i ended up kissing my best friends girlfriend, we got caught, kicked out of the car in the middle of no where, and the one who kicked us out told my best friend and my boyfriend. so the next day he dumped me my three best friends told me iam scandulous and a liar so they dont want to hang out with me anymore, even though i've been friends with one of them for 14 years! i've just lost everything since halloween night. i am miserable and would do anything to take it back. All i do now is stay at my house, don't call or barely talk to any one.Seriously depressed!!!
2006-11-16 08:33:35 · 18 answers · asked by Big Red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well....ever heard of the old saying, it takes two to tango?
What's the verdict on your best friend's girl? Did he break up with her? Is he treating her as harshly as he's treating you? Or are they just taking it all out on you? You were intoxicated and there were two willing participants, not just one. Your ex-best friend has every right to be upset with you. But he should also realize that his girl was messing up too.
Look, people make mistakes. It just seems harsh the way these supposed "friends" are treating you.
Give it time. If they are your true friends, they'll come around and see that you made a bad mistake.
If they don't come around, life will go on.
2006-11-16 08:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ed A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one you cannot take back what you did but you can apologise for it. Tell your friend the truth you've been friends for 14 years there must be a reason for that and i'm sure he would'nt want to lose that. Ask his girlfriend to be there with you when you tell him or tell her to tell him what happen. Let him know it was a mistake due to you doing too much drinking and you are sorry that it happen, you did not mean for it to happen. Ask for his forgiveness and see how it goes. Hope that will help.
2006-11-16 08:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by VANILLA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 distinctive beverages for a starter rather made you tipsy. in simple terms that tiny glass of champagne would not have made any distinction. The couple of sips of beer sent your blood scurrying to the suggestions and you have been tipsy for a jointly as. It occurs to virtually absolutely everyone, so there is no longer something to be demanding approximately. there is not any opinion required, yet do exactly no longer make it right into a habit. besides, it grew to become right into a great adventure for you.
2016-10-22 05:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you wish you hadn't had so much to drink. It is a chance you take by letting go of control. I think they may have overreacted but you were in the wrong too. Apologize and explain yourself and ask them to forgive and that is all you can do...the rest is up to them.
2006-11-16 08:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the booze, maybe you should have got caught kissing your girlfriend, guys tend to like that better than seeing there girl kissing another guy. Can't say I blame the guy for doing what he did.
2006-11-16 08:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If I read this right.... Your a girl, who got cought kissing a girl? Right? Both of you have significant others.... If this girl is a lesbian and kissed you, SHE should be in trouble. If your straight and kissed her... well it happens you were drunk, obviously it didnt mean much. BUT if your friends are willing to end your relationship with them over this. You DESERVE better friends.
2006-11-16 08:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Indiana Jonas 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Give it time. But maybe next time you will think before you drink that much. It could have been a lot worse to.
2006-11-16 08:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by lady_christian99 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When your drunk you do stuff that your not brave enough to do when your sober......................start off by saying sorry to everyone,give it some time and see what happens.....if you do get your friends back they probably want trust you again around their men...that was pretty low....but everyone makes mistakes,so ask them to give you a break....THATS WHAT FRIENDS DO
2006-11-16 08:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by bbygrl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES AND IF YOUR OWN FRIENDS DONT UNDERSTAND MAYBE THE FRIENDSHIP ISNT WORTH IT. IF THEY REALLY KNOW YOU THEN THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT THIS DOESNT HAPPEN NORMALLY IT WAS THE ALCOHOL WE ALL GET STUPID ON ALCOHOL. GIVE THEM SOME TIME THEY WILL COOL OFF IF THEY DONT THEN YOU KNOW THEY ARE GUILTY OF THE SAME THING THATS WHY THEY DONT WANT TO FORGIVE YOU.
2006-11-16 08:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by SASSY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all tend to loose our inhibitions when we drink too much. I'm sure they are all not perfectly innocent either. give it time and take it easy on yourself. All we can do, is learn from the things we regret. good luck
2006-11-16 08:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by chara 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋