And now he talks about her all of the ******* time. Thats what I was worried about when I did it! This sucks because I look alot better than her. I have 34dds and i weigh 125 she wears 34b and is about 150, she has also had over 20 partners
2006-11-16 08:56:03 · 16 answers · asked by Dita von Teese(i wish) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3sums are fun mostly when you are doing it, but the after effects can be costly.
Find out what his fascination with her is all of a sudden. Direct any angers you have at him not her unless she is causing trouble, otherwise leave her out of it. My guess, he is probrably overwhelmed that it happened. 3sums are not easy to pull off and a man's first is like Christmas everyday for a little while.
I remember how I acted the first time I did it. The only thing I wanted to talk or think about was that. My girl was ten times more fine then our partner, but it was what it was. Eventually it was old news. Bare with him and put him in check when neccasary but your self, don't be afraid to talk about it with him as a way to release your good or bad feelings. At some point it will be just one of those things you can say you did. A box with a check mark in it. Forget her unless she is coming back for round 2 and don't take it out on her.
2006-11-16 09:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with MiaDiva27, it doens't sound to me like he likes her. Now, here is an important distinction to make: is he talking about her, or the event? It may sound like a minor thing, but it is entirely possible (and I've experienced it) for him to have enjoyed the experience he shared with you, without really being all that into the girl. Naturally, at that point, he's going to want to talk about the things that you two shared: her presence, what she did, what happened, how it all came about. Usually, from what I've seen, if a guy falls for the other girl, he's pushing to have her back right away, and when it doesn't happen on his time table he leaves.
2006-11-17 02:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple: you HAVE to remember that it doesn't matter what the other girl looks like. Period. No matter what your head is telling you, it doesn't matter who has the better body, weighs less, etc. It's all about who he doesn't already have. If you and the other girl's roles were reversed, he'd be talking about you to her all the ****** time.
2006-11-16 09:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by bahor_111 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahahaha! Shouldnt have done it in the first place. Thats what you get and you both are kinda hefty.
2006-11-16 09:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was a dumb move. you opened yourself up for it. dont be surprised if he starts seeing her. sounds like he fancy's her alot. watch it. and size doesnt really matter. if he didnt get down with her, what did she do stand to the side?
2006-11-16 08:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have known that it would lead to that. guess you've ripped what you sow. chances are, he has sexual feelings for her. you agreed to doing a threesome now you have to deal with the end results
2006-11-16 09:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what happens when you have a threesome - common sense should have told you that!!!
2006-11-16 08:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you just opened up a whole can of worms.
2006-11-16 08:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her looks don't matter, it's something new for him, and guys are always turned on by and different things.
2006-11-16 09:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed Now Lay in it.... What is the question?? What was she doing just watching?
2006-11-16 09:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋