2006-11-02 06:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to find the book below, and fast. I bought the "book on audio" version, but if you are still talking to him you have no idea of the damage you are doing to yourself.
The Book's Name:
It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken:
The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy
By Greg Behrendt, Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt
P.S. Check out some of the reviews on amazon.com it will really help you. I am coming up on a month form a break up as well, and Rule #1 in this book is to not talk to your ex for 60 days because what you are telling him is yes I know you don't love me enough to be with me, but if I can just have some part of you at any time then it's worth giving up all my self worth.
Think about that.
It also said women tend to want to know if men are hurting the way they are, and he said the answer to that is "no". Because if he is the one who broke up with you then he has separated his self from you emotionally a long time ago you just did not know it. So while you have to go at your pain cold turkey he is already a few steps ahead of you. That's why we as women say how can he move on so fast we just broke up. What you really need to say is due to the fact he had already left the relationship emotionally a long time ago that's how he is able to move on so fast because I am the only one who now have to deal with this new reality for me but a past reality for him.
Good luck, and please, please, please get this book or audio which ever you prefer just get it, and this answer is also to the women who may read this because secretly this was a question for you to.
2006-11-02 07:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....you broke up for a reason. Chances are that reason still exists. DO NOT GET BACK TOGETHER. Refrain from talking to him for awhile, or until your feelings die down. Then you can be friends. But, if you continue to talk, most likely you will hook up with him or get back together and your relationship cycle will continue and you will break up once again.
2006-11-02 06:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by GK2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how he's feeling. Do you think he's still in love with you? If so, you can ask him what his thinking is on a second chance. If not, it's best if you forget about him and go on with your life. No use trying to put fire in something that's long dead.
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2006-11-02 06:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-28 11:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it if he said that he loved you the it should still be there love does not go away that fast. let him know how you feel you never know there could still be something there.
2006-11-02 06:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by penut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking.
You're only prolonging the clean up... if that's what you really want.
I'm just saying...
2006-11-02 06:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by rogerdbnc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋