Singles & Dating - 16 November 2006

I've been living with my boyfriend for over three years now and I'm really getting frustrated with him. All he does all day long is play video games. He lost his job over two months ago and just yesterday found another one all the while I was the only one paying any of the bills. In the entire time he wasn't working he barely did anything around the house in the way of cooking or cleaning. In fact, I DID MORE COOKING AND CLEANING THAN HE DID! Plus, I worked!
I feel like he wants a mother rather than a grilfriend. He is 25 years old with no driver's license. I have to drive him everywhere. He can't seem to do anything for himself.
I have lost all respect for him. I order him around like a child and I honestly feel really bad about it but I can't help it! If I don't scream, yell and bark orders he doesn't do anything! If I break up with him he has no where to go. I don't want him to be homeless but I don't think I want to live with him anymore...help!

2006-11-16 08:12:41 · 21 answers · asked by quest4lucidity 2

Well see there is this guy that I know and yeah weve been out togehter a couple of tiems, he's never tried anything till one day we went to the movies. Well he expected sex, but I wasen't ready to give up to him. So no he dosne't have anything else to do with me. But what should I do about him. Because now he's telling everybody I'm scary.

2006-11-16 08:11:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

to play thats intimate that a male and female can play

2006-11-16 08:10:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-16 08:10:29 · 15 answers · asked by bye bye!! 1

2006-11-16 08:09:39 · 14 answers · asked by char 2

what should i do this is the first time me and this guy is meeting

2006-11-16 08:08:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

or are you shy?

2006-11-16 08:07:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My school is filled with kids desperately trying to have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Especially the popular girls. They switch boyfriends, get hooked up and everything just to stay cool. It's so retarted. What's the point?

2006-11-16 08:07:25 · 15 answers · asked by fruit salad 6

Ok so we have a lot of history together (2years worth) I love him but I have never told him that because we have never been a serious BF/GF couple. It started out as just sex, then we became really good friends then feelings developed (i think on both ends). There have been 2 periods of time (about 6mo each) where we were unable to see eachother. The timing was always wrong with us. When I wanted a relationship he wasn't ready wich is fine i was willing to wait. Now he is ready and so am I. The problem is that he is getting out in May and when he does he says he wants to move back home to Ohio. Thats where he is from. I can't handle him disappearing out of my life for a third time! I don't know if I would/could move with him. I am very close with my family and have a great job here. I know that sounds selfish when he has been away from his family for the last 6 years.I don't know what to do or what to say to him. I would never make him choose between me and his family. PLEASE HELP!

2006-11-16 08:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just broke up with my boyfriend becasue I dont think he likes me anymore. In the begining he treated me so good. I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. We had some issues with him being jealous and I though we were past it. Now he does not want to spend time with me, we only been out together once in two weeks and he does not call that much anymore. I feel lonely and unwanted so I called it quits. Was I wrong or did I give up to quick? We had only been together for 3 mos.

2006-11-16 08:05:08 · 21 answers · asked by Sparkle 1

He seems ready to but neither one of us wantto make the plans.

2006-11-16 08:02:40 · 24 answers · asked by devin102791 2

okay. Their was a friend that i went on a date with. Even before the date occured, i would go over his room everynight and we would just either talk for hours or i would just chill with him. One night he was being flirtly. He would do things such as poke me in the stomach or make fun of me in a silly way. When i asked, he let me sit in his lap. We would cuddle for a while. These things have happened many nights. He seems so safe to be around. But after the date, everything has become neutral. I try and not go over his room as much as i did. And he seems so emotionaless sometimes. Maybe it is due to his work load because he did tell me he had alot of it for these last couple of days. so if any one can seriously answer my question, help me.

2006-11-16 08:02:32 · 9 answers · asked by shakespearestalker87 1

2006-11-16 08:01:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not want to have sex anymore. I am disgusted by the thought of it. My passion is gone. This is quite recent (two months) as I spent my entire life up until this point craving sex and having sex frequently with my partner (1 man). Even kissing makes me uncomfortable. Touching makes me physically ill. I don't know what's wrong with me or what I've done to make this change. Please help me. It isn't that I don't want him anymore, I want to go back to sex. It's just that everytime I think of it I get sick. What could it be and how can I change it?

2006-11-16 08:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few weeks ago, I found alot of alarming sites in my spouses email (dating sites) and then I found a password to a myspace account....I went into the messages section and found that my spouse had been chatting with girls with veru inappropriate pictures, even saying things like "great picture". A few weeks prior to that, I found all these dtaing profiles in his computer history. when I asked him about it, he said the profiles were his friends at work, that he didnt sign up for the dating sites and that other people have access to his 'entertainment company' myspace. I know he is lying and he admitted that he did something wrong but did not say what. He became very emotional about it but did not actually confess to specific things but kept saying he is sorry for hurting me. Now, I can't even trust him if I try, I always think he is doing something wrong, I question him alot and he refuses to talk about any of it.

How do I learn to trust him again? He won't talk about any of it!

2006-11-16 08:00:41 · 8 answers · asked by lostandconfusedincanada 1

i know we all say not but in honesty arent looks part of the physical attraction you feel with someone...the personality can be the best in the universe but if the look isnt right for you then you're not going to hit it off...im not talking any particular type of look...just what appeals to you...WHAT DO YOU THINK???

2006-11-16 07:59:37 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres a guy that i like and he is 27 years old i am only 14 years old but i found out he likes me too. But the only bad thing is that i already got into a problem with my mom because of him!! what should i do. he always says hi to me im confused!!!!

2006-11-16 07:58:52 · 13 answers · asked by i love daddy yankee 1

I(I’m a male) told my close female friend how I felt about her and she said we should remain friends.She said it wouldn't feel right going further.

She said she don't deserve my feelings---meaning??
Said she can’t imagine me not being in\part of her life---this mean anything???

We left on good terms,agreeing to remain friends always.After this happened I went quiet on her for over a week to clear my head!She txt me once asking why I went quiet and also txt my mate asking him. I got bck in touch on Monday and her reply mentioned nothing bout what I said(how I felt about her).

I txt her saying how impt the friendship is to me and apologised if I made her feel uncomfortable and hope that we’re cool.Why hasn’t she txt bck for over a day now??(we’re usually in touch everyday!)I say anything wrong?

Would she be feeling odd??Behave differently towards me??Anyone been in this situation themselves?If so,what happened?

Why has she suddenly gone quiet on me??

2006-11-16 07:58:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, so sat night we have a school dance and i meet a guy,J, who has a gf already we start talking, and he starts flirting with me and then i ask him for a slow dance and he says yes.. then the rest of the night he dances with me.. and we do some sensual dance moves and stuff... and then on mon he comes and sits next to me in an class and talks to me .. even tues morn then tues afternoon he just stops talking to me at all he jsut says "hi" and "bye" now i think i should go up to him and tell him that i like him... but not sure.. should i just move on and say something ot him?

2006-11-16 07:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by ohhh lalalala 4

OKAY SO I MET A GUY ALMOST 3 WKS AGO AND WELL IT STARTED OK HE WOULD CALL ME HERE AND THERE THEN ONE DAY I SAW HIM AT A PARTY AND WE TALKED AND I FELT LIKE WE CLICKED HE ASKED ME ON A DATE WE WENT ON OUR DATE AND IT WAS SO MUCH FUN. HE IS SO FUNNY BUT ALSO VERY VERY SHY. ITS HARD FOR HIM TO COME UP TO A GIRL BUT WHEN I GOT TO KNOW HIM HE IS SO FUNNY AND HE IS SOMEONE I CAN SEE MYSELF WITH. AFTER OUR DATE HES CALLED ME HERE AND THERE AND HES ALSO GONE TO VISIT ME BUT WE ALWAYS SAY BYE WITH A HAND SHAKE.SO I DONT KNOW HOW TO TAKE IT DOES HE LIKE ME SHOULD I TRY TO HAVE MORE THAN A FRIENDSHIP. IT SO HARD TO TELL IVE BEEN OUT OF THE DATING THING FOR A WHILE AND LATELY IVE BEEN MEETING THOSE GUYS WHO JUST WANT ONE THING SO I DONT KNOW IF THIS ONE IS JUST TAKING IT SLOW OR IS REALLY JUST A FRIEND..HOW CAN I TELL? I AM REALLY INTERESTED IN HIM BUT BEFORE I GET ANY FURTHER I WOULD WANT TO KNOW BECAUSE I AM TIRED OF THE WHOLE DATING AND NOT WORKING DEAL...HELP!!

2006-11-16 07:57:38 · 16 answers · asked by *SIMPLY ME* 3

Honestly, I'm 1 year and 8 months older than my boyfriend and I'm afraid he might fall with girls of his age.... Of course I don't want it to hapen that's why I'm asking you guys to give some advice on how to stay young in simple ways... thank you so much!

2006-11-16 07:57:22 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ fÄtimÄ ♥ 2

Hi =). So the thing is... I met this girl like 2 months ago. We've already go out on a date and the things between us was going really good. So this week it seems to me that she is getting a little bit distant from me at university, she doesn't even go online(msn) to talk to me like she use to do. Is this some kind of sign? Should I continue to send her messages? Or should I get a little distant for a while too? Tks ladies *

2006-11-16 07:57:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 and a half months. He asked me to be his girlfriend and he told me he loved me first. The only reason I'm not sure is because he has this ex, who he dated for 3 years, that he broke up with about a month before we started dating. I know they're very close (they talk a lot) even though he's about a 1000 miles away from her now. He says he's not in love with her anymore, but the other night (i'll admit he was drunk) after a party, he texted her "i luve you." He's going home for winter break, and he'll see her. He and I spend a lot of time together (we see each other everyday because we have class together). He's even coming home with me for Thanksgiving. Besides the ex factor, everything is great. I just feel intimidated by her, and I wonder if he can really love me while still maintaining a close friendship with her. What do you think?

2006-11-16 07:56:45 · 4 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3

( Example ) Hello, Sorry to distub you, please dont laugh , My reason for writting you is beacuse, I pause on my thoughts while speaking,... so I feel better writting you first. I want you to know that , I like your style, and I want to know if I can meet you sometime ? I'm 21 and I havent asked u to write your name because, I want to hear u tell me it ,... (thats if we are able to meet each other some time soon.) In my mind I'm callin the female "Unknown Beauty "
thanks for reading & bye.

2006-11-16 07:55:53 · 7 answers · asked by lil_chaos85 1

huge breasts or a huge ***? long legs or short petite? blonde hair or brunette? blue eyes or brown eyes? a screamer or one who says nothing?

2006-11-16 07:54:57 · 18 answers · asked by manders359 1

2006-11-16 07:54:51 · 28 answers · asked by blondy 2

so i like this guy i'm good friends with. i don't want that to change im afraid if i tell him i like him things will change

2006-11-16 07:54:49 · 8 answers · asked by Lynn D 1

At my work we have a contractor that comes in and cleans the trash, bathrooms, etc. They are all mentally challenged people (only normal one is the leader who watches’ them), anyway one of them, male, roundhouse kicked me in the chest because I threw away trash in a can he just emptied. Seriously this happened, I didn't hit back but everyone else at work said they would have.

2006-11-16 07:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by mickeys12 1

It seems that every woman I know complains about the jerks they are dating but when they break up with them they find the same kind of person. They claim to want a good guy, but they virtually ignore every decent guy they know. Why is that?

2006-11-16 07:54:27 · 22 answers · asked by gibs_neil 2

Okay, I haven't been in a relationship in a year. I was married for three years but, we split up. He was 24 when we met and I was 31. Now for some reason, that's all I seem to attract is young guys. Sometimes as young as 21. Not that thats a bad thing but, trying to find someone with in my age range that I'm attracted to is getting difficult. Are there any suggestions?

2006-11-16 07:53:17 · 18 answers · asked by Jody 829 2