for 2 weeks a guy has called me everyday. no talk of relationship stuff, dating or anything. just an hour or two conversation about music movies work blah blah..... he came home for his week off (he works out of town for 3 weeks and is off for a week) and i didnt hear from him the whole week. he went back to work 3 days ago. i dont understand. he said something about comin to see me on his days off.... what should i think?????
2006-11-02 07:49:30 · 23 answers · asked by i_like_bears 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a user... Just having his fun and now bored...
Move on... Is he calls after this, ignore him...
2006-11-02 07:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should stop thinking about it. There are an infnite number of reasons that this whole situation could be happening... but the important thing is not the situation, it's your reaction to it.
If you like this guy, which it appears you do, just call him. If he blows you off, or acts like he doesn't want to talk, then so be it. If he gives you an honest reason for not calling, like being busy with all of the things he doesn't have time to deal with when he's out of town for 3 weeks out of the month, then let it go, and let him know you want to talk to/see him some time.
It's really not that complicated. What you should think is: This guy seems to like me. I seem to like him. I should do something instead of worrying about it.
2006-11-02 15:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by rainsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not site around waiting on any guy. If he wanted to see you when he came home he would have made plans before returning home. That way he would know if you were available to do something. Sounds like he just wanted someone to talk with and you were available at the right time.
2006-11-02 15:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me ask you a question? If this guy really cares for you in a special way would he have dared to do this to you? Would you do this for someone u really wanted to know? You deserve to be cared for and to be loved and to be made felt special the same way u will do for teh guy that you really care for. I dont feel sorry for you, i actually feel sorry for him because if he treats women this way then he will never find love. You on the other hand have a good chance so please let this guy go and start opening urself to finding the kind of man you really deserve.
2006-11-02 15:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just likes your company on the phone and doesn't want anything serious. You said yourself "no relationship stuff or dating." Kinds rude to tell you he is going to visit and then never shows up though.
2006-11-02 15:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Eldude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like this guy is really sweet and likes you a lot. And even though you hadn't heard from him doesn't mean anything. Just give it a little time. If that doesn't work just call him. What is the worst that could happen.
2006-11-02 15:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Chocol@t3 K!$$3$♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should pay attention to what the guys on here are saying. As you can see we all feel like this guy has something else going on. You had his attention for a minute and now, he's bored.
2006-11-02 15:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by thecraved1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your his home away from home,he just wants someone to talk to while hes away,Hes not interested.
2006-11-02 15:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes, how many times are you going to post this?
Sounds a little obsessive to me. Lay off lady!
2006-11-02 15:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go with your first thought, He went for the sure thing. Sorry
2006-11-02 15:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Wayne E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋