I'm a woman looking for a good guy, but I'm not skinny--not fat but not skinny. I'm super shy to go up to guys I'm interested in because of the whole getting shot down thing. Can you guys help and give some advice and share some guy knowledge?
2006-11-02 07:56:34 · 9 answers · asked by L.A.M.B. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well from my point of view..i would like it if a girl would come up and say hi and then just start a convo. try to find out what they guy you are interested in likes and se if you like the same things, if so then just start a convo about it. say you like nascar and he does too..show your interest in it..i know a few women who love nascar and we talk about it all the time.
2006-11-02 08:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by smartassguy2_68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not a guy, but don't go toothpicky just because it's the latest fashion. I have a figure and I am proud to have curves in all the right places instead of being stick-thin and flat as a board.
As for the shyness...well, you'll never get anywhere if you take no risks in your life. Just try. What's the worse that can happen? I know full-well that it takes a lot to put your pride on the line like that, but the worst result will be a blush. I promise. A few minutes' worth of embarassment, maybe.
2006-11-02 16:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by nereid_queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is advice i give to everyone male or female about how to find that special someone.
You WILL get rejected...accept it because not everyone you like will like you. That's okay because anyone who said they were never rejected is either a liar or asked out one person who said yes. You will never find out and learn unless you crash and burn. Once you master that fear the rest is gained only by experience.
Next tip is do NOT be reckless with other peoples hearts and do NOT PUT UP with people who are reckless with yours. Regrets are the ghosts in your life it's up to you to decide how haunted you will be.
Catching a guy is like fishing looks are the bait but your personality is the net. If a guy can't hold a conversation with you or always wants to get physical then cut bait and find another spot.
Guys are just as shy and confused as you are most of the time and the ones who are confident are either playing you or Mr. Right. You conscience and instinct will always be true follow your conscience and never betray your morals and judgement.
These are small tips if you want more then don't hesitate to e-mail or IM and ask. I'm here to serve.
2006-11-02 16:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like it when a girl is a LITTLE shy- small talk is difficult for both - most!
On the weekend just experiment at the mall go into clothing stores for men or men sections and ask about getting a present you will find that this will help develop stronger personality for yourself. DO NOT WORRY your one in a million with this problem. TRY MY IDEA OK and good luck
2006-11-02 16:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by gallagher g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a normal sized female, I think skinny isnt the best, I like woman with a little meat on them, not fat. example if you were 5ft-3" tall, I think 130lbs to 135lbs is not fat even at 140 would be o,. dress in what makes you feel good, and get an opinion from a good friend.
2006-11-02 16:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This coming from a guy, I know that if a woman approaches me i am more apt to respond than me having to go up to them. I also know that it is hard to approach some one if you are shy. Just remember the least they can do is say no.
2006-11-02 16:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy, you need to get past that... Try talking to guys online and see how things go...
2006-11-02 15:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he looks like a nice person he probably is so just talk to him because he will be flattered that you are interested in him and things will happen from there.
2006-11-03 12:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ben B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a woman with curves is sexy very hot dont worry bout not being skinny
2006-11-02 16:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by hombresteve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋