest to dress up sexy..not tarty. I dont think they mean lingere, so what kind of clothes shall i wear?

...girls maybe you can help me out but guys does your girlfriend wear anything that gets you a bit hot? other then underwear :P

thanks

2006-11-29 04:15:19 · 7 answers · asked by moomoo 2

Well I have been going out with this guy for 3 months and 10 days. Today some of my best friends have been coming up to me and saying that I should keep an eye on him, he has been flirting with other girls behind my back, i really like this guy and he says he really likes me! what should I do?

2006-11-29 04:14:26 · 17 answers · asked by beproud_playloud 1

Is it physical, emotional or a bit of each?

2006-11-29 04:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, i am very sweet about it, because i KNOW how it feels to be on the receiving end.
One of my friends, was plain MEAN to a guy.He used to buy her stuff, she used to accept them and then throw them away or break them and he still loved her.
On the other hand, if i don't like a guy, i make sure that i don't lead them on and i try to be as nice about it as possible,STILL they hate me.Infact, one of the guys, i later found out, told everyone i was an arrogant b**ch with an attitude problem.
Why is this so?
IS my being nice somehow worse to their egos ??
Or am i unconciously hurting them in some way?

2006-11-29 04:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by Sunrise 5

We broke up four months ago, and she told me he was texting her this past Sat. nite to see if she was out. What the hell is up with that? Why is it bugging me?

2006-11-29 04:12:26 · 5 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1

When I talked to her in person she was all playful with me. She asked like 5 times why I didn't take homesoming pictures with her. She was really cool then. Was it because none of her other friends were around? She was real cool. I mean she acted like a real friend so I don't think she's not interested in being friends, but when I try to call/text her she seems uncomfortable. What's going on here?

2006-11-29 04:10:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been with my girl a while now and i seem to be the one who always asks if she wants to go out on saturday night or something. Is this right, i mean should she ask me out sometimes?

2006-11-29 04:09:47 · 10 answers · asked by macmurphy45 1

i am in love with this guy at school. i have tell him and showed him how much i love him but he does not want anything with me.
when i call him he always ends the calls with any excuse.
i decided to leave him alone but it hurts me because i really love him.
i have not see him in 2 weeks now and his b-day is next week
should i send him something?
or just a card?
or totally leave him alone?
he said he wants to be my friend.


i'm 19

2006-11-29 04:09:05 · 38 answers · asked by Pringuita 3

I met a guy the other day and he's really cute, I was walking around looking for makeup and he was checking me out and I was ignoring him, then suddenly he started to talk to me and I answered back it was nice and friendly then we said our good byes and that was that, but before I left I had the urge to give him my phone number so I wrote it down on a piece of paper and went over to him and he came running and took the number and I left, and that was on sunday why hasn't he called? and how long does it take a guy to call a women back?

2006-11-29 04:08:03 · 14 answers · asked by Wendy 2

GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP

2006-11-29 04:07:23 · 7 answers · asked by racheal m 1

I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now who I knew had a girlfriend back home in Brazil.

He has now decided that he has had enough of this country and wants to move away which is fair enough, but he is also still commited to her and still feels strongly for.

I know how it sounds, like he just wants his cake and eat it, but I have fallen for him so much and I know he has for me but feels that he has to keep his promises to his girlfriend which he shouldn't have made in the first place.

I know that she is bad for him and only wants mone and an easy life, which is understandable as life there can be quite difficult, but he doesn 't realise this.

How can I make him see that he would be so much better off with me someone who would love him for him and make him stronger and treat him the way he should be treated because he really is a great guy, he's my soulmate.

Please don't say just move on, I just need him to see what he is leaving behind and help him make the right choice

2006-11-29 04:06:55 · 9 answers · asked by Isabel M 1

2006-11-29 04:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend doesnt want me to get him a Xmas present, but im the type of person who has to buy a Xmas present for EVERYONE...and apparently he's gotten me a pretty awesome gift....and on top of all that he has to be the hardest person to buy for....WHAT TO DO?

2006-11-29 04:06:16 · 5 answers · asked by CatLover101 1

My boyfriend & I had an agrument last night.

First we had sex and he came quick because he can't handle me too long when i'm on top, but i do it anyways just to please him although i don't get much out of it. I knew that he couldn't stay long. He just sat there for about 30 mins.

Then, he performs oral on me.

and when it was time for the last round, we had to stop suddenly (don't ask why,be it was urgent)

I was really upset because i really didn't enjoy myself and said that this was a waste of time. He was upset because I was upset and said he wasn't coming over again. I asked why and he just ignored me. I feelings were hurt so bad. We broke up last night because MOST of our small arguement lead into HUGE things.

I was wrong for getting upset. I admitt it was selfish. BUT he is wrong for his short temper that he needs to work on and his also doesn't have patience. I love him so much and now I'm trying to get him 2 C that we can change together. I AM SO WILLING 2 CHANGE!

2006-11-29 04:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by stress77mulah 3

I'll start again.He got drunk with college friends from 6pm onwards.He then offered to walk a girl he thought didn't like him to the train station.She missed her train.Between the two of them they got a hotel room-double/single I didn't ask.Once in the room he said he wanted to just sleep, but she suggested sex.She guided him into her and they had sex "twice but in the same sequence of events" he also remembers going down on her.The next morning he says he felt awful about it.

Roll on 3 weeks. I notice he hasn't been calling as much as usual. We go out for a meal and when I get flirtatious and suggest going home with him, he backs off.

So the present- last friday. He comes over and tells me what happened. I am shaking. Up to this point we have only ever slept with and gone out with only each other.We have been together for nearly 5 years.Basically its total devastation.But VERY oddly I went home with him that night...Now I feel like I'm losing the plot....HELP ME!!!!

2006-11-29 04:01:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous