Okay,so there is this guy a go to school with.We are both 14.We hang out all the time!But I want to be more than friends with him!We go to alot of the Friday night football games together,and he always askes to walk around the feild before everyone else get there,but somethings always interfers!Im a little overweight,and one of my crushes friend called me fat and my crush jumped on the other guys back furiously!One time last month he had his hands full and ased me to tie his shoe!I am ALWAYS trying to flirt,but his girlfriend is always there!His girlfreind treats him like dirt,BUT is moving soon!He is a popular and im almost one,but he still hangs out with me!He also goes to a Church/Christain Club with me!So,question 1,do you think he likes me?If so Here is the next question:Im afraid if I ask him out,and he says know,things would br uncomfortable between us!What do I do?How do I get him to ask me out?
2006-11-02 06:55:01 · 14 answers · asked by daddys girl14238 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop him a little hint. Touch him gently and appropriately when you talk to him. Give him a big smile and look deep into his eyes. But, since you're 14, I don't know how experienced you are with relationships. So, you should practice what I told you to do until you can do it correctly.
2006-11-02 07:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14 for goodness sake! Live the rest of your childhood without worrying about being with some guy! I think that BF's and GF's at that age is a joke. Just be friends with the guy and wait till you're in well into high school to worry about that stuff.
If you going to a church club, think about what you are learning there. Just give your self a few more years then worry about getting a BF.
2006-11-02 15:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i had bad dating experiences lately and i am almost 13 and this guy would not go near me when he was near the guys and then didnt call me once in 6 months over the summer and when he saw me at a party he wouldnt even let me see him look at me or didnt say a word or anything and then he walks up to me and says sorry i have to break up with you thats when i got mad and kicks him in his balls and then the rest of the kids at the party were hitting him because now they hate him for doing that so enough about me now your situation i would wait and get the best out of the relationship first and dont push finally one day he will ask you out!
2006-11-02 16:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Carley C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you guys are in a good relationship. I think you don't need to rush into something else when what you have now is something great. I'm pretty sure he likes you but I'm not sure if he likes you as a friend or more than a friend. With what you're describing, you guys enjoy each other's company. I believe that you should relish and enjoy every minute of it before you get into something that requires commitment, etc.
2006-11-02 15:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends first and go from there - if this chic is moving your time will come - you're way too young to be stressin' - you need to have a bit more confidence in yourself too! it's nice to have boy 'friends' at your age - without the 'extra' baggage of dating.... you have plenty of time for that!
2006-11-02 14:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by thenakats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my understanding, i think he likes you. he will likely ask you uot after she moves but just hasnt had a chance yet.
if he wants to break up with her for you but hasnt, then maybe she just wont let him. as for how to get him to ask you out, you should just get him alone and give him a few of the right signals.
if he says no just try to live as if neither of you had ever thought about the other that way.
2006-11-02 15:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know maybe maybe not i don't know i think he likes u as a friend cause he lets his gf treat him like dirt if he wanted 2 break up with her then he would. but he might like u cause u said that he got furious when is friend said that so either he likes u and is trying 2 hide either he doesn't but really wants 2 be ur friend. i know im not helping sry!!!!!!!!
2006-11-02 15:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by angelcarrot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14 you have time
2006-11-02 15:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first wait til the girl friend moves. Then he might ask you out himself. Sounds like he likes you, but give it some time.
2006-11-02 15:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by Tlahuizcalpantecuchtli (efrocha) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to be honest with yourself.. U really need to talk with him and ask him how he feels and tell him how u feel.. To me thats the best way for someone to know that u like themm...... good luck to u.. dont be shy... u can do it.. let me know how it goes
2006-11-02 14:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋