alright i am a REALLY big tomboy and i act like a boy all the time. well i was talking to a guy who i had just told i liked a while ago. he said that he might like me to and then he started posting kissy face smileys! we stayed up till 12:30 IMing and he kept posting kissy faces and i was happy. the next day we were hanging and we were really close most of the time. he kept putting his arm around me and i just leaned over and kissed him. he smiled but didnt kiss back. then later on IM i asked if he had minded when i kissed him and he said he just wanted to be friends. does he actually like me? what was with the kissy faces if he doesnt like me? what does this mean? also he had a gf who broke up with him about a month ago.
2006-11-16 09:01:02 · 19 answers · asked by Colin Night 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I AM NOT A GUY! JUST BECAUSE MY AVATAR IS A GUY DOESNT MEAN I AM ONE. how is he confused though?
2006-11-16 09:04:21 · update #1
I think he does like you, but maybe he's just not wnating a relationship at the moment. you did say his girlfriend broke up with him about a month ago. It takes a majority guys longer to get over a relationship than it does women. So maybe you should take it slow with him and when he feels comfortable, he will let you know. Just continue to give him attention and be there for him and I'm sure he will come around. Do not ignore him or act like you have better things to do, because he may think you are no longer interested and it will be over quicker than it started. Good luck.
Experience.
2006-11-16 09:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes being on the internet and being flirtacious is fun, but once you see that person right in front of you, you may realize that your "internet intentions" were not entirely true. In other words, he had fun being kissy goo goo, but he might just see you as a friend. If he continues up with the kissy faces online, then he might still like you, if not, he probably wants a friendship instead. Just don't badger him about it, it will drive him away. But if he is playing mind games, talk it over...
2006-11-16 09:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he doesnt want to be more than friends to stop with all the kissy stuff...you dont want that unless you are sure he wants something
also find out from friends wethere he does that allt he time...maybe he does that with all girls that hes close with!
maybe hes still not over his ex or doesnt want anything too fast!
if you like him and have patience be a good and supportive friend make him realise that he broke up with his ex for a reason and make him like you more as a friend and then one day if he really does care hell come oout of his shell and approach you like a man!
Good luck!
2006-11-16 09:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by ██████████ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds as if things progressed a little to quick for him so he got scared and backed off. Being a tomboy also, you kind of have to learn to let the guy be the agressor at the begining of the relationship.
2006-11-16 09:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure sounds like he likes you! he probably said that he just wanted to be friends because he just broke up with a girl. When you kissed him did he pull away? did he look at u wierd? well anyway just give it sometime and when he wants to be ur gf which sounds like he wants to then he will ask u! good luck and i hope this helped
2006-11-16 09:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he said he just wants to be friends then I would respect that and let this whole thing go. Sounds like you are barking up the wrong tree here if you are looking for a lover.
2006-11-16 09:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, but he was probably just flirting (whether or not it had anything to do with his break-up, who knows) and then later he either realized that he was leading you on and didn't mean to or decided that he truly would rather remain friends.
2006-11-16 09:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by bahor_111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... like he said, i think he just wants to be friends,for now.
Besides,ppl tend to flirt a little more outrageously when they are im-ing....than they normally would.
Just, back off a little and give him some space.
2006-11-16 09:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Sunrise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You apparently are a girl. and he is a guy. thats the two things that are attracted to each other. Pay no attention to the juvenile idiots that are ansering you.
2006-11-16 09:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you but doesn't want to be in a relationship just yet a month isn't that much time to get over someone give it time
2006-11-16 09:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by topgunpilot22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋