Some say they don't want to hurt someone s feelings but I think it is more cruel to dodge someones calls and have them keep on trying to reach you and being honest. Isn't dodging someones
calls immautre ? why can't people be honest and say nicely,
I would not like to see you again- that's it- simple ....
2006-11-02 06:47:01 · 12 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In some situations it is obvious that
someone is ignoring you, but if you yourself
is involved, sometimes it is not
obvious, and if you like that person, you
have hope and you may not see it that way
2006-11-02 07:19:08 · update #1
In some situations it is obvious that
someone is ignoring you, but if you yourself
is involved, sometimes it is not
obvious, and if you like that person, you
have hope and you may not see it that way
2006-11-02 07:19:17 · update #2
I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL! Damn, I wish that (well for me, guys...) would just let me know if they were not interested. Just be straight forward !!!
2006-11-02 06:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some prefer to avoid a potentially uncomfortable situation rather than to face it. It's easier to ignore someone than it is to be honest, especially if being honest results in an individual's feelings being hurt. But, I agree the nicest thing anyone can do in that situation is - just be politely candid. On the other hand, if somone is ignoring or avoiding you - don't you think you should accept the obvious and move on.
2006-11-02 06:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by kymmyiam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I don't want to talk to anyone, I just turn off the phone.
I'm honest with a guy when he calls and I come right out and ask him not to, if that's what I want.
GAMES!!! Too many people play games, cause they don't know what they really want, and think they'll find ther perfect one, but usually don't.
I seek men on singles sights. When their first responce back to me, involves any talk of "sex", I don't reply back. Cause I know what I'm looking for, and it's not just sex.
Stop letting yourself be caught in the games. Go for the serious ones.
2006-11-02 06:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you fairly love her you will have the flexibility to and likewise savour listening to her and communicate approximately her pastimes and on the comparable time so ought to she communicate approximately yours,ought to you no longer in easy terms compromise in conversations as in variety them. I additionally agree its needless to say rude in the experience that your enjoying a sport or staring at television when you consider which you're actually not giving her your finished interest and can't particularly by way of listening and taking in what she's asserting. consistent with hazard your no longer waiting for a relationship fairly yet are actual extra attracted on your video games and at sixteen consistent with hazard choose to concentration on them extra?
2016-12-09 01:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who play head games are just immature. When you grow up you realize that the easiest way to do it is just say what you feel and get it over with.
2006-11-02 06:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is because they dont want to hurt the persons feeling but at the same time it is immature on there part and it still does hurt people when you just stop calling
2006-11-02 06:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you have not been around long; its because there are so many psycho's out there, problem is they seem real nice to begin with, then ... you'll see when your older
2006-11-02 06:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by northcarrlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree - if it's over, stand up and tell the person instead of leaving them guessing!!
2006-11-02 06:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by icddppl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe cause they hate confrontation, so it's harder to talk about the issue than to ignore it/put it off.
2006-11-02 06:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is immature. If you see that and they don't, then they are not mature enough to be in a relationship with you anyways.
2006-11-02 06:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋