I NEED GIRL ADVISE boy or men are perverts not all but the ones im talkin about IM me to find out more plez!!?

Question

how come every guy that tryed to talk to me on the internet is so freakin nasty and perverted cause i have bearshare and on bearshare u have an account its like myspace well not so much but kinda. i know that cause my brother has myspace i dont but bearshare u can see how many people view your profile and if they want they can IM you every guy that IMs me is a sick pervert i try to explain to them im only 12 but they still dont seem to care on my profile it says im 14 because that is the lowest it would go it wont let me put in 1994 the youngest u can be is 14 i didnt know that the new bearshare was like this i just found out about 2,3 months ago the first person that wrote me was a guy and it started last mounth when i figured out u can write people but i didnt but the boys did write me and they say some thing that either scare me or make me made like a few guys wrote I LOVE U WHAT IS YOUR EMAIL and things i dont wanna repeat. plez help what can i do.BS is were u can download music

Answer 1

Just stick to downloading music and just ignore those nasty little boys, don't even bother reading their stupid emails.

Answer 2

You're twelve years old! You're not even a teen. You're a child. MANY male teens are sex freaks. They don't care and they won't care if you say no. They have no respect or self-control. They'll do anything to have their sick fun. Sorry to say, there's little or nothing anybody can do about them. You're growing up and you're going to see them everywhere, from school to the streets to (more than ever) the Internet. The one way out is to take better care of yourself. You should get a new account and put fake information. You should never use your real name or publish anything about your address or number. Then if you meet somebody you like and trust, you can stop faking. That's what a lot of girls I know do and they end up bumping into less perverts and having a better time making friends on-line. If ANYBODY who knows you're twelve flirts with you or says ANYTHING sexual you need to email their usernames and what they said to BearShare straight away. You should also let your parents know. It's called soliciting a minor and it's a crime. The fact that so many people chat on-line makes it hard for law enforcement to control them, which is all the more reason for you to take this seriously. The site has a lot of users your age and by law (the Children's On-line Privacy Protection Act) it has to take special care of children. I know this probably sounds like too much, but you don't know how many child molesters you might meet on-line. Remember, the Internet is an adult world filled with perverted sexual subjects. You might be in a chat room and boys will IM you asking for cybersex. You might do a search on Google or Yahoo and wind up with pornography. But talk to your parents, report any innappropriate actions, don't publish your photo or personal details, and take a few safety measures, and you'll be able to have a good time in clean safe surroundings.

Answer 3

lol. Okay. My advice? I'd get the heck out of that website. Why are you even on there? You're twelve. You're a kid. Enjoy it while it lasts! You can still order off the kids menu at resteraunts for heavens sake! That site is mean't for kids like you who think they're all grown up. That's where the pervs go hun. Annnnnnd about the music thing. Download limewire, get the heck off bearshare or whatever it's called.

Answer 4

There are other places that you can download music. You need to get away from that place. You're young yet, and it could get more intense. People are sick on the internet, and you don't need to write them back to explain that you're 12; that will only make some of them harrass you more. Don't even read their messages infact, if you stay on that site. But as I said, there are other places to download music, and I suggest that you try and find one.

Answer 5

Is there a way you can make your profile visible to friends only? I am sorry to tell you but most of the good guys are not spending their long hours going through girl profiles on myspace! these portals are full of perverts and making your profile invisible to these folks is the best bet.

Answer 6

There are so many boys and men out there that are so nasty. Sounds like if you like the music you get from the site and can't turn of the IM then you may just have to ignore them. You don't have to respond to every inquiry. Wouldn't it be nice if people were normal and nice?

Answer 7

Get used to it sweetie, it's gonna happen to you until you're like 70 years old. Guys of all ages (and I do mean ALL ages) get crazy over girls, especially young girls. I'm glad to hear you're not flattered by their insane attentions and know them for what they are. Your Bearshare should have some way to block IM's. Good luck :)

Answer 8

Men are perverts i am 12 too and i get that on my space a lot and they are always asking were i live and what my name is and if
they can meet me,when they talk to you tell your parents and they will deal with it or just ignore the person but it is better if you tell ur parents because my parents took care of it and it stopped

Answer 9

Unfortunately some men are like that, I think that they need sage tea for their brain. As if a girl your age would be interested in them! Dont worry, they have a problem, tell them to drink sage tea and find someone their own age.
Better yet can u click your IM asleep or busy or unavailable?
Or perhaps theres another site that you can find?

Answer 10

Well hun...if you can just ignore it guys are just guys, not all of them are that way tho...if it gets bad or already is report them because they could be predators and you most certainly don't want to become their prey, even if it is something small don't give it a second thought, just report them, and dont respond to what they say....if there is a private setting you should set that on.....good luck hun!

Answer 11

U need 2 get ur music in a different way cause that aint safe. there's a lot of sexual preditors out there and i dont think u want 2 be a victim. try using limewire, shareaza or warez