Well, I have this situation, to sum it up, I tried to join a soroity, got accepted, paid my money, but backed out at the last minute, because my family came and lived with me, and the staying up late at night was eating my nerves away, and so I decided not to do it, so anywho, I started seeing this guy who happens to be the best friend of one of the sorority members, everythang was cool, we were seeing each other for about five months, and I asked how did he feel about me, and he said he didn;t know, so fast forward two weeks later, I called him, and asked him for something that I left at his house, because I was going out and I needed it, and just went off on me, telling me to not call him anymore, and that he would out my business out in the street, and went on to tell me that he does have a girlfriend, and she is a part of the sorority I almost joined.My question is, what do you make of this behavior, he had never gave me any hint that he didn't like me, and how do I deal with gu
2006-11-17 18:27:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not to keep rambling on, but how do I deal with the guilt, because every time I see the sorority members, I feel like I 've done something wrong, and why would he go abck and tell them of our realtionship? Isn't that stupid?
2006-11-17 18:29:30 · update #1
and then to cause insult to injury, his best friend calls me the next day and invites me to his political event...
2006-11-17 18:36:53 · update #2
talk to him..
2006-11-17 18:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by yu g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't. He is a tool of the biggest variety. I suggest you make arrangements to get anything you left at his place and then don't speak to him again. He sounds like a weak, spineless ***. You're better off without on of these hoity-toity rats.
I don't think you need to be carrying guilt over this. It was a choice and it did not work for you. Jeeze...some people are such A**h*les. They need to grow up. Their little club isn't the end all be all of college. Bah...
2006-11-18 02:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rich B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his girlfiend was in the room when you called and he is trying to cover his butt. Or he is just an A ## ..
Deal with him the only way you can. IGNORE him. Your in college. There are a TON of other guys around and most of them are men.
2006-11-18 02:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and don't date guys who insist you be in a certain club or social circus. You are better off without idiots like that anyway.
2006-11-18 02:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mind them, dont mind the sorority, be happy with what you do, dont get affected by them, you have the right to decide, dont let them get to you and never let anyone dictate to you how to feel and what to feel
2006-11-18 02:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okaii i think he just has like a really guilty consious.... either dat or he was just ***** around wit chu and it got too seriouse or dat was da onlii waii he could think of breakin up wit chu...one things for sure id yell at him for being da bigest dikhead eva...xoxo
2006-11-18 02:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by bellas0124 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him see whats up .tell him to calm down an chill.IF that doest work get ur item u forgot and get the hell out of his live bc he aint worth it .
2006-11-18 02:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by dhuhn2007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋