Singles & Dating - 2 November 2006

I told my friends that I want until I'm 25 to have sex. I'm 15 now and I want to be completely ready. I will have sex if I am married before then, but people say that I'm taking it too far. I will have boy friends but I just won't sleep with them unless I'm completely, completely sure that they're not just there for sex and we have to be togrther for a looooooooooooooooong time. But I have two questions.
Am I taking sex too seriously with the age thing and all?
And is it true that if I accomplish my goal and be a virgin until the age of 25, no man would want me because they would want a more experienced woman?(A boy told me that, but he was trying to convince me to loose my virginity at the same time. And no he wasn't my boyfriend. But I just want to know if that's true.) I'm a girl. I just have a guy advatar. Just in case you get confused.

2006-11-02 07:57:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a woman looking for a good guy, but I'm not skinny--not fat but not skinny. I'm super shy to go up to guys I'm interested in because of the whole getting shot down thing. Can you guys help and give some advice and share some guy knowledge?

2006-11-02 07:56:34 · 9 answers · asked by L.A.M.B. 1

Note: This does not have to be limited to first dates.

My idea of the perfect date is having a lovely dinner at my apartment and then spending the evening talking, laughing and just enjoying each others company. Throw in a bottle of red Chilian wine, candles and Rod Stewart - American Songbook and I'm in heaven. :D

2006-11-02 07:54:26 · 16 answers · asked by Chloe M 2

i like 2 boyz and 1 of them are in my class ........ but he doesnt belive i like him HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im only 11!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-02 07:52:57 · 11 answers · asked by lizz 1

2006-11-02 07:52:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok first I am 25 yeears old so i'm not just some kid here. but i recently was in an accident and lost part of my arms and legs , i have prosthetic arms now from above my elbow.and also my legs so i am over that now, i can walk with my new legs fine and i look almost normal with all my cloths on.I guess i am self concious now i have had a hard time meeting people , and yes i am very attractive i'm no dog,and girls seeem to be more understanding to me.but i finally met someone i think is ok with me but they have never seen me with out my prosthetics on and i'm afraid they will freak out. what should i do ? I have to take my cloths off if i'm ever going to have sex again and its been a while and i'm ready but just scared i guess.what would you do. ? you can email me at selenamalano@yahoo.com if you got time to chat with me i'm also bored right now.thanks

2006-11-02 07:51:43 · 22 answers · asked by slut 1

Well... let me rephrase everything here...
I was just wondering why some women get intimidated by succesful handsome men?
Some women felt they're not on the same level as us or they felt that they're far inferior than us...
They felt they could not keep up with our pace...

Why is that? Aren't they supposed to be very happy having a good (not the no good rich guy type) handsome succesful men falling in love with them?

What more can they expect?

I asked some questions here... a lot of women said... if they could find good natured, good looking, and succesful men... they would snatch them without any second thoughts, but not in reality...

For the good girls: some are suspicious, some are not sure...
Yes, we are succesful... but we don't have any bad intention... we just want to find someone special to share our success with

Aren't they supposed to be very happy having a good (not the no good rich guy type) handsome succesful men falling in love with them?

2006-11-02 07:51:34 · 14 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3

I want some tips on taking a shower with my girlfriend, what should we do in there.

2006-11-02 07:50:46 · 2 answers · asked by mr. fancy pants 3

for 2 weeks a guy has called me everyday. no talk of relationship stuff, dating or anything. just an hour or two conversation about music movies work blah blah..... he came home for his week off (he works out of town for 3 weeks and is off for a week) and i didnt hear from him the whole week. he went back to work 3 days ago. i dont understand. he said something about comin to see me on his days off.... what should i think?????

2006-11-02 07:49:30 · 23 answers · asked by i_like_bears 4

other than my bubbling personality,ive known her nearly 2 years?

2006-11-02 07:48:04 · 23 answers · asked by artful dodger 3

you have 2 boy firends? The one you truely love is broke and lives in another state and the other one is working, laying right beside you, and you dont love him one bit.

What would you do?

2006-11-02 07:47:54 · 10 answers · asked by Help Me Help You 3

My daughter wants to spend time with a Boy who is dis respectfull to us and her, she is to young to realize. Should we allow them to hang out or not?

2006-11-02 07:47:50 · 18 answers · asked by sfs492 1

Guys, if there was a girl that was interested in you, would you rather her come to you, or would you like to make the first move?
Usually you hear from all the girls to let the guy come to you, don't act too desperate...

2006-11-02 07:47:18 · 12 answers · asked by Jenn 2

I am falling in love with my girlfriends sister and don't know what to do. We have a son together so i can't just leave. HELP!!!

2006-11-02 07:45:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just wont to know what yall think

2006-11-02 07:44:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We always hear where are all the good men in the world, well where are all the good women ?

2006-11-02 07:44:09 · 32 answers · asked by Arthur D 3

Me & my ex split 3 mths ago, I finshed things. He was heartbroken & as much as I hated seeing him go through pain I thought it would be better to be cruel to be kind so he could move on by nt txting him & being assertive. I now want to get bk & as u can imagine he doesn't, i dont blame him to be fair he was heartbroken & i really hurt him so i do understand y, even though it hurts soo much coz im in-love with him. As I was asking to get bk he became very angry with me when we spk he told me that i was f***ing up his head, he said he still loves me but doesnt know if he is in-love with me coz there is so much hurt still there & he has a defence mechanism that stops him from getting clsoe & had alot of anger. My mum fell ill with cancer in jan and has gotten bad again at 1st he told me he couldnt be there but now says he will as he does still loves me. He has been dating a girl for 2mths, she was his rebound girl but he says he does like her.

2006-11-02 07:43:57 · 15 answers · asked by M 1

And she is only in 7th grade like me. I know its true because she told me and she is gaining alot of weight and eating alot of food. All I have done with a boy is made out. Am I behind it seems like alot of people my age are having sex. So am I behind in that matter or something?

2006-11-02 07:42:48 · 31 answers · asked by love 1

he wants me to strip for him.. i can do that but i dont know wat to wear...what should i wear??

2006-11-02 07:41:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 07:41:51 · 22 answers · asked by Zita 2

alright i was a work one day and me and my pals were talking about our kids we were talking about babies and this guy that i work with im not going to say his name or what race he is but he said that black babies look better than white babies and that white babies are ugly and that they look the same what do u guys think about that?

2006-11-02 07:40:25 · 12 answers · asked by Tom W 1

I just received a letter from a guy who basically shared some pretty deep feelings for me in it.
I just wrote him back, and in a very kind and loving way i expressed that i did not feel the same, but that i thought very highly of him (which i do).
Is he going to be completely devestaded?? I know what it's like to feel that way, but i do not want to lead him on. I feel bad. Any thoughts?

2006-11-02 07:39:46 · 18 answers · asked by Red 2

My boyfriend gets superhard when we are just fooling around, but when we are getting ready to have sex, he just suddenly goes limp. Neither of us have had this happen before so we dont know why its happening. But whenever he sees me or touches me he gets excited and hard. Why does this change when we are about to have sex?

2006-11-02 07:39:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If yes, does this quote apply to you. Tell me if you are in love or do you just love him/her...

"There are two kinds of couples...
The kind who love each other and...
The kind who are in love with each other...
If you are not the second;
Then your love is not everly...
Your love is just another love"

2006-11-02 07:39:01 · 7 answers · asked by Pudge_Monsta 3

One of my friends is in a REAL bad relationship with her boyfriend. We all know something is wrong and have seen bruises on her arms, but she won't admit to anything. i want to help, or tell someone. What should I do?

2006-11-02 07:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by Shellie 1

i am in bad bad situation...i came down to london to study...recently today i got a marriage proposer and my aunts forcing me to see the guy n she told me if the guy is educated and rich she will say yes to him..i am totally against arrange marriage n i love some one elz over the net and we both meeting this december in new years night..i dont know what to do...my parents are poor and i am totally depending on my aunt...on the other hand my guys frm canada he has canadian rights its just that his from another religion and my parents wont accept him...i am only 20 i dont want to marry now until m independant and educated..

i have no job.. the government have allowed 20 hours job per week in student visa..how can i earn more to feed myself,giv shelter to myself and cover myself with warm clothes if i work and get 400pounds per month...i am helpless i cant go back where i came from and i dont have money to pay for my education as wel:( i am from africa

2006-11-02 07:38:27 · 6 answers · asked by Yasmin 3

Just out of curiousity,would you mind telling me your race please?

2006-11-02 07:38:03 · 13 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3

2006-11-02 07:37:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i am a 5 year football playin girl how do i get more respect.they make jokes and everything because i played football.The boys on my team were made because i started and they didnt...................................HELP ME

2006-11-02 07:37:17 · 3 answers · asked by BeccaH 1

ok so i really like this girl. ive lliked her for about a year now and we talk alot and lately ive been wondering if i should tell her i like her. i flirt with her alot, but its hard to tell with her if she is flirting back or just being her. i really want to tell her but i don't know what she would say or do if she doesn't see me the same way.
i am hesitant to tell he because a few years ago, i was in the same siuation with another girl, and i told her but she didn't like me and we haven't talked at all since.

2006-11-02 07:36:30 · 24 answers · asked by Piano_Man 2