Singles & Dating - 2 November 2006

I really like this guy...and were friends but we've never hung out outside of school before, but one of my best friends is his best friend. But i really want to go out with this guy....i really like him. I dont know whether i should ask him out or ask him and our friend to hang out? Would this be awkward? Because i cant just ask him out by himself...cuz then our friend will know that i like him. ADVICE NEEDED???

2006-11-02 06:58:57 · 11 answers · asked by Ash 1

a few yrs ago, i hooked up with a close friend. we lost touch somewhat but remained friends. recently i went to visit him, i'm not in love and i wasn't expecting anything-i just wanted him to know i love him. before i could, however, he came out as being gay, how he's "always known" and i'm one of the first he's told. then right before i left, i started crying and told him i loved him gay or straight, and that i needed some closure. he said at the time, he didn't want to reject me. i feel stupid b/c it sounded like i had aggressively pursued him and he was just sparing my feelings. but i normally never act that way with men and i do recall him initiating things. i doubt i was just a cover b/c no one knew what happened but now i feel ugly/foolish for thinking what what we had was meaningful. was he ever attracted to me at all? was i wrong to tell him how i felt? i didn't try to "turn" him straight, i just felt he should know how i feel. i'm afraid i scared him and ruined our friendship

2006-11-02 06:57:06 · 11 answers · asked by confused 1

Okay,so there is this guy a go to school with.We are both 14.We hang out all the time!But I want to be more than friends with him!We go to alot of the Friday night football games together,and he always askes to walk around the feild before everyone else get there,but somethings always interfers!Im a little overweight,and one of my crushes friend called me fat and my crush jumped on the other guys back furiously!One time last month he had his hands full and ased me to tie his shoe!I am ALWAYS trying to flirt,but his girlfriend is always there!His girlfreind treats him like dirt,BUT is moving soon!He is a popular and im almost one,but he still hangs out with me!He also goes to a Church/Christain Club with me!So,question 1,do you think he likes me?If so Here is the next question:Im afraid if I ask him out,and he says know,things would br uncomfortable between us!What do I do?How do I get him to ask me out?

2006-11-02 06:55:01 · 14 answers · asked by daddys girl14238 2

I've been seeing this woman for a month or so. We love to do the same activities, we're both educated, we are both professionals and know what we're looking for in life and family. Our morals and values fit along the same line and we have so much fun together. We can literally sit up and talk all night, every night. We've talked about our future in detail already. It feels right, but is it possible to be in love this soon?

2006-11-02 06:54:27 · 11 answers · asked by KEVIN S 1

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2006-11-02 06:52:52 · 10 answers · asked by kadeen b 1

2006-11-02 06:49:12 · 39 answers · asked by cold runner 5

ive been seeing this boy secretly and no one knows but since no one knows this girl asked him out and he said yeah he tells me he wants to still be with me but hes with here what should i do i have strong feelings for him

2006-11-02 06:48:34 · 9 answers · asked by MushrooM 1

2006-11-02 06:47:29 · 20 answers · asked by Jade S 1

2006-11-02 06:47:13 · 7 answers · asked by dancetomybeat2005 1

Some say they don't want to hurt someone s feelings but I think it is more cruel to dodge someones calls and have them keep on trying to reach you and being honest. Isn't dodging someones
calls immautre ? why can't people be honest and say nicely,
I would not like to see you again- that's it- simple ....

2006-11-02 06:47:01 · 12 answers · asked by don;t know 3

I don't have any friends. I'm to the point now where I don't think anyone cares about me. I'm not a bad person. In fact, I feel like I am a pretty generous person. What do I do?

2006-11-02 06:45:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really fancy this guy but i dunno if he feels the same.ive known him for ages. i met him thru my ex boyfriend. i was with my ex boyf for 6 years. when i met this guy we got on really well & had so much in common. we swapped numbers as i was training in the same career as him & he would give me advice as its very difficult to get into. later, he kept asking me to meet him for drinks.i didnt agree to this i was in a relationship but he kept on. recently, i split from my boyf(not coz of this guy) & he still texts me on weekends, to meet up with him.i have since met up with him a few times, the first time being my birthday when i was very drunk. i ended up being sick around his flat.he was upset about this at first,which is understandable, but later was OK with it.i have only kissed this guy.he always compliments me.does he like me?why hasnt he asked me out on a proper date?why does he only text me on weekends to meet up?we do live in different towns. is he a player?

2006-11-02 06:45:06 · 28 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1

. What should I do?

2006-11-02 06:43:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey girls. I really would like to know have you ever flashed (*)(*). If so, where, when? Also, if so - was it a dare or just part of all the fun you were having. Age? Race? and obviously cup size.. Be honest.....

2006-11-02 06:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by ricky f 1

2006-11-02 06:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why are girls only attracted to guys that treat them like crap? What is it about being treated badly that turns girls on? And it's obvious that they prefer those kind of guys. I see it all the time.

If you girls like to be treated like garbage, then don't complain when you are treated like trash.

2006-11-02 06:42:59 · 20 answers · asked by dan 3

I've been with my guy over a month now, and i keep asking him out, and pay the way. He comes round mine all the time, i live with my little boy. but can't go to his as he lives with his parents and my boy isnt allowed there due to their dog. I've paid for drinks here and taken him to my sisters huge halloween party, but still he hasnt offered to take me out for a movie, or a meal - or at least a walk, I know im probably sounding a bit selfish but surely i shouldnt have to keep paying?

2006-11-02 06:42:30 · 11 answers · asked by happyglitterthatrocks 1

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-02 06:41:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive met this amazing guy, hes kind, considerate, hansom, intelligent ambitious hes really lovely. Known him for 2 mths, we went away the other night and had sex for the first time, he isnt well endowed down below, he pleased but i was rather dissappointed. The next day I didnt really want to spend the whole day with him for some reason, i did an really enjoyed spending time with him. Today im confused can anyone help whos been in the same situation? I

2006-11-02 06:41:19 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-11-02 06:40:06 · 12 answers · asked by IwishicoulddeleteYahooAnswers 2

I care very much for my boyfriend and I love him butt the desire and afftection is long gone. We're very comfortable you can say. I miss...and need affection, excitement and fun. I'm 36 and my clock is ticking. I dont want to hurt him and I'm scared to leave.
Whats the b est way to do this?

2006-11-02 06:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by tinalovesmusic 1

2006-11-02 06:37:24 · 22 answers · asked by PETE 3

Do would perfer the more direct approach when it comes to a man desires for you, have him take charge and be the aggressor for having sex... or do you like to go through the games and then you initiate the affection and your desires?

2006-11-02 06:36:46 · 16 answers · asked by on2try 2

if a guy has been chasing you for years, even when you was in a serious relationship with someone else, does he like you?

2006-11-02 06:33:01 · 13 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1

Ok so the other night my bf and his buddy were drinking in the living room of MY house. I had to work the next morning so I went to bed. I couldn't sleep because they were so loud and intoxicated. My bf was trying to find someone to have s** with his buddy and then he started talking bout all the girls he has had sex with and how they did it and who was better and he's done it with more then one at a time. I mean I know he's had sex he has kids but I don't want to know the details I just want to forget about anyone else every touching him. I asked him if he wants to know the details of my previous sex acts he said no. Then why do I have to hear about his. He coulda atleast said it quietly or not in my house! Does anyone agree with me??

2006-11-02 06:32:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been back with my ex for 6 weeks. I moved from London and from my friends to be with him. i'm not working, im a qualified nurse so i'm stuck in his flat alot, i've had a hard year. He told me i'm boring but i'm suffering from depression. today he got annoyed when i said that milk is good for your bones, (when he got a glass of milk). He said to stop treating him like a kid and to stop speaking down to him. when he isn't working he is on the internet, we hardly communicate because i'm finding it hard to have a laugh, as i have low self-esteem. Now lads, would you dump me, even if you found me attractive?

2006-11-02 06:32:39 · 13 answers · asked by tessie 1

and I became jealous. What does this dream mean?

2006-11-02 06:32:24 · 8 answers · asked by Cas 4

I didn't know how else to put this, so I just came out and said it. I know not every single black woman gets mad when she sees white women w/ black men, and in fact many do not, but it seems like a lot of black women get mad when they see white women with black men, yet a lot of black women date white men? So why do they get mad?

2006-11-02 06:32:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY BOYFRIEND AND I SPLIT UP FOR A MONTH IN A HALF HE TOLD ME HE NEEDED TIME WE WERE LIVING TOGATHER FOR A YEAR HE SAID HE FELT TRAPPED SO I STOP CALLING HIM FOR THE WHOLE MONTH AND AFTER HE CALLED ME SAYING HE WANTED TO WORK THINGS OUT AND WE ARE BUT I AM SCARED CUZ HE HAS BEEN REAL NICE AND HE WASNT LIKE THAT BEFORE HE TAKES ME OUT DINE'S ME .DO YOU THINK HE DID SOMETHING BETWEEN THE BREAK?

2006-11-02 06:30:09 · 23 answers · asked by wantme4me1313 1

MY BOYFRIEND AND I SPLIT UP FOR A MONTH IN A HALF HE TOLD ME HE NEEDED TIME WE WERE LIVING TOGATHER FOR A YEAR HE SAID HE FELT TRAPPED SO I STOP CALLING HIM FOR THE WHOLE MONTH AND AFTER HE CALLED ME SAYING HE WANTED TO WORK THINGS OUT AND WE ARE BUT I AM SCARED CUZ HE HAS BEEN REAL NICE AND HE WASNT LIKE THAT BEFORE HE TAKES ME OUT DINE'S ME .DO YOU THINK HE DID SOMETHING BETWEEN THE BREAK?

2006-11-02 06:28:09 · 12 answers · asked by wantme4me1313 1