and he calls me women and not by my name he said he would hurt me if i left and gets very mad when guys hug or speak to me.he said he wanted to marrie me and i only 16 so many guys ask me to, but he said he was going to marrie me and be a wife beater. wats the best way to leave him and not get hurt or die. hes violent.
2006-11-17 18:28:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG Call the cops that is BAD and never let him hit you ever again and break up with him
2006-11-19 04:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course that is not normal.
You are only 16. Tell your parents, or if that's not an option, someone at school, or hell, call the police. Whoever it is, you HAVE to tell them. And do not waste time, or wait until it happens again. Do it now.
Sounds like you need a restraining order and he needs therapy and anger management courses.
2006-11-17 18:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Morning Glory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only sixteen? This is ludicrous ! Where is your family? Or these other guys? Get some of these people to help you. Call the cops and get him locked up. You already have enough to get him put away. Then get a restraining order. Of course this isn't normal. It isn't normal to keep staying with him either.
2006-11-17 18:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be somewhere you can go like a women's refuge for safety and then speak to a counsellor. It is not normal to be beaten and you are so young. This is no future so you need to get out fast.
2006-11-17 18:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by friendly face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE, YOU NEED TO SPEAK TO YOUR PARENTS AND GET HELP!!!
if your parents cant/wont help, speak to people at a womens refuge.
Call the police, next time this low life hurts you.
IF YOU DONT LEAVE HIM YOU WILL END UP DEAD!!!!
DO YOU UNDERSTAND!?!?!?
2006-11-17 19:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call police
get restraining order
and the hardest one tell your parents
i have a number that might help
888-988-TEEN
say your in an abusive relationship looking for help
2006-11-17 18:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by readerfreak10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he goes to work get out of there as fast as you can and then go home and if thats not possible, go the police station and tell them that you need help.
2006-11-17 18:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go somewhere he can't find you and call the cops. also talk to someone you trust if you need help. this is not normal and something someone at your age should not have to deal with.
2006-11-17 18:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by gemmc1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its very wrong you should get out of there and fast before he kills you one day. if hes beating you just for those reasons imagine what he would do in a more serious situation. please for my sake and all other women out there be brave and smart GET OUT! before its to late you deserve better than that.
2006-11-17 18:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's bad
2015-08-21 13:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋