Well... let me rephrase everything here...
I was just wondering why some women get intimidated by succesful handsome men?
Some women felt they're not on the same level as us or they felt that they're far inferior than us...
They felt they could not keep up with our pace...
Why is that? Aren't they supposed to be very happy having a good (not the no good rich guy type) handsome succesful men falling in love with them?
What more can they expect?
I asked some questions here... a lot of women said... if they could find good natured, good looking, and succesful men... they would snatch them without any second thoughts, but not in reality...
For the good girls: some are suspicious, some are not sure...
Yes, we are succesful... but we don't have any bad intention... we just want to find someone special to share our success with
Aren't they supposed to be very happy having a good (not the no good rich guy type) handsome succesful men falling in love with them?
2006-11-02 07:51:34 · 14 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean... we don't bite... we are at where we at... because of hard work... and eventhough... we're the elite bunch... we don't alienate ourselves from others nor act like a bunch of arrogant bastard...
Why is that? Do women really want to settle for less?
We are no where close to vain...
We're a bunch of fine young executives...
Yet, when we found an ordinary girls... they all felt overwhelmed by our presence...
I don't know why...
That's why we ended up with stupid vain barbie girls or gold diggers... because... all good natured girls were so afraid of us... (they say they could not fit in)
2006-11-02 07:52:36 · update #1
sweet but spicy, yeah... but we don't think that way...
For me... I kept ensuring her, but when they could not fit in, they just could not...
2006-11-02 07:57:02 · update #2
WEll........u have poise and ur succesful like u said so. Compared to u, we think that we're....low standard and we back off. WE're not ready to think that we can be as good as u. WE think that u deserve some1 higher class than us. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-02 07:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps women get scared off my "successful handsome men" because they are overly-egotistical and make women feel as if they are inferior?? I'm not trying to rip on you but it seems that if you think so highly of yourself, maybe girls are just being turned off by that attitude. Of course vain barbie-types would like that because they have the same cocky attitude. Just a thought! Good luck finding a nice girl though!
2006-11-02 15:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was very well written... Try expanding or broadening your horizon. Do something out of the usual.. most successful men are established and set to a routine. You need to break out of that routine in order to have a variety of women. (instead of gold diggers and total b!tches that think you owe them everything you've worked for) Good luck.
2006-11-02 15:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women usually settle with someone that they're use to. What they're life styles are like. Being around someone with a lots of money or success would only make them feel uncomfortable, because they're not sure "how to act"
2006-11-02 15:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women, just want the jerk, and cocky man, sometimes they might not even be that good looking! I guess it's just the way life is... Many successful attractine nice men stay single, because sometimes they are too nice, or/and etc. But yes I know this does not make sense, but it is the truth...
2006-11-02 16:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you arrogant as all get-out? Because that's just as bad. Don't stress too much about it.
Seriously. You can't lump women together like that. We all have our own opinions and personality quirks. Some might certainly be intimidated, but most won't. I guess it depends on where you look.
2006-11-02 15:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by nereid_queen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question. Your egos get in the way. We like real, down to earth, handsome,successful men. Not snobs.
2006-11-02 15:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually look at men like that as a challenge. A challenge to push myself, and show everyone that I am just as good, and can work just as hard as any man can. Don't get me wrong. I love to be spoiled and pampered, but I like my independence, too.
2006-11-02 15:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want a man more successful than me. I'd rather feel powerful than loved, and I wouldn't feel powerful next to someone with more success than me.
2006-11-02 18:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have this all wrong! A real woman is happy in whatever situation. Maybe its you that they are uncomfortable with.
2006-11-02 15:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by qtpie26_1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋