Singles & Dating - 29 November 2006

my freind was set up and she is thinking about giving up on finding some one.

2006-11-29 05:41:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know everything about her already and she does me from the profiles, we have loads in common but I don't wanna talk about them in an email so should I ask her already if she wants to meet up?

2006-11-29 05:40:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 05:39:47 · 22 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5

my bf and me have a great realtionship and everything and he has always been supportive of my swimming career. a week ago in the mail i found a letter from this place in cali! they want me to swim there with them in some competition! i was so excited and when i told Rissy he freaked out and said that he cant go because of his musical try outs and i dont want to go alone! my friends rudi and cindy have a town house out in cali about 20 miles from the comp is. we have been so suportive of eachother and now we are at a huge rift. he says if i go then that means i dont care about his music. (he wants to go somewhere in life with it) i care but i have to follow my dreams right? what should i do?

2006-11-29 05:37:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 05:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

while pleasuring yourself? Or do you go about your business and get it done without any thought?

just curious :)

2006-11-29 05:37:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

see... I'm a lesbin... I love girls... I don't know why... but I just do.. and see.. i have a girlfriend she's a stud and I love her.. but see.. it's this other dike and she keeps messing with me and my friends say she be checking me out.. I use to like this girl until I got back with my girlfriend.. but when she flirts with me.. it turns me on.. but how can that be when I love this other person I am with.. I mean... I know that i love this person for my own personal reasons.. and for that I keep pushing that girl that keeps hitting on me away.. but something I don't know what it is but something is making me want to do something to that girl.. other than that all I think about is my lover.. I love one person.. and that one person only.. but I just can't seem to understand what is this feeling I am feeling with this other person...

2006-11-29 05:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by latasha 2

My bf of 3.5 months, whom I love and who loves me, recently told me he found out his ex has started dating again. He said it surprises him that he feels jealous. My bf doesn't have much experience with girls...he's 23 and I'm his 2nd serious girlfriend. He used to be a seminary student, but decided he didn't want to be a priest.
Since then, he's dated his ex (he dated her for 3 years) and me. He says he knows for sure that he loves me. He's even told me he could see us married someday. It's crazy because we haven't been dating that long, but we spend everyday together (we're law students and in the same classes), so I feel like I've known him forever.
Now, however, he's worried that this jealousy might mean he still has feelings for his ex. He said he needs to go home (to MN, we're in VA now) for Xmas and see her to know for sure. I'm worried he might want her back, but he told me last night that was pretty unlikely (i.e. he dumped her for a reason).

Should I believe him?

2006-11-29 05:35:38 · 8 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3

My boyfriend will be turning 19 in January and yes I have already started planning his special day! My only question is .. is it a good idea to invite some of his close friends (maybe 3 or 4) to a nice sit sown dinner with us or should it just be the two of us?

2006-11-29 05:34:46 · 18 answers · asked by Queen 4

I was at a party on Saturday night. I got a little drunk, and I was talking with a guy friend that I have known for about a year. On Monday, we exchanged some funny emails about things that happened at the party. One of his emails made reference to me saying some things that he surprised him. I knew that I was being bold and flirty, so I emailed him back and asked him if I propositioned him and apologized if I said anything inappropriate. He emailed me back and said the following :
"I don't recall any propositions...but it is flattering to know that the risk was there."
How do I interpret that, and how do I respond ? I might be interested in having fun with the guy. I know he is married, so please don't read me the riot act, just interpret for me.

2006-11-29 05:33:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

please no stupid things like sex stuff!!!!!!(men)

2006-11-29 05:31:04 · 2 answers · asked by tequilla_colby07 1

2006-11-29 05:30:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 05:30:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've never made out before, and it's going to happen soon I think, but he soesn't know how inexperienced I am, and I'm afraid he's going to push for more, how would I get him to stop that, but not get offended or put off or anything? At what point should I tell him to cut it out?

2006-11-29 05:30:05 · 9 answers · asked by Julie 3

so here's the short...while hanging out last week i met someone and we seemed to hit it off. we spent the entire evening talking, laughing and being silly. we went to his place and although it had been agreed that no sex would occur, we did have a pretty hot and heavy make-out session. he told me that he had just dumped his girlfriend of 3 years; and i thought "great" because me and my boyfriend had just broken up, too. but when we were at his place, she called him about 10 times back-to-back. i just thought maybe she was a little crazy.
so...fast forward to this past weekend. i called him once and there was no answer, so i left a voice-mail. he hasn't called me back. i'm already guessing he's not too interested but am i jumping the gun? should i give him a little more time before i delete him from my life forever? also, does it sound like he and his girlfriend never broke up? i'd really like to see him, again, but i don't want to chase him; especially if he has a gf.

2006-11-29 05:29:07 · 13 answers · asked by iPROMISE[♥] 2

2006-11-29 05:28:21 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

Damn, I never thought i'd ever resort to this thing. but. there a girl I know we've known eacthother for like 2 weeks. she's very playful. very friendly. I really like her. I think she likes me too, but I'm not sure, I can kind of guess just by the way she looks at me, also how we hug everytime we see eachother (real hug, not the half assed one arm hugs). I want to ask her to be my girlfriend, but I'm not exactly sure how, it's not something I can just ask. I dunno. I'm just trying to figure out how to find out if we have something, she's gorgeous, and I really like her. Please help :)?

2006-11-29 05:27:41 · 5 answers · asked by stattiiic 2

so i was on the phone withmy bf like 15 min ago and asked him how his day went. then he tells me that he hanging out with this girl Jessica but he has never mentioned anything to me since he knows that it would make me mad! but all of a sudden i was like what the heck? and he sees this girl i dont know how many times a week behind my back with out me knowing. when he said that i just wanted to take my cell and throw it against athe wall or something because it hurt so bad for him to lie to me! also, when i started dating him i saw someting so good in him yet now i feel that what i saw in him is almost gone or to that point!got off the phone with my best friend of 5 years and she told me that she thinks that he is cheating on me!when she said said that i asked her why he had to go to the same university as me? and she was asking me if i am being honest or mad or what and i said that i wish that he did not attend the same university as me! can someone help me ? thanks

2006-11-29 05:27:09 · 1 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5

I love chatting online and people tell me I am really smart and funny. I am overweight by about three stone but I am told I am pretty with a nice personality.Because of my weight I tend to look frumpy and so I dont get a lot of male attention. One said I dress like his mother.
I only open up when I get to know people for some time, but by then guys lose interest.Please help I am really lonely and really want a boyfriend to share my life with

2006-11-29 05:26:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

where you can at least give someone your email addy or IM, name? they used to have webdate.com, but even they started charging a year or so ago.

2006-11-29 05:25:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 05:24:36 · 23 answers · asked by Marino 3

I am a 24 yr old guy. A girl always smiles when I smile at her, and will always talk to me when i make the effort. Does this mean she likes me? I don't think it does necessarily but my question is: How would I know if the girl likes me? I'm not sure if she's single. She's about my age.

Thanks for answering my question.....

2006-11-29 05:23:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this person for two months, and although things are wonderful, I find that since we got closer, he's a bit detached at times, so i am not sure if it's a lifestyle thing, or a personal thing. Either way I am willing to give it a shot, but I wonder if i need to learn more about it. He's a big boy, been in the force for 16 years, so I am not worried about him getting hurt. Just want to know other's experience and see what I should expect.

2006-11-29 05:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by grldragon101 4

out there like me who still think about it? i am a man now. it all started with my dad and after a while my mom found out what he was doing and she wanted me to. i am not tramatised by it now but i do still have the memories.

2006-11-29 05:22:18 · 30 answers · asked by to old 1

when i was sick i was playing online poker and i met this guy...we email back and forth and i now feel extremely attracted to him...am i crazy??

2006-11-29 05:21:08 · 9 answers · asked by onetwothree 4

My boyfriend and I are both 31, have been together for five happy years, and lived together for three of them. We are from different cultural backgrounds, which is wonderful and difficult at the same time. I am frustrated with our relationship progression, we have so much fun together, and are the envy of all of our friends, yet when I bring up the topics of the future/marriage/family, he gives me the same answers; he's too young and just not ready to 'settle down'. I have only seriously broached this topic for the past year, and there has been little progress in our communication on the subject. This, for me, is a big deal. I know I we want to have a future together, but I feel like "talking" about what you want out of a marriage and family are important. He seems to feel like getting married will be the end to any fun or freedom. I would like to talk to someone (therapist), to understand eachother better, but he is not very open to it. Sometimes I (sadly) feel like moving on...

2006-11-29 05:21:00 · 6 answers · asked by NYC olive 2

2006-11-29 05:20:08 · 15 answers · asked by littleone24t 1

I do not fear getting it but i hope she comes back she had to go back east but said she's coming back

2006-11-29 05:18:56 · 11 answers · asked by Victorio 2

for christmas.?

2006-11-29 05:18:38 · 6 answers · asked by LiL MaMa 2

If someone of the opposite sex isn't able to be emotionally available for me, then why should someone like this have to waste my time? The person should have left me alone in the first place. It's kind of hard to tell in the beginning whether someone is capable of being able to have a non-committed relationship.

2006-11-29 05:18:05 · 3 answers · asked by Debbie M 1