Singles & Dating - 17 November 2006

He hasn't cheated on me, but I recently moved and has been hanging out with girls he shouldn't be. I know he hasn't done anything but it still bothers me. I feel like I love him way more then he loves me and everything he does I just forgive him and take him back. WHY??? Why can't I just let go?

2006-11-17 17:19:16 · 20 answers · asked by Hillary W 1

So there's this guy, right? Ok. So he's pretty much one of my best friends. We've known each other for five years.
And pretty much, that whole time I've had my eyes on him.
But now, I feel a lot closer to him then I did before.
I don't want to make anything AWKWARD between us, and I'm kind of shy... so I really don't know what to do.
He's the sweetest guy I have ever known and we have fun times together.
He knows that I like him too, only because I emailed him...
But what should I do?

Obviously, I'm a girl. But how should I ask him? I really wanted HIM to be the one to ask me, but I'm not too sure I can wait too long, until he finds someone else and I'm not sure I can get enough courage either....

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-11-17 17:18:53 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-11-17 17:18:06 · 17 answers · asked by ANDREA D 3

i thought it was gonna be easy to get over her, since we never had a relationship anyway..it's just that she liked me and right before my face i see she has totally lost interest..she doesnt like me anymore..she used to turn red and smile big when she sees me, now she has a cold impression as if wanting to get rid of my presence...it hurts so badly..its hard to get over her coz she hurt my esteem..i wanted to be her friend at least, but it seems she doesnt even like me anymore..i never did anything wrong, just showed how much i like her.....and i can see from her expression that im just a visitor in her life and it's time to leave....

i was willing to be just friends as she said, im willing to be a true friend and keep her for a lifetime but thinking that i still want to date her, she yawns louldy at the time we're together, and wants to get away from me..i didnt do anything wrong

to those who have a similar experience, please share how you got over..........i want my life back...

2006-11-17 17:17:40 · 4 answers · asked by vincent m 2

ok me and my bf brokeup about a few weeks ago and well i really want to call him becuase there is this feeling inside of me that is just weird like everytome i think about calling him its liek this feeling gets deep could it be a sign that is telling that maybe this is a good time to call or what and what is this feeling i am gettingcause i have no clue. its like a urgeing feeling i dont know i need help?now if you want to know how we broke up i will tell you , ok one night i called his cell phone but his friend answered so i asked to speak to him and his firend said he cant talk he is in the hospital you see he got shot so his firend told me to call in like 10 mintues caus ethe doctor was comng so i waited and i called back his friend told me the news and i said oh! but in a sad and concerned way so his firend repeated what i said but not the same way and tone as i did so my bf got mad and took the phone and said i am in the hospital and i all you gon say is oh and he was like

2006-11-17 17:17:12 · 2 answers · asked by danielle 1

We take the bus together after hanging out and he says "call me if you need anything okay" before he leaves.

this is the first time we hung out, we hung with his friends because i asked them to come to my friends dinner party but they didnt really know him. (my firend ) Well the guy im talking about agreed to come with me anyways, and he says that.

I called him before but he did not store my number, im pretty sure he did now. But what do you think hes trying to say?

2006-11-17 17:16:28 · 11 answers · asked by sam3345 1

Do you get embarrassed if you get one in public?
Do you get one just by looking at your companion?
Ever get one looking at someone that's not your companion? Why?
My bf gets one all the time and sometimes in public and I hit him down there just for fun... he he he. His face expression shows that it hurt...Am I mean? How much does it hurt to get hit down there? I'm feel soo bad! But it's okay, he gets back at me.

2006-11-17 17:16:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok.What a girl wants in a man?
Here is couple of statements:
1.To be good-looking.......tall,green or blue eyes,etc.
2.To be a man,not to let you get away with murder.
3.Not to be too good,because then you feel you are using him.
4.To be a gentleman,but not over do it.
5.To be selfconfident,not to dought himself all the time.
6.Not to mind occasional chritic.
7.When you meet for the first time,to be normal,and not ''dude'' in front of his friends.
8.And to kiss you occasionaly for no reason.(don't mean french kiss).
9.To be good in bed,not to be afraid try new things.
I ask this question because I do all things above.And I'm 196 cm tall,have green eyes,curly brown hair.I had many one night stands,but not so many relatonships.Which I regreat.But I'm now in a relationship,so I was just wondering is this what girl wants. Just wondering. ;-)

2006-11-17 17:16:00 · 21 answers · asked by Mate M 1

I dated this guy for 5 years. We broke up because I moved away for my last two years in college and I thought we were young and needed a break. Well, I dated around, didn't like any guys at all. Remained best friends with my ex this entire time. Recently (after being broken up for 2 yrs) we got back together. I know I love him. I know I want to be with him. He treats me like a queen. I couldn't ask for better. So why now that I'm not single anymore do I feel undesirable? It's not him at all, he acts very attracted to me. It's just something about being single (even though I wasn't getting guys left and right) that made me feel worth something. Even, if I were in a new relationship with another guy, I'd still feel like I was wanted. Just because I've known/been with a long time so excitement is gone? I guess I need the validation of other guys to feel like I'm worth something. Like his opinion doesn't count anymore (kinda like how you don't believe your mom when she says you're pretty).

2006-11-17 17:15:37 · 3 answers · asked by it'sjustme 1

We're trying to think of something but nothing has clicked so far. Just launch off a bunch. No swearing though please.

2006-11-17 17:15:06 · 12 answers · asked by youarenotwill 2

I dont know how to get back out there. I was in a deep depression for almost 2 years, ever since my 1st love left me. I have no male friends at all. I dont know where to start? I dont know if i still have feeling for him, and thats one of the reasons why i want to get back out there.

2006-11-17 17:14:54 · 10 answers · asked by Nino 2

....or would you still love them ?

2006-11-17 17:13:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-17 17:12:46 · 9 answers · asked by Dalton F 1

2006-11-17 17:12:36 · 22 answers · asked by wilsonfromthefrew 1

I think two weeks is way too soon to have sex with someone. They are practically a stranger. I know it's all in what is felt between each other, but when the relationship ended six months later, he said if it wasnt me it would have been someone else. Is that all he wanted from me?

2006-11-17 17:12:36 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 2

OK WELL IM AN ART STUDENT AND I ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHNG NEW ON MY BINDER..THERES THIS GUY I SIT NEXT TO IN ONE OF MY CLASSES WHICH I REALLY LIKE..THE ONLY THING IS I DONT KNO IF HE LIKES ME 2..HES ALWAYS TAKING THE THINGS I DRAW OUT OF MY BINDER AND PUTTING IT ON HIS...HE SAYS THAT EVERYTHING I DREW IS GREAT AND HE LOVES IT...DOES THIS MEAN HE MIGHT ACTUALLY LIKE ME 2 OR IS HE JUST A REALLY FRIENDLY PERSON ...???

2006-11-17 17:11:57 · 4 answers · asked by aidensrockgodess 1

Okay, so here's my dilema. I'm a pretty girl (or so I've been told) but guys+me=no go...I mean I have lots of guys friends....(I grew up with a brother so I've always hung out with guys) But no one ever realy seems interested in me as a girlfriend. So here is what I think is the reason why....I think I look like the pretty girls, but act like the shy girls. let me explain. I hardly ever dress up (yes I know....i should more thats part of my problem) but when I do...I'm tall and have long curly hair and all my girl friends are always telling me I look hot...but then I go out and I'm just not an outgoing person, don't like crowds, I don't like superficial situations I like to relate to people on a personal level. However, the outgoing guys that go for my style don't bother with me because I'm quiet and the quiet guys don't go for me cause I look..."Out of there league" (believe me I'm not) should I change either the way I'm dressed or my initial personality to attract more guys?

2006-11-17 17:11:09 · 1 answers · asked by lilly g 3

2006-11-17 17:11:06 · 5 answers · asked by Kyle B 1

I'e been Dating a woman who we will call "Faye" for about 5 years on and off, but maintained a stable relationship for 9 months. Our prevous attempts failed because "Faye" had a drug problem and my family didn't like her. But no matter what my friends or family would say, I would countinue to see her. Till one day I told her how I felt. i told her that i love her. She changed completly and got off the drugs. We were engade to be married and the relationship was perfect until a 3 months back were things started to get rocky. A month ago we broke up. and left me for a Control freak. This guy doesn't even want her to talk to her own friends, doesn't want her to smile at people, and says it okay to be on drugs as long as she does it with him. I wanna Puch the asshole in the face. I tried taking to her but the dude was monitoring the disscusion from other room. Her last B/F beat her, i dont want her to go through that again.I love "Faye" even till this day. Which cames to the topic at hand.

2006-11-17 17:09:52 · 7 answers · asked by Fr0Z3N 1

2006-11-17 17:09:06 · 6 answers · asked by anup suryakant v 1

Ok i am a white girl (redneck) you know they say you cant help with you fall for will i am dating a spanish guy and my mom does not like it and she said dad will no like it.. I love my mom and dad but i am 21 and want to make up my own mind but dont know how

2006-11-17 17:06:09 · 7 answers · asked by angel s 2

My bf slobbers when he kisses. It's really nasty. even a little peck on the lips & my mouth is covered in slobber. How can I help him w/ that?

2006-11-17 17:03:52 · 10 answers · asked by Kennedy B 1

2006-11-17 17:02:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy who i talked to he acted as if we were a couple, but he always tried to enforce used a "friends", yet he'd call me up and talk about sex and stuff....what do you guys think?

2006-11-17 17:02:03 · 6 answers · asked by Hootersbabe 1

If u talk to another girl at a party and get her phone number?

2006-11-17 17:01:34 · 13 answers · asked by Zebra 2

I work with this girl and I've spoken with her once or twice before. She's lovely.

We work in different departments so there are no work related questions I could cring to her. Since it is at work I don't want to simply walk up and be obviously hitting on her, so how does one initiate a conversation under such circumstances? Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-17 17:00:19 · 6 answers · asked by FSJD 3

Ok so i realy liked this guy but it didnt wrk out cuz hes too much into his work &he says he likes me but he just wants 2be friends but i cant seem 2get over him its been 9 months tat we talk on &off but we dont fool around like we use 2 a couple of months ago...&den i met his friend (roommate) he was cute &extremely nice i felt realy comfortable w/him 4rm the begining...&most of all da total opposite of dafirst guy tat i liked. So after his roomate stole my # 4rm his friends phone we started talkin &went on like 2 dates but i dont realy like him afteral&i didnt want to lead him on &use him 2 try to get 2 the first guy (which i felt like i was doin) especialy after he(stll roommate) told me we were gona hang out our 3rdtime he didnt cal he texted after 4 days &i didnt respond &den he caled after 2days asking if he did somethin but said jk (not convincingly) does he(roommate)atleast have the rigt to me texting saying "sory but i cant talk 2 u"(by the way im not talkin 2 da first guy 2)

2006-11-17 16:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by tragickingdom 1

Guilt me into not moving? My bf& I have been together for a few months,& love one another. Well, I decided back in May..a month before we began a relationship, that I was moving back to my hometown in December, & going to find another job. I recently graduated college, & would feel more comfortable being at home in a familiar environment, while I get my start out in "the real world". Well, my decision was made before he even came into the picture. Now, he's claiming that the only reason I want to move back home is to party with friends (not true), do what I want to do (I do anyway), and he's been telling me that if I move, he doesn't see how our relationship will last. Now, i've been in long distance relationship before, and it lasted for two years, so I know that I can handle this. So now, i'm starting to wonder if i'm making a mistake by moving. Am I being unfair by not taking him into consideration...even though the decision was made before we ever got together?

2006-11-17 16:59:04 · 13 answers · asked by LibraT 4

fill out this question thing and send it back to me!!
A. do pregnant girls turn you on?
B. am i too young to be preg.? [im 12]
C. red or blue
D. what do you look for in a girl
E.do u like girls who dress sl.u.tty. or modest[somewhat]
F.what is your favorite place to take your girl on a date?
G.would u rather have a gf who skates or one who spends all day at the mall?
THANKS!!! <3

2006-11-17 16:58:47 · 3 answers · asked by i<3ryan 1

i have one guy i realli like and another guy i think is my friend. the guy i who is my friend today walked me to class and yelled my name so he could do so. what do u think? and im ugly so im not used to this kind of attention wid guys

click the link to see how ugly i am
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=20568053&imageID=1397965403

2006-11-17 16:58:36 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah 5