I told my friends that I want until I'm 25 to have sex. I'm 15 now and I want to be completely ready. I will have sex if I am married before then, but people say that I'm taking it too far. I will have boy friends but I just won't sleep with them unless I'm completely, completely sure that they're not just there for sex and we have to be togrther for a looooooooooooooooong time. But I have two questions.
Am I taking sex too seriously with the age thing and all?
And is it true that if I accomplish my goal and be a virgin until the age of 25, no man would want me because they would want a more experienced woman?(A boy told me that, but he was trying to convince me to loose my virginity at the same time. And no he wasn't my boyfriend. But I just want to know if that's true.) I'm a girl. I just have a guy advatar. Just in case you get confused.
2006-11-02 07:57:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sharice, i know how you feel, i'm 23 and still a virgin. When i was your age i felt just as you do. This road is not an easy one because there are lots of temptations along the way but in the end it all depends on you and what you feel is right and not what some idiot trying to get into your pants think. I'm in a wonderful relationship right now and i've never regretted that decision.
2006-11-02 08:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by model-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited until I was 18 to lose my virginity (I was very proud of myself, by the way, for not being a non-virgin in high school) and then I married the guy (I'm divorced now...that was a big mistake). I think that your body is yours and you have complete control over it. Forget what all of the guys you talk to say because they're just way too hormonal to respect you. When you're 25, you'll hopefully already have the right guy in your life and he will respect you just as you are. Don't let anyone else dictate what you do with your body. If you ended up having sex when you didn't want to or you weren't ready, you would regret it for the rest of your life. Stay true to yourself no matter what.
2006-11-02 16:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should always take sex seriously. It is not only physical, but emotional. You should have sex at 25 if you want to because you probably won't feel comfortable if you do now. A man will love you no matter how experienced or inexperienced you are. Don't listen to the haters, follow what you think it is right, ecspecially when dealing with sex.
2006-11-02 16:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No ur not taking it too far. Wait unti lyou are ready, you don't wan to regret your first time. Alot of people do. And the part about a guy not want a virgin is complete bull. It depends on the guy, some steer clear because they think virgins are clingy and others think of it as more of a prize because you are untouched. Most guys i know fall into the second category. Good luck honey.
2006-11-02 16:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by belle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl, you need to cherish it for a long time. i lost mine at 15. you know how you lose things and then a few days, weeks, months or years later you find whatever you lost, this, you cannot get back once it is "lost". but one thing you will have to worry about is the pressure people will put on you. you will have friends that lose it and they will be like "oh man, that was great, you are really missing out" and guys will be like "damn girl, i hella wanna sleep with a virgin". you have to stand up to those types of things, and dont let your guard down. people will try to take it from you if they know how important it is to you, so the less you advertise it, the less stress and pressure you will have.
make a good decision, and email me if you need anything else. glad to help. =]
2006-11-02 16:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by kristeenuhh20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you fell like waiting you defenitely should. 15 is too young to have sex anyways. You probably might change your mind for having sex lets same in 5 years. You might not wait this long, but as long as you feel that way now there's nothing wrong about it. I wasn;t ready to have sex when I was 15 as well. It's great to still see girls that have some good morals!!
2006-11-02 16:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by maya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have very honorable intentions yet they are not based on emotion. When you find the person that makes your heart flutter I do not think you will be worried about what other persons think. If you wish to wait until your twenty five for a relationship of worth you will be putting to much drama on it. What if it just isn't all that with all the spectation of it . Just be sure its love and not just a passing moment and you will be set.
2006-11-02 16:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by nsprdwmn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has their own set of values. Values are things that you believe in. Don't let anybody step on that. As for waiting until 25, you really can't place a time limit on it. Sex is fine if both you and your partner are mature enough and both are educated enough to use protection. In my opinion, sex should come out of love. And we all know that love takes a lot of time (real love, not puppy love)
2006-11-02 16:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Deuce 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you a suggestion on this one .... wait until you are married to have sex. I swore to a lot of people God included that I would wait til marriage to have sex and broke that promise!! The one thing I wish I could take back in my life is the number of people I have slept with and my reasons for doing it.
Stick to your guns! If you friends are trying to discourage you from sticking to your guns then maybe they aren't really your friend!
2006-11-02 16:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Alicia R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh honey! It is your body and your decision. If that is your goal, do it! I have lots of respect for people who can do that. I didn't wait and I regret it. It is such a precious thing to save that for someone special like your husband. Nobody can tell you to give it up but yourself. I would wait until you are married. The right one will appreciate you saved yourself for them. Seek your advise in a church or from someone you trust. And for goodness sakes listen to your heart not horny teenagers. Have a lovely day!
2006-11-02 16:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋