Ok.What a girl wants in a man?
Here is couple of statements:
1.To be good-looking.......tall,green or blue eyes,etc.
2.To be a man,not to let you get away with murder.
3.Not to be too good,because then you feel you are using him.
4.To be a gentleman,but not over do it.
5.To be selfconfident,not to dought himself all the time.
6.Not to mind occasional chritic.
7.When you meet for the first time,to be normal,and not ''dude'' in front of his friends.
8.And to kiss you occasionaly for no reason.(don't mean french kiss).
9.To be good in bed,not to be afraid try new things.
I ask this question because I do all things above.And I'm 196 cm tall,have green eyes,curly brown hair.I had many one night stands,but not so many relatonships.Which I regreat.But I'm now in a relationship,so I was just wondering is this what girl wants. Just wondering. ;-)
2006-11-17 17:16:00 · 21 answers · asked by Mate M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just asked this question for one reason.People tell me I'm overconfident.
Examaple:
I often ask my girlfriend after sex:
''You enjoyded,didn't you?''
And she says to me:
''How would you know that?''
I tell her:
''I've seen it in you.''
And she smiles and says:
''That is a good answer.You got me there.I can't hide it.''
I know she enjoyded it because she came four times.This isn't braging,it's actually that I can't relax and enjoy until I know I've drained last atom of power out of her.But then I enjoy watching her all day,how she is happy,cheerfull,and nothing can spoil her day.That's the best reward for me.
2006-11-17 17:43:58 · update #1
She wants you to love, respect, and cherish her. Chemistry is important too...
2006-11-17 17:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's in your head counts more than what it looks like and what's in your eyes, not their color is important.
Women should do what they want - you "letting us" has nothing to do with it. We are not to be controlled - ever.
Be as good as you want to be...there is no such thing as too good.
Self confidence is very imporant.
Sex is important in the begining - but once you establish the chemistry fits - its not important. Good - but not important.
Communication is key. Listen to what she says - even when she's not speaking. Don't try to figure her out - you never will. Women are a wonderful mystery ;-).
.Treat a woman with respect. Always respect. This means...if she's a one-night-stand...she's as insecure as you and not relationship-ready.
Try taking a girl to breakfast, late night drink or coffee...and then take her home...to her home. Say good-night...and leave. Calling her on the way home or the next morning - is cool.
2006-11-17 17:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Not necessarily, attractive yes, good looking, no.
2. A man won't let you get away with murder, they talk and explain things.
3. My husband is VERY GOOD and I don't feel like I'm using him because I'm not
4. He is 100% Gentleman
5. Self confident men don't have to build themselves up or brag.
6,7,8,agree
9. to be good in bed is a learned thing so he should be willing to learn and if you love him you should be willing to be patient and teach, and yes he should be willing to try new things.
I don't think your height, eye color, hair color and texture and past relationships (and one night stands) have anything to do with this.
But I'm happy for you that your in a relationship that pleases you.
2006-11-17 17:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have got a bit of insecurity going on here, don't worry you're not an idiot you'll be fine. Just relax a bit and enjoy your relationship. I think it's only natural to be worrying after all that time having one night stands how to treat a girl.properly. At least you're talking after sex and not rolling over like a great big bear.
Good luck
2006-11-17 18:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by currynut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Attracted to each other
2. What the hell.... NO
3. What no!
4. True
5. True
6. What no!
7. What no!
8. No, There has to be a meaning REALLY.
9. Respect
2006-11-17 17:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a great guy and I think you can send that list to Oprah so she can have a show about it--- good luck to you-- your girlfriend is a lucky girl and ps- if it doesnt work out, stay the same as you are-- there will be a nice girl out there that will appreciate your kind and loving nature.
2006-11-17 17:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound cocky and young for your age. Not the kind of guy i go for at all. Anyway personality is more important than looks and your personality is not likely to attract women to u. If i had to say what look i go for i would say I prefer brown eyes and short straight hair and some1 not too tall.U cant generalise cos we all have different likes and dislikes
2006-11-17 17:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds great, keep up the good work. Try not to be so focused on the details and be yourself. There is a right person out there for you whether you meet all the criteria or not.
2006-11-17 17:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us don't care how tall you are or the color of your eyes- too many one night stands is not a good sign- may make sex mean nothing- everything else sounds FINE_D
2006-11-17 17:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good question. A girl wants a man to be man thats all I think
2006-11-17 19:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I don't think looks count. If I like a guy then I'll think hes cute. But I don't like a guy just for looks. But other then that I agree perfecly with u
2006-11-17 17:27:26 · answer #11 · answered by creekgirl14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋