Singles & Dating - 17 November 2006

how come every guy that tryed to talk to me on the internet is so freakin nasty and perverted cause i have bearshare and on bearshare u have an account its like myspace well not so much but kinda. i know that cause my brother has myspace i dont but bearshare u can see how many people view your profile and if they want they can IM you every guy that IMs me is a sick pervert i try to explain to them im only 12 but they still dont seem to care on my profile it says im 14 because that is the lowest it would go it wont let me put in 1994 the youngest u can be is 14 i didnt know that the new bearshare was like this i just found out about 2,3 months ago the first person that wrote me was a guy and it started last mounth when i figured out u can write people but i didnt but the boys did write me and they say some thing that either scare me or make me made like a few guys wrote I LOVE U WHAT IS YOUR EMAIL and things i dont wanna repeat. plez help what can i do.BS is were u can download music

2006-11-17 18:43:37 · 18 answers · asked by Lil 'sita 1

that a guy had a big dick would this change things? this girl at school gave me a ******* and the next day i saw her whispering something to another girl and then the other girl just sort of looked at me differently. I'm asian and ever since that happened the other girl has been hitting on me and giving me signals

2006-11-17 18:40:00 · 8 answers · asked by private0909 1

k theres this guy i like n he also tells me that he likes me but doesnt show it!!
because from my point of view when a guy likes you
he at least calls you ones a day or ones a week if his to bizzy!!
but he doesnt he calls me like ones a months
n when he sees me he doesnt say hi!!!
n when i ask him why he says he didnt see me
i mean i tried to move on but when im almost getting there he calls n i fall for him again!!!!
u know sometimes i wonderd if im the one that was supposed to call him beacuse he didnt call back!!!!
wat should i do!!!

2006-11-17 18:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by put a smile on =) 1

how he looks or acts

2006-11-17 18:33:44 · 9 answers · asked by Tootie 2

2006-11-17 18:32:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and i have been together for a year and a half and sometimes I can't see us lasting. There are times when i know that he's The One and yet there are times when i just can't stand him being around and I want to leave.
I don't want to leave him but soemtimes i feel as though i need to leave. Is this a normal way of feeling?
How can a guy i love make me cry my eyes out at one moment and yet be so sweet at other times?
I just feel really down at the moment and kind of like his love isn't worth the fact that i stick around and put up with so much. I know that he has to put up with my moods and it's a two way street, but i don't think i can handle it anymore. Does this sound just like a phase in the relationship or is he really bad for my health?
He doesn't abuse me or anything like that. I'm just not sure if I can take much more of.....anything.

2006-11-17 18:30:52 · 12 answers · asked by Nicky 4

Please give serious answer

2006-11-17 18:29:07 · 11 answers · asked by ATIP 1

and he calls me women and not by my name he said he would hurt me if i left and gets very mad when guys hug or speak to me.he said he wanted to marrie me and i only 16 so many guys ask me to, but he said he was going to marrie me and be a wife beater. wats the best way to leave him and not get hurt or die. hes violent.

2006-11-17 18:28:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I have this situation, to sum it up, I tried to join a soroity, got accepted, paid my money, but backed out at the last minute, because my family came and lived with me, and the staying up late at night was eating my nerves away, and so I decided not to do it, so anywho, I started seeing this guy who happens to be the best friend of one of the sorority members, everythang was cool, we were seeing each other for about five months, and I asked how did he feel about me, and he said he didn;t know, so fast forward two weeks later, I called him, and asked him for something that I left at his house, because I was going out and I needed it, and just went off on me, telling me to not call him anymore, and that he would out my business out in the street, and went on to tell me that he does have a girlfriend, and she is a part of the sorority I almost joined.My question is, what do you make of this behavior, he had never gave me any hint that he didn't like me, and how do I deal with gu

2006-11-17 18:27:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl I have a huge crush on said it is the only relationship we could have, I am to be her "Sub". What does that mean?

2006-11-17 18:25:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

about 2 months there is this girl at school christa. she was in my home room at school and she looked really shy and i had kind of a crush on her, so i talked to her. she was still shy but she was relly nice i talked to her pretty much everyday, no guys at all talked to her outside of class. she has friends and stuff, and i'm friends with them. they all told her i liked her but she said she liked me "as a friend". that was like 1 month ago... and i haven't really been talking to her that much since. but this week we started talking again. shes more open to me now and less shy. how can i get her to like me?

ps. she did like this one guy 2 years old, he had a funked up nose that looked like he got kicked by a horse, and a funny squeaky voice and he did all the drugs. and christa is totaly not like that, but hes going out with another girl now.

2006-11-17 18:24:47 · 9 answers · asked by piano_man_969 2

My question is, after a date, should my boyfriend walk me to and from my car at night when it is dark?

He thinks it is ridiculous that I ask this of him, and says I am "living in fear", "paranoid", and that I am "distrustful of the world". He tells me we don't live in some huge city, and I have a better chance of winning the lottery than having something happen to me while walking alone.

I am just trying to keep myself safe, not to be ridiculous and unreasonable. It actually kind of hurts my feelings that I have to ask him to do this to begin with, (he said he'd start walking me to and from the car when it's dark, but he's not happy about it, and says he doesn't understand why I need him to do this), not to mention that he makes me feel like I am being absurd by attempting to keep myself as far from harm as I possibly can.

By not wanting to walk by myself at night in the dark and asking my boyfriend to escort me to the car, am I being outrageous and asking too much?

2006-11-17 18:23:50 · 8 answers · asked by GeorgiaDawgsGirl 1

This is a big problem, because we haven't done anything real except drink and have sex. But now she's getting kind of weird with me. So when I had class with her after having sex a second time she runs up to be and hugs me pretty adoringly, this kinda creeped me out.

I've like never even talked to her before hooking up either, I thought it was just some casual sex, because it occurred under casual circumstances. I would think she would think the same, but no. I have to tell her off, but it's really awkward because she's in my class in all and I don't want to cause drama. I'm thinking of just being indifferent to her and just riding this out until finals are over.

2006-11-17 18:21:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Looking for the same things I am, a permanent partner. The guy I'm so in love with has constantly ignored my questions of how he really feels about me. We tried to break things off because we aren't going anywhere and about a half hour after I said what I had to say we ended up sleeping together. We have since totally ignored the problem and when it came up again he shrugged it off as no big deal and came up with some quick easy thing to say that still didn't help the situation so now I'm ready to get out if I can't have him the way I want him. He says he's not seeing anyone else and I believe him so that's not even apart of the question, it's just the full committment that I'm looking for. This new guy really wants me to be his girlfriend and wants a real relationship and I can't give him that until I find out if things are trully over for me and the 1st guy or is he going to step up and give me what I want. So the ? is, How should I get the 1st guy to come clean?

2006-11-17 18:18:30 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs. EV 2

do you ladies ever fantasies about being with a man much younger then yourself. maybe a young guy at the gym or co/worker.

2006-11-17 18:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by diamonds_and_scratch 1

So it seems like a lot of men like dumb/ditsy girls. I personally do not find this attractive, but it seems like many girls act this way because they think it will help them get a guy. I want someone I can talk to. Someone who is intelligent and fun. Where are you?

2006-11-17 18:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by ineedalotofyou 2

there is this uy (P) we'll call his name. and I met him @ camp and I thought that he was cute. then he asked me if i wanted his e-addy and I daid sure and We started e-mailin each other and so then we got to know each other and then he asked me out- so this was in hawaii when all this happened- and I started feeling wierd like maybe he is not the one and so I dumped him. he has not really been e-mailing me back so I am starting to get angry @ him- but I realize that maybe I should give him another chance-should I? maybe I should meet him in person before I say no? pleez help.

2006-11-17 18:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by lilac 1

I've liked this guy for a while now. And I'm kinda a shy type of girl. I can't think of ways to show him that I like him without just telling him. Any suggestions?

2006-11-17 18:13:22 · 9 answers · asked by danceequalslove9 1

and maintain a relationship?

2006-11-17 18:12:48 · 4 answers · asked by oasis 2

every one has heard that we think about it every 3.2 seconds or somin how many of you out there agree??? i can tell you that for me thats pretty accurate....

2006-11-17 18:11:16 · 27 answers · asked by Nate the Great 1

There is this guy that I am friends with, we have been friends for a few months. We hang out every now and then, and one time we even kissed. We are friends through our work, a lot of us there are friends. Not long after we kissed, he started dating this girl we work with, who, although she is pretty, is kind of a ditz and not very nice to people. Recently he stopped seeing her, and the other night, eating dinner with my family, I saw him in the restaurant with another girl I know who is even DUMBER than the girl he was seeing before! Again, she is pretty, but a total bimbo. Now, I happen to be very intelligent, and this guy is always teasing me about being intellectual or educated. He also tells me that he thinks I am attractive, and has even told me that I "turn him on". He's also very flirty and touchy-feely with me. I know he's attracted to me, and he continues to date attractive yet stupid girls, should I assume the reason he is not dating me is that he prefers bimbos?

2006-11-17 18:05:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl, but all we really do is walk & talk daily since we have classes together. I want to get closer to her, but not necessarily ask her out. I'm thinking along the lines of giving hugs, playfully touching her more, putting my arm around her, etc. But I don't know where to start, or how to go about doing these things I mentioned. I would appreciate answers that don't include "just do it". Thanks

2006-11-17 18:05:15 · 9 answers · asked by jeg2315 2

why do people date many times in a sort amount of time?

2006-11-17 18:04:20 · 4 answers · asked by tracksuprstar 1

I'm really diggin this dude i'm seeing! however i'm not at all convinced he's THE ONE! what do i do?

2006-11-17 18:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by murmic05 3

2006-11-17 18:00:26 · 15 answers · asked by persianooo 1

2006-11-17 17:59:31 · 32 answers · asked by eharas20 1

I would like to know if it is legal for a 16 year old in maryland to date a marine. I have heard it is ok but i want some one who really knows. Im looking this up for a friend of mine. They are to people in love but what he was grown up on was nothing under 18 unless the law says different. She has friends that tell her yes and no so iam doing this to get some more helpful answers

2006-11-17 17:57:25 · 6 answers · asked by marinesislejeune04 2

I went out with a guy friend/co-worker of mine on my birthday, we both were drinking and we ending up sleeping together. I don't remember much of it and he had to tell me the details. The good thing is that things have not been wierd at all and are back to normal the bad news is that we have an awesome chemistry still and we are both doing nothing about it. how do I find out if he is into me?

2006-11-17 17:55:58 · 15 answers · asked by TinyToon 2

I am looking for marine reservist.He was sent to Iraq in June 2006 .All I have is his first and last name and age.Not even DOB.I am tired of searching the Internet night after night.Give me tips and advice please on how to find him .Is there a number where I can call etc.Thanks for help. ANA

2006-11-17 17:53:36 · 7 answers · asked by ana l 1

It's P*Kitty. But, she doesn't know I'm alive, Plus, she's on level 5 and I'm <> only on level 3. She's out of my league. I just got over the Little Mermaid and now THIS! What a wretched, pathetic human being I am. Where can I turn? What should I do?

2006-11-17 17:52:18 · 11 answers · asked by SafetyDancer 5