Ok i am a white girl (redneck) you know they say you cant help with you fall for will i am dating a spanish guy and my mom does not like it and she said dad will no like it.. I love my mom and dad but i am 21 and want to make up my own mind but dont know how
2006-11-17 17:06:09 · 7 answers · asked by angel s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make up your own mind.
Forget about what everyone else thinks and decide how you feel about being with him. If you can't figure it out then perhaps he is not the guy for you.
2006-11-17 17:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Have some dignity, do not call yourself a redneck.
2. A Spanish guy? Is he from Spain? I thought so, do a little more research.
3. All things men should have: A job, car, license, education, strong family values. If he does not have one of these and he constantly talks about drinking or partying and if you both are having sex, end this relationship and I agree with your parents, if he is everything that I said above as in the good stuff, who cares what your parents say.
2006-11-18 01:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Just do it!
Life has to be lived on an individual basis not a GROUP...you will never have ultimate happiness, trying to do what others expect of you, even if it's your parents.
At least when you do what you know in your heart you feel, good, bad, or ugly, it will be choice to live with in the end, not someone else's.
2006-11-18 01:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Albritton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet your parents drilled it into your head NOT to date certain ethnic guys---it's classic----. You're 21, do what makes YOU happy--they will have to respect that if they love you and they do. Make sure this guy treats you good before letting them know about him. Good luck
2006-11-18 01:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide whether or not you like him for him or if you like him for what he represents to your family (rebellion). If you really like him, then you need to move from there, if you are rebelling, you need to find a different way to be free. Good Luck.
2006-11-18 01:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by curiouser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them, explain the situation to them in a convincing manner n ask ur guy to convince them that he's d perfect guy for you.
2006-11-18 01:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by ridhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love that guy and ready to fight for your relationship against detractors.
2006-11-18 01:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋