Singles & Dating - 16 November 2006

alright i am a REALLY big tomboy and i act like a boy all the time. well i was talking to a guy who i had just told i liked a while ago. he said that he might like me to and then he started posting kissy face smileys! we stayed up till 12:30 IMing and he kept posting kissy faces and i was happy. the next day we were hanging and we were really close most of the time. he kept putting his arm around me and i just leaned over and kissed him. he smiled but didnt kiss back. then later on IM i asked if he had minded when i kissed him and he said he just wanted to be friends. does he actually like me? what was with the kissy faces if he doesnt like me? what does this mean? also he had a gf who broke up with him about a month ago.

2006-11-16 09:01:02 · 19 answers · asked by Colin Night 2

i smoke but girls that i know say i should quit for good. what im i saying about myself to girls when they find out that im a smoker

2006-11-16 08:58:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it safe to assume that if the girl your on date with, first date i mean, if she doesn't want to be touched or held by you than they are most likely not interested in you at least more than just friendship wise?

2006-11-16 08:56:47 · 30 answers · asked by jack l 1

And now he talks about her all of the ******* time. Thats what I was worried about when I did it! This sucks because I look alot better than her. I have 34dds and i weigh 125 she wears 34b and is about 150, she has also had over 20 partners

2006-11-16 08:56:03 · 16 answers · asked by Dita von Teese(i wish) 1

I just found out my boyfriend has some friends that I knew nothing about that he hangs out with regularly. I have never met them or even heard of them. These are not new friends, we have been together for a while now and this is so strange and sudden. He also hangs out at this methodist center and I never knew that he went there why would he not tell me, he is not even methodist? What does this mean and is this normal?

2006-11-16 08:55:55 · 2 answers · asked by Queen459789 1

Guys, if you really love a woman, you will want to see her as often as possible, right? Right now I am in an LDR, and though we only live 3.5 hours apart, I rarely see him. He visited me in September, then wanted me to come to him in October, which I did. It was a disastrous trip; I was involved in a minor accident on the way up and more car trouble on the way back. He won't be able to see me til Xmas break. To my mind, that's a long time. I know we're college students who don't have much time, but I would think that if he really cared about seeing me, he'd come visit me over the next available weekend instead of waiting so long. I just feel that his long delay is a poor repayment to me after all the trouble I experienced and the effort I put into visiting him. He says he loves me and we talk on the phone every night, but I'm just not seeing it. Should I conclude that he doesn't love me? Are my concerns legitimate, and should I break up with him?

2006-11-16 08:53:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this normal..

2006-11-16 08:52:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy I work with is very flirty with me, we talk a lot, and today he gave me a quick massage (hard to explain why that happened). So... I think he might like me, but I also see him talking to this other girl a lot and he hasn't asked me out or anything so I'm confused. Help, please!

2006-11-16 08:52:23 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki D 1

How does it feel to have ***?

2006-11-16 08:52:06 · 17 answers · asked by D. Fizzle 1

he has never been in a relationship for longer then 2 months and we are coming up to 2 years. he told me that we would still do things together hang out and he wants me to go to family things with him and his family, but he needs time to make sure. i told him that i wasnt playing these games and i wouldnt wait for him. and he said he doesnt want to lose me what do i do.

2006-11-16 08:51:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know all guys do this,it's just in their nature. But i wish my boyfriend would'nt make it so obvious,i'd rather him wait until i'm not in the room or my backs turned or something. I dont like when he does this but i dont want him to think i'm jealous or possessive because his last girlfriends were like that. Should i give him a taste of his own medicine and look at other guys?

2006-11-16 08:47:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

help me think of things please

2006-11-16 08:43:04 · 7 answers · asked by reddakYO 1

i kissed a fella in my class in college on a nite out, he seemed to think we wer goin to get married. how can people have such strong feelings

2006-11-16 08:40:15 · 23 answers · asked by helen 2

This guy I like already has a gf.

2006-11-16 08:39:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really want to know. I know that I fall short on that note. don't these stupid males know that some day these same women will lose their looks. I have been put down because of the way I look. at 42 I am still alone. does it make you feel like a stud. I really want to know.

2006-11-16 08:39:06 · 2 answers · asked by madamesmokesalot 3

i smoke but im on the varsity wrestling team and it doesnt seem to affect me , but everyone thats my friend as a girl says i should quit. i was curious, what is it specificallu do u think says about my personality to girls about my bad habit?

2006-11-16 08:38:47 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it, men are so eager to send out pictures of their members?? lol

2006-11-16 08:38:13 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly Madison 3

with touching me? We have been together for four months and she's still shy about touching my body. I can see she really like to look at me, cuddle with me, and be around me.

However she rarely touch me on stomach or chest. I've felt her check out my stomach somewhat often when I'm sleeping. She often would slip into the shower with me and take forever when rubs and rinse soap off me especially at my stomach. Also whenever I place her hands on my chest or stomach, she would rubs but she often blush at this.

She basically act like a virgin naked couple being around eachother for first time whenever I'm shirtless. I don't understand why she's so shy about this. I knows I at least look decent since I do tri athlon and I shower twice a day almost everyday. So I can't figure this one out and would like her to feel more comfort about doing it.

2006-11-16 08:37:48 · 4 answers · asked by cikaticc 1

It's not like they're doing anything mindblowing but they're still blowing my mind.

2006-11-16 08:37:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate the attetion I get from older men. I'm suppose to be a "sexy" girl but none of the guys at my high want to talk to me or want me to be their girlfriend.

2006-11-16 08:36:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We all know that when you find out someone likes you, you get a little bit of an ego boost. You feel a bit on the clouds, even if you don't like them the same way.

So, I like this guy. He doesn't feel the same way. But he acts completely cocky around me. Saying to me things like "I can get p*ssy anytime and from anyone I want.." "oh, believe me, I can get laid.."

Why did he change on me? He was so sweet, which is why I liked him. Is he trying to turn me off? Did I boost his ego a bit too much? Anyone have any thoughts?

2006-11-16 08:35:00 · 16 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

I mean without making him think that you're not interested but you want him to think about you and you want him to miss you.

2006-11-16 08:34:35 · 16 answers · asked by geminig 1

Okay this sounds a lil' lame, but i go to this restaurant once a week w/ my grandma. there is this really hot guy that works there and i told my grandma i thougth he was hott! So the next week i couldnt go and she calls me later that night and said when she picked up her order he asked "where is that girl your always with? and she told him my name- and asked how old he was-23 and told him i was 18. He said something along the lines that I was pretty and then she said "well she was lookin at you too". before she left he told her " tell her to come in anytime!!!" *w/ a big grin on his face* so tom. we're goin there to eat and i have no clue what to say or do.... please help me on what i should do to get there. I'm somewhat shy and he seems it too [o and my friend says she has seen him before and he used to have this BUTT UGLY G/F-so should that make me feel better? PLEASE HELP! :D

2006-11-16 08:34:29 · 7 answers · asked by Brookers 1

At school he's insulting me, but online he's nice, funny, and tells me his problems. I think I like him, but I'm not sure...

2006-11-16 08:34:23 · 4 answers · asked by luckymoonyee 1

He left in May after a year of living in our own apartment and 2 years prior to that living with a family member togeather. We had been commuting 2 hrs to jobs and also his school The days were longer than most people's we knew and the finaces were spent on Gas (durning the hike in gas prices) needless to say we were both tired and stressed beyond anything we each had ever known .
in May when I was out of town with my mother and sister for a day,
he in a panic packed all his things and left a note and an email to my mother and then left (went back to his relatives home- closer to work and school conseqently) I came home that night and didn't know what had happened (our lease was up and they were uping the price 50$) . In the following months we have been in constant contact and still togeather, he has since graduated gotten a job down here where i moved to and now we are within minutes from our jobs, and have gotten another apartment. What do you think, mistake or not?

2006-11-16 08:34:13 · 3 answers · asked by Baby Girl due Sept 5th!!!!!!!!!! 2

2006-11-16 08:33:53 · 9 answers · asked by Daisy Duke 2

Assuming she is a heterosexual woman
(I ask for educational purposes only!)

2006-11-16 08:33:49 · 14 answers · asked by Ego Fatigo 5

I've been with my girl for what seems like forever now and just recently her best friend started to come on to me and told me that I deserved better which is crap because my girl is the best I could ever have. Do I tell her that her friend is not a friend or just leave it alone and I told the nasty girl that I wanted nothing to do with her like that and she doesn't seem to get it and continues to come on to me even though ive told her to **** off several times. what should I do to get this one away without having to hurt my girl in the process of it...

2006-11-16 08:33:49 · 5 answers · asked by Chris 1

i ended up kissing my best friends girlfriend, we got caught, kicked out of the car in the middle of no where, and the one who kicked us out told my best friend and my boyfriend. so the next day he dumped me my three best friends told me iam scandulous and a liar so they dont want to hang out with me anymore, even though i've been friends with one of them for 14 years! i've just lost everything since halloween night. i am miserable and would do anything to take it back. All i do now is stay at my house, don't call or barely talk to any one.Seriously depressed!!!

2006-11-16 08:33:35 · 18 answers · asked by Big Red 1

2006-11-16 08:33:34 · 9 answers · asked by readingsingingsleeping 1